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77 Paying It Forward: What Does BB&W Owe BWE?

Paying It Forward: What Does BB&W Owe BWE?

BB&W is officially not a BWE blog, yet in practice and intent, BB&W is very much a BWE blog. … my purpose is to direct the attention of the leadership of BB&W to an uncomfortable set of questions, culminating in an appeal to take on responsibility for promoting the ideas of BWE to the those who could benefit from them, regardless of the level of support coming from the traditional BWE bloggers.


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24 How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pulls Rank”?

How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pulls Rank”?

This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I say this because intersectionality is something that smacks black women upside the head from many angles depending on who they are, and how many different levels of privilege work for or against them.


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33 Vetting Aabaakawad

Vetting Aabaakawad

One prominent blogger has concluded that, because I made two short comments recently, on a couple of blogs, that were in poor taste, and because she kicked me off her blog four years ago, that I am the stealthiest of stealth concern trolls, spending years gaining you all’s trust so that I can pursue my true an agenda of “pissing on BW’s heads”. Then she uses me as an example of someone who has been improperly allowed to be a supposed ally due poor vetting by BW.


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49 Abercrombie’s CEO Michael Jeffries Created a Public Relations Disaster When He Decided to Diss Fat People

Abercrombie’s CEO Michael Jeffries Created a Public Relations Disaster When He Decided to Diss Fat People

It’s on thing for you to have unpopular rude thoughts running through your head; it’s quite another thing entirely to let those thoughts escape through your mouth and into the waiting embrace of a journalist’s microphone. Michael Jeffries, CEO of Abercrombie and Fitch (we’ll see how much longer he can keep his position), thought no one was paying attention when he let some of his ideas escape through his mouth, and now he and the company he leads are suffering due to his indiscretions.


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60 Well It’s About Time! Kerry Washington Finally Lands the Cover of a Major Fashion Magazine

Well It’s About Time! Kerry Washington Finally Lands the Cover of a Major Fashion Magazine

Kerry Washington’s role as Olivia Pope on the ABC hit Scandal is seriously causing her star to rise and she is finally getting the major media attention she deserves. Ms. Washington landed her first cover of a major fashion magazine when she snagged the cover story for the June 2013 issue of Elle Magazine.


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169 Gabourey Sidibe on Jason Collins:”Every Woman Has Dated a Gay Man At Least Once”

Gabourey Sidibe on Jason Collins:”Every Woman Has Dated a Gay Man At Least Once”

Jason Collins, a black male basketball player currently signed with the Washington Wizards, came out as being gay in a cover story for Sports Illustrated. His story is being promoted as that of the “first active player in one of the four major American professional team sports to announce that he is gay.” Some are [...]


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5 A Mother’s Day Message To the Non-Mothers

A Mother’s Day Message To the Non-Mothers

Everyone has a mother, but not everyone has a child; and some people just don’t get into the celebration of certain holidays. But no matter what you’ll be doing on Mother’s Day, if you are a woman who thinks she may want to have a child in the future (whether or not you have one now) you can see the holiday as an opportunity for reflection and contemplation.


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7 “How To Be An Adult,” A Book Review

“How To Be An Adult,” A Book Review

Your childhood came and went, but unfortunately, even though you are now an adult, you still find yourself behaving–from time to time–as if you were still inexperienced in the ways of life. Or, to paraphrase the Bible, when you were a child you talked like a child, thought like a child, and reasoned like a child…and now you are still talking, thinking and reasoning like that youthful version of yourself.


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97 Why We <em>Don’t</em> Talk About Black Men: A Response Post Of Sorts…

Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: A Response Post Of Sorts…

I think in order to better understand why black men as a topic come up in BW-centric and BWE spaces, you must understand why they do not come up.


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6 “Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead,” A Book Review

“Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead,” A Book Review

Women can sometimes be their own worse enemy when it comes to achieving career success. That’s a controversial message in light of the fact that gender and racial discrimination does still occur in the workforce, but that message is the basic premise of Facebook COO’s Sheryl Sandberg’s new book “Lean In: Women, Work, And The Will To Lead,” a sort-of feminist primer on how to get ahead in the world of work.


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30 BB&W Online Dating Challenge: Deconstruct My Profile Text!

BB&W Online Dating Challenge: Deconstruct My Profile Text!

I am active on four online dating sites: POF.com, Match.com, AfroRomance.com, and SeniorsMeet.com. In this post, we are going to critique the main text part(s) of my online dating profiles with the aim of improving them and/or helping others create their own.


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145 Reciprocity: What does that word mean to you?

Reciprocity: What does that word mean to you?

What does the word ‘reciprocity’ mean to those of you who call yourselves BWE?

This is not a trick question, but a chance for open dialogue and explication because, sometimes, I am not quite sure what some of you mean when you use the term reciprocity.


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9 Forget about babies raising babies–the problem of grandparents raising babies is just as bad

Forget about babies raising babies–the problem of grandparents raising babies is just as bad

Grandparents often simply don’t have the energy to properly manage their teenage grandchildren. And, most importantly, times have changed and people are behaving much differently than how people were behaving when your average 60-, 70-, or 80-year-old was coming up. There have always been fast girls and boys who wanted to be players, but, in general, girls were much more fearful of getting a bad reputation, boys didn’t have as much unsupervised access to young women, and crimes against humanity such as disemboweling women were practically unheard of. We don’t live in the same age as our grandparents did, and the grandparents of today are oftentimes entirely unprepared to help their grandchildren navigate the rough waters that many a teenager today has to navigate in poor, high-crime neighborhoods.


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26 Fourteen Year Old South African Teenager Thandeka Madonsela  Found Raped and Murdered

Fourteen Year Old South African Teenager Thandeka Madonsela Found Raped and Murdered

Another South African girl has been raped and murdered in a grisly fashion.

Two months after Anene Booysen was found raped and disemboweled, another teenager, 14-year old Thandeka Madonsela, was found after having been raped and disemboweled in the veld in Naturena, south-west of Joburg.


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72 ‘Playing house is not a good look,’ the ex-girlfriend of ‘Sesame Street’ actor Roscoe Orman learns that lesson the hard way

‘Playing house is not a good look,’ the ex-girlfriend of ‘Sesame Street’ actor Roscoe Orman learns that lesson the hard way

Here’s a sad tale of another woman having to learn the hard way that living together as husband and wife is not the same thing as being husband and wife.


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6 A Different “Defense of Marriage”

A Different “Defense of Marriage”

It’s been suggested that we release “marriage” from government, give it entirely & symbolically over to religious institutions, and use civil unions under law for all couples gay and straight. I would love to live in that world. Perfectly logical. Hell to implement.”Marriage” is an understood concept universally, even by it’s strongest critics. With thousands of years of history predating all the major religions and implemented planet-wide (with varying standards), what it means doesn’t have to be explained, and expectations in law and society are quite stable. Full faith and credit amongst the states, and almost perfect cross-border recognition between countries.


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51 The right way and the wrong way, respectively, to handle being slighted, as demonstrated by Olivia Pope and Adria Richards

The right way and the wrong way, respectively, to handle being slighted, as demonstrated by Olivia Pope and Adria Richards

Abby and Olivia walked through the door of the couples’s home together and the female client strode confidently up the Abby and said, “You must be Olivia Pope.” Olivia intercepted the strider and stuck her hand out for the handshake with the words “I’m Olivia Pope”. Despite the fact that the client had just made the assumption that a high-powered fixer had to be the white women Olivia didn’t let that phase her; Olivia didn’t even mention what had happened at any later point in the episode.


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12 Millennial Men Want Workplace Flexibility Just As Much As Women Do

Millennial Men Want Workplace Flexibility Just As Much As Women Do

At the annual World Economic Forum(WEF) in Davos, Switzerland, Lisa Witter, a Young Global Leader of the World Economic Forum noticed a trend: Men seemed to be much more interested in workplace flexibility than they had been in past year’s meetings.


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