QOTW: I’m black, but now I have “white people ...

I’m black, but now I have “white people problems”… My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 years. He (47) and I (44) are divorced.... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Danell Leyva’s Naked Body ...

There is something about a man’s body that I just can’t deny. The lines of his shoulders, the width of his waist, the way his calf muscles... READ MORE

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Y...

One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black wome... READ MORE

Studies (and experience) Show Black Men Benefit an...

In two separate studies, Megan Holland and  Simone Ipsa-Landa examined the experiences of Black boys and girls who participated in diversity program... READ MORE

Do White Men Who Swirl Prefer Darker Skinned Natur...

A little something me and my writing partner noticed while doing promotion for SWIRLING was that most (bordering on all) of the white guys we saw with... READ MORE

The Cost of Not Smiling

By Ashley One perfect summer night in June, I stood on the rooftop of an exclusive hotel in West Hollywood at a swanky event. At first, I made it a pr... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t ...

Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, gorge... READ MORE

59% Of Black Women Have Multiple Fathers. I’...

  This little bit of go-kill-yourself news appeared on my Facebook feed this evening… Black Women: 59 Percent Have Multiple Babies’ Daddi... READ MORE

Swirling and Marriage – Beautiful Blindian E...

Fabulous Engagement Photos of Varun and Beth from Canada.  They look so in love. All photos by Jensen Captures Photography. Beautiful Ring! Looks goo... READ MORE

Black Male Celebrities Are Dating and Marrying Int...

I was going through a recent slideshow on Huffington Post of all of the celebrity marriages so far in 2013 (watch the slide show because you will not... READ MORE

QOTW: On Hair…The ‘Kinky’ Discus...

Got this question from a subscriber on my You Tube channel. She seemed pretty desperate so I moved her to the front of the queue… When do you th... READ MORE

Cracking the Codes: Do You Benefit from Your Rainb...

Many of us who are married or will be married interracially to white men will experience instances where white privilege comes into play.   Although... READ MORE

Sixty Days of (Mostly Sucky) Dating, By Guest, ...

60 Days of Dating By Ashley After a considerable hiatus, I decided to throw myself back into the dating world. Thanks to social media apps like Tinde... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday (Walking Dead Edition): Norman Re...

This just in…the subject of today’s Man Candy Monday, Norman Reedus, is a resident of New York City and can be often found grabbing a cupp... READ MORE