By Kia
The New York Times posted an article confirming my assessment that Generation Y, also known as “Millennials” are a bunch of confused, socially inept tech junkies who lack basic communication skills and pretty much suck at dating. Unfortunately “the hook up culture” has destroyed courting leaving a trail of emotionally broken women fighting for scraps and lazy men who can get sex and companionship with minimal effort and no real commitment. That is why relationship pimps like Steve Harvey are able to write a New York Times Bestseller giving women horrible advice about how to get a man. Dummies everywhere ate that book up because they are so desperate to find companionship and willing to sell their souls to Lucifer just to have a warm male body to claim as their own. I’m blaming it all on feminism. Yeah I said it. That’s my default for 2013.
Feminism has left a relationship vacuüm resulting in confused women who do not know how to interact with men thus making them more vulnerable to exploitation by relationship predators. This ideology has attacked femininity in women and promoted misandry. Instead of equality, this movement created a gender war between men and women. In the romance department, heterosexual women are at a huge disadvantage because feminism has brainwashed them into thinking that men are bad, emasculation is good, and if you choose to have sex with men, getting ran through by “randoms” is okay because you are strong independent woman fighting for equality and embracing your sexuality. NEWSFLASH, being a slut does not make you enlightened or empowered. A woman diminishes her power when she carelessly gives herself away to unworthy men.
“In today’s society anyone advising women not to screw random guys is engaging in slut shaming. Let’s get scientific for a moment. Having sex with random people increases one’s chances of catching diseases; unwanted pregnancies which could lead to abortions, and psychological damage. Women who make these poor life choices are often left mentally and emotionally damaged and unable to have healthy romantic relationships with the opposite sex.”
I’ve read my share of writings from Radical Feminist like Dworkin, Mary Daly, and Jill Johnston and let’s keep it real; the toxic thoughts of these broads are the foundation to modern-day feminism. The dysfunctional thinking of first wave feminists parlayed into a social movement that demonized half of the human population which has fundamentally damaged relationships between men and women. Anything produced from a rotten foundation is corrupt. Add unicorn expectations, absentee fathers, and poor emotional intelligence into the mix and you have a big disaster.
This post isn’t about women’s advocates who actually fight for the lives and safety of women. These are real warriors, who stop domestic violence, remove political dictators, rescue people from trafficking, feed the hungry etc. People like Mother Teresa, Wangari Maatha, and Ellen Johnson Sirleaf have made valuable contributions to the world and improved the lives of millions of people including women. In fact I would just rather call these people human rights advocates because they fight for the freedom and dignity for all people. They aren’t some loud mouth sexually confused ass-clown who believes they are rocking because they wrote an analysis on The Feminine Mystique.
The type of feminist that are destructive to society are the entitled hipster brats who complains about heteronormative oppression and slut shaming on Tumblr. These types sit on the internet or some community meeting with her equally obnoxious cohorts creating make-believe pseudo-academic politicized terms to identify highly confused people who want to mainstream their dysfunction. In reality, many of these type of feminists aren’t doing anything worthwhile to stop inequality. They are often silent when women of color experience severe oppression and disenfranchisement. Somehow they find a way to blame men for their bad decisions instead of taking accountability for their mistakes. That is why I rarely take these broads seriously and mentally black out when they open their mouths.
Unfortunately the Millennial is probably the product of women influenced by first wave feminism who mated with faux-males also known as Betas. Man-haters tolerate Eunuchs because castration prevents these Betas from challenging the logical fallacies of feminism. Fast forward to 2013, as a result of brainwashed mothers and Beta fathers, many women do not know how to interact with men. Many men act like adolescent teenagers by delaying commitment as long as possible. Instead of protecting and providing, women are now competition and viewed with distrust. There is no incentive to commit when there are women willing to give all the benefits of a relationship without any accountability or investment. To take the issue between men and women even deeper, many women emasculate men on a daily basis without even knowing it. Men have accepted the emasculation and as a result conduct their lives as thoughtless children too immature to see the benefits of finding a wife and establishing their legacy.
So what is the solution to the dating dilemma? Women must transform their minds and relearn how to interact with men. Accepting mediocre behavior during the courtship stage will lead to dissatisfaction later on. Women also need to check themselves about some of that nonsensical feminist rhetoric. There is nothing wrong with acting like a woman and embracing your femininity. You don’t need to drink, think, or act like the boys to get a guy’s attention. You also don’t need to engage in emasculation to prove that you are equal to a man. The type of man who will make a good husband and father isn’t going to date a woman, who believes he is subhuman.
Women must respect themselves enough to not accept laziness in dating. Stop sharing the best parts of yourself with people who aren’t committed to you. Showing respect and conducting oneself with dignity will attract a certain type of person into your life. A guy asking you out on a date via text message last-minute is inappropriate. You are the backup plan and you deserve more than that. Texting is not an effective communication tool. Texting is for quick exchange of information, not full on conversation. Texting is lazy and impersonal. Responding to such a piss poor communication and rewarding the guy by going out on a date is ludicrous and reinforces bad behavior. Women can have a lot of power without having to embrace toxic feminist doctrine, degrading themselves, and viewing men as the enemy.
Below are some resources that has helped me tremendously in the dating scene. Some of you need to go back to basics and learn how to appropriately date to get the best results and find the right guy who will respect and appreciate you as a woman. Disclaimer: This links are mainly targeted at heterosexual women who want marriage. If you don’t fit into that group than disregard.
1. Baggage Reclaim- Start from the beginning and read every single post. its worth it because most of you have no idea how discern if a guy is into you, set healthy boundaries or understand when its time to walk away.
2. Alison Armstrong (THis woman is godsend. My interactions with men have improved dramatically since taking her workshop http://www.understandmen.com. The workshops are expensive but they are highly recommended. If you can’t afford the workshops then check out her books on Amazon. One of my personal favorites is Keys to the Kingdom
3. The Rules Series by Ellen Fein: A lot of people complained about the The Rules but the truth is that many women have poor boundaries and incorrect thinking about dating. They waste time on men who don’t care about them and have inappropriate interactions. Ellen Fein has written an updated version called Not Your Mother’s Rules.
I think everyone has their areas in which they are more conservative and everyone has areas where they are liberal....For example, I may be a bit conservative when it comes to who I'm going to share my body with (meaning full blown sexual intercourse), but I'm not as conservative as some of the women on here when it comes to kissing, making out, and "fooling around" (found that out from another post)...That may be partially because of my age (23) and the fact that I'm in college, but it just goes to show that a difference of opinion does not necessarily mean a lack of values (but sometimes it does). I do think that the majority of women are not emotionally equipped to have sex with a bunch of different people without being attached, though...I've seen what happens when most women try to "act like a man". I don't think it's a good thing for men to sleep with a whole bunch of people either..it's a turn off.. (though they are more successful at doing it without emotional complications), so there is no double standard in my eyes....
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