Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

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A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

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  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality?

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My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones's post "Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Black Females" … [Read more...]

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

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I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

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This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay Fat

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I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial … [Read more...]

Book Review: The Cuckoo’s Calling

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  I recently finished reading the The Cuckoo's Calling by Robert Galbraith/J. K. Rowling http://tinyurl.com/lz788n3 No this is not a … [Read more...]

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Your Ego Onto Your Child.

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One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black … [Read more...]

BWE And Validation-Seeking: Are You Looking To Be Told What To Do?

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You know, there are things I agree with and disagree with when it comes to how BWE reaches black women, however there has always been one thing that … [Read more...]

Black Women and Benefits, We Don’t Get None, Always Cheering for Others.

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Question:  How do you know when you are happy?  Think about it for a minute. Do you smile more? Do you hum a tune?   However and … [Read more...]

Introducing “Fables for Thrivers”: The Caged Bird and the Free Bird

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The Caged Bird and the Free Bird Once upon a time, there was a caged bird who would get weekly visits from a free bird. The free bird would fly far … [Read more...]