Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Comment on Her Sexiness?

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A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it's own … [Read more...]

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

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  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will Scare Them Away!” O_o

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I don't know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring women … [Read more...]

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality?

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My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones's post "Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Black Females" … [Read more...]

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

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I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Help! I’m Afraid My Family Won’t Accept My Brit Boyfriend!”

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The Question... Hi Christelyn, my name is Zahara, I'm 20 years old, and I am coming to you with in need of advice on my situation. I met a guy online … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

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This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]

Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Matrix?

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It's the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dating … [Read more...]

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay Fat

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I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial … [Read more...]

NOT AGAIN!! Another White Guy with a Black Girlfriend is Killed by a Black Man.

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The details are sketchy, but it looks like some 20-year-old miscreant shot and killed a white guy with a black girlfriend. We don't yet know the … [Read more...]

New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.

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One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who've probably heard from one loud … [Read more...]