Three Beauty Looks That Are So Right Now

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It's winter. We're feeling it. We are mostly wearing dark clothes like black, grey, and burgundy. Most days, if we are honest, we really don't feel … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Man Asks, “What Is Black Culture, Minus All the Ratchet Stuff?”

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I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Okay, I might answer this question myself pretty well, but most non-Black people, and apparently the … [Read more...]

Kicking 2014 in the Proverbial A**: Obsessions

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Happy New Year Darlings!I've been on a mini hiatus from blogging because well, frankly, I needed a break from communicating.. Now I am back with a … [Read more...]

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

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A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

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  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality?

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My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones's post "Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Black Females" … [Read more...]

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

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I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

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This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay Fat

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I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial … [Read more...]

Book Review: The Cuckoo’s Calling

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  I recently finished reading the The Cuckoo's Calling by Robert Galbraith/J. K. Rowling http://tinyurl.com/lz788n3 No this is not a … [Read more...]