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Black Women Who Seek To Eliminate Themselves “Out Of Love”

I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from … [Read more...]

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White Feminist Pretending To Be “Concerned” for Asian Women Marrying White Men…Yeah Right!

UPDATE!!!!!!! It is all a hoax ladies and gentleman the source article is a Hoax. "Anne Gus" is really a guy who was outed after posting an … [Read more...]

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Spring forward and get a jump start on your spring wardrobe….

Those of us who are major fashion heads are always keeping our eyes trained forward to the next season although we may be firmly entrenched in one at … [Read more...]

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Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK … [Read more...]

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You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind “Feminism”

In my previous article on the whole "gold digger" meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the word gold … [Read more...]

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BBW’s First Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for Him

Women if you are like me, you are absolutely stumped about what to buy your beau for VDay. I personally think men are harder to shop for than women. … [Read more...]

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That Awkward Privilege: The Mixed Power Status of Black Men (reposted)

[This post was originally published 11/03/2011. There were 61 comments back then. I have not been able to figure out how to make those old comments … [Read more...]

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Toni: “Don’t Judge” = “Help Me Save Face”

Any Twilight Zone fans out there? "Neither sympathy nor compassion can be handed out wholesale like cheap bubblegum." This is a quote from the … [Read more...]

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Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men

Dear "I'm Here To Find My Black Queen" Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. :) I see that more and … [Read more...]

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Three Beauty Looks That Are So Right Now

It's winter. We're feeling it. We are mostly wearing dark clothes like black, grey, and burgundy. Most days, if we are honest, we really don't feel … [Read more...]

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QOTW: White Man Asks, “What Is Black Culture, Minus All the Ratchet Stuff?”

I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Okay, I might answer this question myself pretty well, but most non-Black people, and apparently the … [Read more...]

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Kicking 2014 in the Proverbial A**: Obsessions

Happy New Year Darlings!I've been on a mini hiatus from blogging because well, frankly, I needed a break from communicating.. Now I am back with a … [Read more...]

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Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]