Modern Millennial Women are Absolutely Deluding Th...

I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I’d bought a subscrip... READ MORE

A Teachable Moment Happened Last Night on the R...

Last night's episode of "Bachelorette" gave us a teachable moment on how, when black women have choices, they use them.... READ MORE

Meet Aaron Groben: Actor, “Jesus Freak,̶...

As I continue to gather sources for the upcoming, GROUNDBREAKING series, “The Pros and Cons: Dating White Men,” here’s yet another u... READ MORE

QOTW: “Is The State of Marriage Different fo...

The Question: Hi Chris!! I know everyone starts their messages/questions like this but I really do appreciate your videos and I appreciate them as som... READ MORE

Open Thread: Do You Strive to Be ‘Hot’...

Close your eyes. Okay; don’t close your eyes because if you do you won’t be able to read this. But just take a moment to picture a really ... READ MORE

Why Rachel Lindsey and Newsweek Show That “S...

I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it’s publish date, it was met with excitement,... READ MORE

3 Detox Secrets to Get You Skin Sexy and Glowing f...

Are you ready to for all the skin you’re going to show this summer? Are you working to look like this?     Then you better get going, ... READ MORE

Open Thread: First Impressions of “Bachelore...

Last night we had a live hangout to watch the historic premiere of the first black “Bachelorette.” My first impression is…it’s... READ MORE

Black Women: Smart About Education, Dumb About Mar...

Before you read this, I know that some of you might be offended. I don’t care. It’s time black women separate by two classes--the savvies ... READ MORE

5 Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!

We’re loving these couples we’ve found on Instagram…be sure to share your favorites for consideration in the upcoming weeks! Have a ... READ MORE

New Research About Interracial Marriage May Surpri...

The Pew Research Center released some interesting data one month before we celebrate 50 years of legalized interracial marriage in the United States. ... READ MORE

[Video] You Won’t Believe the Choices the Ne...

We are cautiously optimistic about the first black “Bachelorette,” because many of us were worried that the producers would stick her with... READ MORE

Meet Me in Los Angeles at the Mixed/Remixed Festiv...

Is it almost Loving Day again?! Yes!! I’m planning on spending the entire day (June 10) at the Mixed/Remixed Festival in Los Angeles, California... READ MORE

My Daughter, Doll Choices, and Colorism.

My mother and I have an arrangement of sorts when it comes to Mother’s Day. On alternate years, we trek up to the high desert for a two hour dri... READ MORE