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17 Jan 14

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. 🙂 I see ...
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color, advice, eyeshadow, lips, mode, brown, complimentary, skin, beauty, makeup, style, fashion, black women, current,
13 Jan 14

Three Beauty Looks That Are So Right Now

It’s winter. We’re feeling it. We are mostly wearing dark clothes like black, grey, and burgundy. Most days, if we are honest, we really d...
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13 Jan 14

QOTW: White Man Asks, “What Is Black Culture...

I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Okay, I might answer this question myself pretty well, but most non-Black people, and apparently the “...
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04 Jan 14

Kicking 2014 in the Proverbial A**: Obsessions

Happy New Year Darlings!I’ve been on a mini hiatus from blogging because well, frankly, I needed a break from communicating.. Now I am back with...
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23 Dec 13

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Commen...

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it’s own post.  Friends...
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23 Dec 13

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a...
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18 Dec 13

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of MenR...

My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones‘s post “Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Bla...
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18 Dec 13

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women ...

I was thinking since we were talking about the word “desperate” being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain ...
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15 Dec 13

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate...

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The”Swirling” book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to...
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29 Nov 13

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Sh...

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial weig...
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21 Nov 13

Book Review: The Cuckoo’s Calling

  I recently finished reading the The Cuckoo’s Calling by Robert Galbraith/J. K. Rowling https://tinyurl.com/lz788n3 No this is not a co-au...
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27 Oct 13

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Y...

One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black wome...
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22 Oct 13

BWE And Validation-Seeking: Are You Looking To Be ...

You know, there are things I agree with and disagree with when it comes to how BWE reaches black women, however there has always been one thing that h...
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17 Oct 13

Black Women and Benefits, We Don’t Get None,...

Question:  How do you know when you are happy?  Think about it for a minute. Do you smile more? Do you hum a tune?   However and whenever you f...
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