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New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose Racism And Be Attracted To White Men?”

I've been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip black … [Read more...]

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Black Women Who Seek To Eliminate Themselves “Out Of Love”

I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from … [Read more...]

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White Feminist Pretending To Be “Concerned” for Asian Women Marrying White Men…Yeah Right!

UPDATE!!!!!!! It is all a hoax ladies and gentleman the source article is a Hoax. "Anne Gus" is really a guy who was outed after posting an … [Read more...]

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Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK … [Read more...]

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You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind “Feminism”

In my previous article on the whole "gold digger" meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the word gold … [Read more...]

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Know What ‘Empowerment’ Really Means? It Means I’m Not Your Mammy

I made a few resolutions for this year. For example, I would try to be less confrontational and not expend energy in pointless arguments. Another … [Read more...]

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Toni: Desirable educated black women who don’t exercise their options are dying out. LITERALLY.

I find it absolutely hilarious that we get black woman after black woman writing all these open letters and blog posts about how they only want a … [Read more...]

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Toni: “Don’t Judge” = “Help Me Save Face”

Any Twilight Zone fans out there? "Neither sympathy nor compassion can be handed out wholesale like cheap bubblegum." This is a quote from the … [Read more...]

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Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men

Dear "I'm Here To Find My Black Queen" Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. :) I see that more and … [Read more...]

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Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

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“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will Scare Them Away!” O_o

I don't know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring women … [Read more...]

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Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

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Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]