Anybody Find Love Through Online Gaming or Apps?

Anybody Find Love Through Online Gaming or Apps?

Anybody hook up meeting someone you’d been battling “World of Warcraft” with?

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It’s just something I’ve been chewing on for awhile. And since February is the commercially-appointed month of luv, I’m curious if there’s some unique ways you can find love online besides the date sites and Facebook. It’s entirely possible, right? Take eight-year-old Clo Clo for instance. She is addicted to Club Penguin and virtually hangs out with other kids all over the world, so she tells me. I was a little concerned about Philippe’05, who kept following my daughter’s avitar into igloos. She’s all, “Me and Philippe are getting a place together! We’re both collecting enough money to buy furniture.” And then I’m all, “Who is Philippe? Tell him you don’t shack up with anybody unless he puts a ring on it.” And then she’s all, “Put a ring on what?” And then I’m all, “Don’t you have Beyonce on your Ipod? Whatever, tell Philippe to get his own igloo and come downstairs and get this math work done.”

It got me to thinking–if Clo Clo and Philippe’o5 can make a connection, I’m wondering if young adults, zombie-like in their internet gaming addictions, have found their truth loves. And if so, what do they do when they finally hook up? Do they still engage in e-battles of blood and gore on separate laptops while nestled together on the loveseat? Do they take breaks and actually make out and stuff?

And what type of rainbeau games online? Asian? Caucasian? Indian? African? Who he be? Do we even care? Could be he might be laying up living in somebody’s igloo somewhere.

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Mark_H 232 pts

Hook-ups YES, love NO. Same with chat rooms and cyber. Overall, just not an environment conducive to creating rich, long term relationships.

Jehenna 18 pts

Two anecdotes:

My best friend met her husband playing Everquest. They now have three children, and have been married about five years. Very good relationship. Both same race, but were from different countries - he moved from UK to Sweden to be with her, then after baby one was one year old, they moved back to UK together.

I met my husband while working for an MMO company, so we both played, although we didn't meet while playing, if that makes sense. We still play together, though I prefer different games to him. He has great personal hygiene, plays ice hockey and does capoeira, is sensitive, caring and able to hold his own socially (though he doesn't drink so he tends to avoid situations where alcohol is seen as necessary, as do I).

I started on these games in 1997 or so, when I was 22, so now at 36, I'm meeting more and more people who are gaming and in their thirties or forties (sometimes older), many married or partnered, and many with kids. My experience has been that MMOs in particular are more like sporting venues in the kind of people they attract - sure there might be a lot of teenagers at a Leafs vs Habs game, but there are going to be other people there too who are interested in the game. MMOs are not just for kids anymore, nor are they exclusive to gamer nerds. The demographic is very large.

And because that demographic is large, you're looking for a specific kind of fish in a big ocean, much like you are anywhere else. It's no longer the best place to hang out if you want to find the tech nerds to date.

And just on another note there, some of the most driven people I've ever met worked at that MMO company - extremely long hours, very dedicated to their role, to the product, and to their customers. I know the stereotypes - and yes, some of them are still like that. But I think we need to move past the "unwashed social retard in mother's basement" theme.

Jules1 152 pts

My sister used to play Facebook poker and she had a few time where guys hit her up to get to know each other better, she never followed through though. I suppose it is possible, but I can't see hardcore gamers being too interested in romance, they just seem more in love with their electronics than anything else.

AmourelleCorley 52 pts

I play xbox all the time and there are definitely alot of different types of people on there some good some bad and some crazy. Every type of culture imaginable plays games and the potential is there to make a connection with someone, but not without some caution of course.I've met friends through there as well.

SirLoinDeBeef 553 pts

Back in the day (1950's), my mom (now deceased) used to say that I wasted so much time with my nose in a book, reading that 'escapist' science-fiction - it had nothing on computers and gaming.

amiar10 158 pts

Eesh, how did I miss this post? It's right up my alley. Anywho...

I met my current boyfriend while browsing LikeALittle. He happened to be passing by me with a friend in the student union, saw what was on my screen, and struck up a conversation about it. Nerdy jokes were cracked, geeky interests were shared, and the rest is history. It took almost a year for us to actually go out, but that's another story :)

Pearl 2249 pts

I have actually, well not love but a very good friend ship. It wasn't online but kind of like a game that allows you to play online through PS3. He lives in Ohio and he's a jack*ss that I enjoy arguing with.

Law Wanxi 3262 pts

Best place in the world to find the elusive and fabulous "Lives In His Mother's Basement" soap dodger demographic!

Nonya 127 pts

Law Wanxi

Add sunlight avoider (due to several hours spent indoors gaming away) and more likely to lack adequate social skills (due to extreme nerdiness+shyness+reclusiveness) to the stats for that demographic. ...Just not my idea of fun and I'd prefer a partner who gets me and about.

Brenda55 4316 pts moderator

Law Wanxi I have a nephew who fits this description. Quite frankly he is doing women a favor by hanging in the basement living playing his games and surfing the net.

I also agree with Nonya's description. I'll add these guys a usually self centered and miss a lot of social cues and lack empathy. This is not nerdyness or shyness. There really is something wrong with the person. Best to leave them alone.

SirLoinDeBeef 553 pts

Brenda55Law Wanxi Brenda55 is being nice & restrained - I personally know of these two slackers - opportunities galore for them, outside - but, for their mom, no housework, repairwork, nada, nothing!

Bellatrix79 123 pts

Law Wanxi I did like one guy, but he was exactly how you described them. I wish he spent all of those hours being productive and meeting people.

MadamCJCPA 725 pts

I asked my husband since he is an online gamer, and he said that there is one couple in his guild that hooked up and got married after meeting via Everquest (that's the game). The couple apparently do game together via their two desktop computers that occupy the same room, so yes a couple that kills and raids together stays together.

As for the successful chances of it, I personally would not recommend it; these games nowadays are overrun with annoying teenagers the world over, and unless you are a die hard gamer that is willing to invest numerous hours of playing time in front of a computer screen the chances of meeting a compatible man is slim to none.