Agree or Disagree? The REAL Reason Most Black Women are Fat

Agree or Disagree? The REAL Reason Most Black Women are Fat

I can’t believe what I’m reading this Sunday morning in the New York Times. Alice Randall wrote in her opinion piece, “Black Women and Fat,” the key reason 4 out of 5 black women are fat is because…get this…THEY WANT TO BE.

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I can’t believe what I’m reading in the New York Times this Sunday morning. Alice Randall, a writer in residence at Vanderbilt University and the author of “Ada’s Rules,” wrote in her opinion piece, “Black Women and Fat,” the key reason 4 out of 5 black women are fat is because…get this…THEY WANT TO BE.

How many white girls in the ’60s grew up praying for fat thighs? I know I did. I asked God to give me big thighs like my dancing teacher, Diane. There was no way I wanted to look like Twiggy, the white model whose boy-like build was the dream of white girls. Not with Joe Tex ringing in my ears.

Randall also argues that black women use fat as a statement of political resistance.

And it’s not only aesthetics that make black fat different. It’s politics too. To get a quick introduction to the politics of black fat, I recommend Andrea Elizabeth Shaw’s provocative book “The Embodiment of Disobedience: Fat Black Women’s Unruly Political Bodies.” Ms. Shaw argues that the fat black woman’s body “functions as a site of resistance to both gendered and racialized oppression.” By contextualizing fatness within the African diaspora, she invites us to notice that the fat black woman can be a rounded opposite of the fit black slave, that the fatness of black women has often functioned as both explicit political statement and active political resistance.

Get fat and get back at the man! Let’s be the anti-ideal! Who cares if we get diabetes, cancer, stroke and heart disease! Obesity is KOOL, like those cigarettes!

But don’t think Randall is advocating black women perpetuate these ideals. Rather, she’s all about a cultural change, and I back her 1,000,000%.

WE have to change. Black women especially. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, blacks have 51 percent higher obesity rates than whites do. We’ve got to do better. I’ve weighed more than 200 pounds. Now I weigh less. It will always be a battle.

So here’s her fat-black-lady challenge. Read it, and pass it on:

I call on every black woman for whom it is appropriate to commit to getting under 200 pounds or to losing the 10 percent of our body weight that often results in a 50 percent reduction in diabetes risk. Sleeping better may be key, as recent research suggests that lack of sleep is a little-acknowledged culprit in obesity. But it is not just sleep, exercise and healthy foods we need to solve this problem — we also need wisdom.

Weight loss is not about “man-catching,” although let’s face it, IT DON’T HURT!

It’s time we DISMISS with the notion that “curves” is a euphemism for “blubber.” I KNOW it’s not easy. At 38 (almost 39) my body wants to be fat. I have to exercise regularly–like three-five times a week. I gave up sugar. I take an ungodly amount of vitamins. WHATEVA!!! I work HARD, and I FEEL great. My mother, on the other hand, had so much belly fat that she not only got diabetes, but hormone-resistant breast cancer. Now a widow, if she gives herself too much insulin she becomes frantic and paranoid. She recently called the sheriff’s department because a bird was pecking at her window and she thought it might be a burglar, being polite and knocking first before he robbed her blind. The authorities never showed up, and now there’s probably a note in the system about the poor old diabetic paranoid lady who calls the police because the sky is falling.

I will not have that for my life. The question is, how many of you will, just by default? It’s time ladies of the 200+ crowd. It’s time.

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Brenda55 21018 pts moderator

http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/05/07/women-weight-and-wellness/enough-with-the-stereotypes-of-fat-and-thin-people

 

The above is a link to a debate re. Ms. Randell's recent  Op Ed piece in the NYT.

 

 Erika Nicole Kendall's response was my favorite. 

Christelyn 9256 pts moderator

LOVE the comments. They calling out that writer on her delusional B.S.  Brenda55 

SirLoinDeBeef 2668 pts

 Brenda55 Keeping in mind that I love this lady at the weight she is right now - should she choose to loose 10, 20, 35 or 50 lbs, I would continue to love her at that weight - if she should, by some misfortune, gain ia all back, I would continue to love my lady-wyfe.

I married her for the WHOLE GIRL, of which weight plays only a small part.

Karla00 382 pts

The bottom line is this- obesity is responsible for increased rates of stroke, heart attack, type II diabetes, and even some forms of cancer. In fact it is responsible for as many premature deaths as smoking. Obesity has now become a threat to our longevity. So the ball is in your court!

Karla00 382 pts

I hate to say this but when a certain magazine blew up a picture of Gabriel Sidibe and portrayed her as the new face of black women I was floored. Most might think that I'm being mean but being that large isn't cute and it's certainly not healthy.

Lili2009 1850 pts

 Karla00 What magazine was that? The pride she has in her look is just disturbing. 

Karla00 382 pts

 Lili2009 The same kind of pride that Mo'Nique had but is now fighting to lose the weight. Absolutely disgusting!

Oneof thegirls 214 pts

 Karla00 I remember Monique's over the top miss F.A.T.  Some of the women were huge, not thick. I was amazed.

Karla00 382 pts

 Oneof thegirls Sad indeed...

ChristieRJohnson 1144 pts

I've been reading some of these comments and I'm slowly getting angry.  Not because I disagree, but how little is taught about our bodies being ours and ours alone.  I don't mean to get on a rant and if it goes a little off topic, Chris, I'm sorry.

At what point did the lesson of our bodies belong to us get lost?  This not only includes this conversation, but previous topics that have come up on this board.  Who told us our bodies belong to the BC, to the world, to everyone but ourselves?  And why did we believe it?

My body and what I choose to do with it,  is not a political statement.  I was fat, I chose to lose it and it was difficult, but I did it.  I don't look down on anyone who is bigger; I don't know there story.  Some don't know how; some have issues, medical or otherwise, and some are perfectly happy.  Those that want help, will seek it and, as some one who has lost weight, if they want my help; I'm happy to give it.  I will do that, not out of love for the BC, but out of love for human beings and just being a cool person.

On the abuse topic, for those that survived, I'm sorry that no one stood up for you.  That is crying F shame that the BC really needs to address.  Again, your body belongs to you and that is not being taught.  If it was, maybe this would be less of a problem.  Bodies change, it's a part of puberty.  And to turn around and use that against a girl is, like she deserves it because she was born a girl; is shame, a disgrace, and God love you for sharing your story.  God bless you for surviving and thriving.  I have two nieces and if I ever catch wind of anything of that sort, I will make them wish that their Daddy have worn a condom.  I'm dead serious.  No one deserves that.

These are our bodies.  If you choose to lose weight, for whatever reason, that is up to you.  If you choose not, that is also up to you.  But the idea of what I choose to do, with what is mine being up for debate because of my race, honestly ticks me off.  

Again, sorry for the rant.  I don't mean to be disagreeable.  This is just how I'm feeling, no disrespect.

CarlaRose 240 pts

 ChristieRJohnson  To play the Devils advocate, obesity does cost a great deal in terms of the skyrocketing cost of medical care, especially for many diseases that are preventable that's caused by obesity.  Then we have friends and family who have to emotionally (and sometimes financially) deal with the choices we make.  What about children who are obese and have no control over what their parents feed them? We don't live on an island to ourselves. 

ChristieRJohnson 1144 pts

 CarlaRose Unfortunately, children are the property of their parents until they are 18.  Courts are battling now if obese children are a sign of endangerment.  

No matter how a choice effect those around them, it is still up to the individual to make a choice.  No one can make a choice for you and let's face it, most people choose what is easy or what they know, no matter the consequences.  For those that it effects, they have the freedom (adults anyway), to make a choice.

yvonnelee 195 pts

Considering that BM are renowned for liking fat women or at least being the most tolerant of large women I can’t understand why any woman would think putting on weight would deter BM. I always see fat and slim girls alike being sexually harassed by BM on the street.

 

I think most BW are fat because they can be as our culture and the media has normalised obesity. I agree we need a cultural change.  

 

Avoc42883 1269 pts

I was watching a Tyler Perry Movie (I know, I know), Madea's Family Reunion a while back.  During the big reunion scene, there's one part where the younger girls are walking around in booty shorts and their Family Reunion shirts tied up right under their breasts.  One of the girls is particularly curvy so Grandpa asks her to bend over and get him a nice cold soda, right at the bottom of the bucket while grandpa and all the uncles leer at her.  Then an uncle asks her to get him a soda at the bottom too and they resume leering.  This sort of behavior is so normalized that Mr. Perry, a victim of sexual abuse himself, put it right in his film and played it for laughs.

 

Our bodies are public property from the time we hit puberty.  We are leered at, we are poked at and now articles about our bodies, sorry our "health" are being published in publications with a majority non-black female readership, because the writer just cares so much that she allowed her work to be published somewhere the people who need to read it won't see it, and if they do, they will scroll down to tons of comments calling them ugly, disgusting, rude, aggressive and just plain useless, again, all under the guise of "concern".  Its like talking about someone behind their back.

 

And then we wonder why some women are so defensive?  I want to see more black women healthy, especially the older ones, but this is a conversation is one that needs to be had in a safe space, the Times and the Washington Post simply aren't it.  and I'm side-eyeing the hell out of every black writer that has these sorts of pieces in those sorts of publications.

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CarlaRose 240 pts

 Matrix12  Avoc42883 In the same breath turn around and say that's a "white problem". 

Jamila 7704 pts moderator

 Matrix12  CarlaRose  Avoc42883 What movie was this?

harleyq2 190 pts

 Avoc42883

 "but this is a conversation is one that needs to be had in a safe space, the Times and the Washington Post simply aren't it.  and I'm side-eyeing the hell out of every black writer that has these sorts of pieces in those sorts of publications."

 

I am a little confused about this statement. Where would you consider a "safe place" to have this conversation? and why being suspicious of the black writers? I think the mistake is believing that these major publications do not have large enough black readership who may have a wake up call. There is no specific black oriented mass media besides BET that will be able to reach a wide population (assuming everyone has cable). Afterall, obesity is not just a black poor person problem it relates to the black population throughout the country. So to read a large majority then you need source with such a capability. You also need people who are a part of the community to talk about the issue as weel.

harleyq2 190 pts

 Avoc42883

 typos "reach" not read. "Well" not weel 

ann4950 732 pts

I understand the weight gain in order to feel more protected from the "elements" in the neighborhood.

When we understand the reason why we gain weight the better it is for us to lose it.  I believe Oprah had a similar reason for gaining weight, in a sense protection.  It is good to talk about weight gain because it is not simply about the food.  Most people over eat to mask their pain. Of course, not realizing that the extra weight will bring its own issues.  Do the best you can to face your issues and move on to greener pastures.  And, do not feel guilty because you are moving on.

DarlingNikki69 319 pts

I do not advocate losing weight to get a man, but I do understand the sentiment.  All men are different, and so what is attractive to one man may not be to another. Yes, you open up your options which is great, and is actually a better all encompassing objective than just appealing to a hot guy. When you seek to expand your options that can touch all areas of your life from jobs, dating, travelling, friendships, hobbies etc. You may feel less self conscious if you are healthier, and feel more confident about your appearance.

 

There were several reasons for my weight gain. I was blessed with a beautiful mother (size 6 before pregnancy, gained 14 pounds with me, and got down to a size 4 after I was born.) who relatives constantly compared me too. She also put me on diets, which I rebelled against. She did it for my benefit, and she was and is an incredible, mother and grandmother. It just compounded things that were going on around me.

 

I had a grandfather that sexually abused me, and I slept with a 22 year old at the time I was 14. He completely humiliated me in front of all of his friends, who then thought I should be there plaything. When I wasn't they decided to tell everyone that I did it anyway. It was disturbing. Of course the rumour got back to my grandmother who told me about it in front of the entire family. It was messy from start to finish.

 

The grandfather that I went to visit on my 16th birthday used to make inappropriate comments about my body  when my step-grandmother wasn't around.  You know how I found out who John C. Holmes was? He told me, and we proceeded to watch a movie of his. It was one of the most uncomfortable moments of my life. There were more uncomfortable moments to come courtesy of gramps. It was disgusting, and scary. The boys in the neighborhood (he and his wife lived in south central Los Angeles at the HEIGHT  of the crack epidemic) would try to come at me, but he wouldn't have that. He made comments about being a whore, etc. He even showed me his penis, and made comments about it. Then told me he was just joking around when he realized how terrified I was.

 

I say all this to say, that when I had the more attractive figure t'hat men tended to think that I had no right to say 'no'. I had NO VOICE. None. I was just a body, or atleast I felt that way.So putting on the weight was an automatic no, though there were times when I wanted to say yes. I stopped taking care of myself, gained weight, and just generally lost all interst in being feminine.

 

I'm working on reclaiming myself, and learning that it is my right to say 'no' at any given point in time, especially when it involves my body.

 

So political statements be damned, I was simply trying to have some peice of mind.

 

Sorry so long

Christelyn 9256 pts moderator

 DarlingNikki69 Oh. My. God. Nikki, email me offline karazin AT gmail DOT COM if you need any help at all! I mean it. I can arrange for you to get a care package from different sponsors. This is so incredibly horrific...wish I could wield a hammer at all those men that hurt you.

DarlingNikki69 319 pts

 Christelyn

 Thank you. I will write you.  I can't change any of it. There is more, believe it or not. It's actually much easier to talk about this online than in person. Even with a therapist its tough....

Oneof thegirls 214 pts

 DarlingNikki69  It seems alot of women have put on weight in order to become unattractive. Its a subconscious thins. The last time a post about black women's weight was on the site. I saw someone include a link about the high number of bw who have been molested and the possible link between the fat and the feeling of being unworthy. However I do believe much of it is simply poor diet. The sad thing about this is that once again, our race is being put out there. We are at the bottom and the easiest to attack. I am sick of this country.

zipporah 1921 pts

@Oneof thegirls @DarlingNikki69 its not just this country its probably the ENTIRE WESTERN WORLD--yes they are trying to put something over on BW for a REASON don't sweat it--just be your sweet self---it's just an 'okey doke'

Oneof thegirls 214 pts

 zipporah  as a black woman that ha lived in other areas of the world, I can say blacks here  continually stand out. I see news in particular about bw alot in this country.

ann4950 732 pts

 Oneof thegirls

 But, why the poor diet?  Is it really just about a meal plan?

ann4950 732 pts

 DarlingNikki69

 Remember, those things that happened to you were NOT YOUR FAULT.

I hope you are seeking counselling.

Take care.

Lili2009 1850 pts

 DarlingNikki69 Hi DarlingNikki69, Thank you for sharing your story. It is horrific, and it's given me a whole new perspective on this issue. Needless to say, I'm really sad and disgusted that this happened to you. From your post, I like this statement the best:

 

"I'm working on reclaiming myself, and learning that it is my right to say 'no' at any given point in time, especially when it involves my body."  

 

Keep going! 

VintageNarcissa 3152 pts

The idea of anyone, including black women being overweight as a political statement is ludicrous. Most people who have problems with their weight period, whether it be too heavy or too thin either have behaviorally trained themselves to eat too much (or too little) or have some kind of mental stronghold which manifests itself physically. On the overweight side, it also does not help that the body is in fact hardwired to like fats and sugars which were once scarce and now that they are in abundance have become an Achilles heel to people as a whole. Honestly, it is not surprising to me that blacks have such high rates of weight problems. We aren't given, nor do we demand the proper options. It's obvious fast food is not going anywhere fast, but white areas often at least have the option between Coronary Cafe and the Salad bar. 

 

I happen to live in a black neighborhood and there is this one strip of major road that can be cleared in about 15-20 minutes by car with no traffic. On this strip alone there are multiples of the same well known fast food chains, two to three times over. Here's a general rundown: 

 

You get off of the train station and immediately within the intersection is a Popeye's, McDonalds, Subway and Golden Krust. You drive down to the first major intersection and there's a White Castle, go a little further there's a KFC, a Subway (2), a Wendy's and a Dunkin Donuts. A little further and there's a Dominos, a McDonald's (2), a little further to the third major intersection and there's a Popeye's (2) and a Golden Krust (2). You drive for a little past about 2 or 3 other major intersections and there are other well known fast food joints, like up and coming burger places, but not the major hitters than I can remember off the top of my head. Then you come to a major highway junction where there is a McDonald's (3), Wendy's (2), Popeye's (3) and KFC (2) all within cross walk distance of each other. Past this is more of a residential area but its not long before you come upon the where the road merges into another major road leading to the mall. Before hitting the mall where possibly all of these chains as well as others are also congregated, there is a Burger King and a Dunkin Donuts (2). As I said, this list does not even include the smaller, un-franchised fast food places and other lesser known chains that have popped up in recent years. But there are *NO* chain stores aimed toward healthier options (I suppose you can count Subway but honestly I don't because of the processed, sodium laden meat and the high chance of over eating if you order a whole sub, chips and or cookies). But I digress...

 

However, when you go into Manhattan, despite all of these chains being in equal proximity to one another, there are also healthy and delicious alternatives, Au Bon Pon, Cosi, Pret a Manger (personal favorite), Heart and Hearty (don't know if I'm saying that one right), and a ton more well know and lesser known sandwich, soup and salad places. I would even count Chipolte in there because their meats are cruelty free, salads are a major option and they also offer brown rice. And not to mention all of the Whole Foods, Trader Joes and other health based grocery stores. I only know of one Trader Joes in Brooklyn, and it is of course downtown/in a white neighborhood. I am very curious to find out what's going to happen now that a lot of these major black neighborhoods are becoming gentrified and more whites are moving in. I personally don't plan to be there for much longer, but if I do leave and a Whole Foods pops up within decent traveling distance I will be up-set! 

 

But regardless of our situation, I believe wholly that everyone should be striving for health. Whatever that means to them. Because I don't believe that everyone should be pigeonholed into becoming super skinny if thats not what they desire. As long as you are within the healthy weight range for your height, I believe you're solid. Going beyond that for whatever aesthetic, fitness reasons is purely personal. I know for me, I most enjoy being very slim and muscular. But that is because I take performance into account not just aesthetics. I am becoming increasingly more active and I want to be able to keep up with the activities on which I embark.  

 

Unfortunately, I suppose, I also believe in Darwin's law and survival of the fittest. And while we can do what we can to encourage others to get healthy, ultimately those who do not care to listen will suffer the consequences. After enough telling, and it's not like it's not out there. It's not like there is not a myriad of information that people can even seek out for themselves. If people don't want to listen. I fail to see why dead horse should be beaten. I know we are all about cleaning up the image of black women. But I personally don't want to spend too much time worrying about others when I focusing my energies on making myself and those around me who are conscious to the cause the glowing examples. Ironically, as we discuss again and again how much black women resist health and exercise, I have an on going conversations with tons of friends and acquaintances on facebook about their various health journies. Some losing weight, some getting fit and healthy, some becoming vegetarian/vegan, some just getting the gym bug. But ironically enough the vast majority of them are black women. That is one thing that saddens me is that these stories pop up do not take into account that there are many, many black women who are in fact striving to change for the better.

 

I feel it will be a very long time, before black women are stripped of this ridiculous stigma; if ever honestly. It definitely won't happen in any of our lifetimes. I feel the best thing we can all do is live according to our own ideals, and realize that these outlets are simply grasping onto sensationalism to keep themselves relevant. 

dasdbobb 1418 pts

@VintageNarcissa I did some reserch, on white vs brown........rice that is, here is the result. http://www.symptomfind.com/nutrition-supplements/brown-rice-vs-white-rice/

Black Women With Other Brothers 1656 pts

 VintageNarcissa You wrote a lot and I agree with most of it. Its true that in many hoods there is a lack of fresh foods. However, those same (fat) women carpool to the club, disco or shopping mall for the latest fashions, carpool to get their hair done!

 

Then, they can carpool to the big box grocery store, carpool to the farmers market.

That is, if they prioritize their health and the health of their children

MySmile 4299 pts

This is random...but what is she eating in the picture? Bologna? lol

Toni_M 20126 pts moderator

 MySmile I think it's ham.

dasdbobb 1418 pts

@Toni_M @MySmile I just like the look of guilt on her face, and the way she is sitting in front of an open fridge on the floor! Oh-oh, BUSTED!, again. roflmao

MySmile 4299 pts

 Pearl  I know! A cupcake would have been way better! I'm glad she's eating ham though...bologna is disgusting lol

MySmile 4299 pts

 Matrix12 I <3 TYT (the people talking on this one). I saw this picture before! I tried my best to block this image out of my mind!!! :-( Excuse me while I take a throw up break. lol

Toni_M 20126 pts moderator

Between the departed troll and certain other comments that have conveniently popped up within the same time frame, I'd say a pathetic attempt at an "okey-doke"/"gotcha" is under way.

 

To which I say: 

 

Some people will do and say anything to protect a mindset that is poisonous because it's easier to exist in a limited situation than to change, even if that change is for the better. Don't be fooled. You can't make other people make progressive changes. I've already decided I'm not fighting people who don't want to better themselves physically, mentally, and emotionally. I take them at their word that they are "happy", even if it's evident that they are not. 

 

When they intend to use their "happiness" to stifle other people from calling for change in how black women carry themselves, that's when I call foul.

 

 

You go live in your hole in the ground and write "denial" on your forehead. And then SHUT UP. That's right, I said it. SHUT. UP.

 

 

Do not creep into spaces like this pandering your propaganda, trying to call foul on the naked truth: Many black women have a twisted image of self-respect and self-confidence built on the denial of their womanhood because they are not allowed to see themselves as women as other groups see themselves as women, and are forced to cooperate with their own othering either to escape from abuse or to make them better targets for abusers.

 

If you don't want it for yourself, fine. If you don't want it for others, jump into the lake: This isn't about you. 

 

Positive change means facing the truth about why many black women are unhealthy inside and out, and then working to correct that. You can be content to lie to yourself if you want to. That's your choice. But not everyone is obligated to follow you into shoving their head into the dirt and refusing to consider that any change might well be worth it in terms of their lifestyle and overall health.

 

Just a thought for "persons" who think that they can creep in and comment and no one is paying attention to them.

Christelyn 9256 pts moderator

 Toni_M TONI!! Moderator swagger looks GOOD on you! ;-)

Toni_M 20126 pts moderator

 Christelyn  I'm wondering if you've been linked somewhere just now because we seem to be having a sudden influx of people on older posts. O_o

 

 

Christelyn 9256 pts moderator

Might be. With the book coming out I'm expecting it will get might busy around here. Gonna need 24 watchmen! Toni_M 

Toni_M 20126 pts moderator

 Christelyn  Oh my, I hadn't even considered that. Things are going to be interesting, that's for sure.

BeautyIAM 1409 pts

 Toni_M 

 

I really do appreciate the moderating that goes on :).

Toni_M 20126 pts moderator

 BeautyIAM  Well I'm kind of a newborn in that regard, but I definitely agree. :D

 

Props to our mods!

MySmile 4299 pts

 Toni_M I just want to make sure you all know I wasn't trying to do anything like that with my comments. I'm losing weight and I support other women doing the same. I'm just having trouble with the whole "lose weight to find a man" thing.. I guess that's the motivation some people need but it's not for me. Of course, it is more attractive (and healthier) to be at an average weight! People have different opinions on this matter and other subjects. It doesn't always mean they have an agenda.

BeautyIAM 1409 pts

I'm embarrassed that this article was in the New York Times.

 

Why do articles like this make it seem like its 10x more wore if you are an over weight black woman than anyone else?

 

I think that Americans as a whole need to face this challenge of obesity. I am all for educating people from all walks of life about the dangers of being over weight/obese.

 

 

Black Women With Other Brothers 1656 pts

 BeautyIAM "Why do articles like this make it seem like its 10x more wore if you are an over weight black woman than anyone else?"

 

Cause obese BW get dissed! We all know about white privledge...WW can be fat and obese and they remain the protected class and BW are not the protected class and furthermore, obese mothers raise obese children.

 

This IS a Black thing. We can't pretend otherwise. And those other races are not out there protecting and defending obese black women, on the contrary.  The same culture that encourages BW to be 'thick' disses them for being obese.

MySmile 4299 pts

I think black people are just not armed with the right information. Many people don't even know how bad certain foods & drinks are for you. They started eating and drinking that stuff as children so they just continue into their adulthood. My parents did not allow all that junk in their house. Even though my mother was hard on me, I'm glad she promoted a healthy lifestyle. She never bought kool-aid or sugary drinks unless we had guests. We ate wheat bread and brown rice. She did not buy little Debbie snack cakes or Twinkies. She didn't drown her food in seasoning. She always brought fruits and fixed vegetables or a salad. She works out on a regular basis. Most people think she's 30 when she's over 50!

 

Americans are to the point where we just eat whatever tastes good and is quick to make! Many think of it as too much work to find things that taste good AND are good for you. Also, we are forever looking forward to our next meal. If you add that with low socioeconomic status, no health insurance, denial about health problems, a sedentary lifestyle, apathy towards weight and health, or other factors....and black people have got a huge problem on their hands! My problem wasn't really the food I was eating, it was how much I was eating!!! I have gotten better though. I am slightly overweight (at least clinically..idk about visually) but without proper knowledge I may have been morbidly obese.

Black Women With Other Brothers 1656 pts

 MySmile I think, some of us are just lazy and want to eat what we want, there's alot of info out there, dieting shows, the Biggest Loser, Oprahs yo-yo dieting etc. BP are very aware of this yet some of us CHOSE to be fat CHOSE to eat crap food -cause it taste good!

 

If I could, I'd eat fried chicken wings with buttered grits with gravy every single night and my common sense tells me its bad for my body. So I don't.

 

Even now, being thin and or fit is considered, in some Black communities, to be a 'white thing'.