11 Jun 12

Eyes Wide Shut: Ignoring Reality In The Name of &#...

Question: Have you observed persons encouraging a sense of spiritual naivety in black girls rather than preparing them for real issues? How do you fee...
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09 Jun 12

Um….Who are you?: Why that grudge you’...

Do you hold grudges? If not, what is your secret to letting things go?...
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08 Jun 12

I might be crazy: Long hair on a guy as a *turn on...

Why I love guys with long hair?...
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04 Jun 12

Claiming vs. Exclusion Part 2: Discrimination in I...

Are we all on the same team?...
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02 Jun 12

Recognizing the Necessity and Importance of Dark-S...

I don't know when it happened exactly, but one day, I was looking at television and it hit me: "Where are all the dark-skinned women?"...
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28 May 12

I might be crazy: Being a fan of Kpop, Jpop and As...

So.....Any other black of Asian music, dramas, and pop culture? What are your experiences? Got a favorite artist? ...
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23 May 12

Mean Mug: Do Black Women NEED to Smile more?

Say, "CHEESE!!"...
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23 May 12

BEWARE of the “Polite” Poisoner

"The polite poisoner comes in the form of "the voice of reason" with a civil manner, a person that offers an "alternate point of view" or in the role ...
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21 May 12

The Gift of Shame (Part 1): Is a Little Shame ...

Toni argues that a little shame can be a good thing....
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19 May 12

I Might Be Crazy: Life As An African American Fema...

Soccer players are so dang HAWT!...
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17 May 12

Move away from the bull’s-eye part 3: Taking a b...

Picking up where I left off in part 2, I want to speak to why so many black women, no matter how intelligent, successful and yes, interracial relation...
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14 May 12

Keeping the Race Together or Keeping You Under Con...

Christelyn's new book is on the threshold of release as I'm typing this. And with that news comes the necessary promotion and word spreading you expec...
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11 May 12

Move away from the Bull’s-eye Part 2.5: Realizin...

(First and second parts are here)   Before I move on to part three (indoctrination), I wanted to mention that sometimes I observe behaviors from ...
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09 May 12

Of black women and totem poles…

Once upon a time, someone somewhere decided that there was a "totem pole" and that black women are at the bottom of it....
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