Question of the Week

15 Jul 14

Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to &#...

Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, tha...

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07 Jul 14

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re ...

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def...

05 Jul 14

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference...

Okay well he didn’t say that…exactly. Here’s what this 20-something white guy actually wrote… Mrs. Karazin,I’m not asham...

01 Jul 14

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman&#...

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I’m glad you’re listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter...

29 Jun 14

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Rel...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?...

12 Jun 14

QOTW: “How Do I Protect My Girlfriend From R...

The question… “Here’s my dilemma: To make a long story short, one of my two sisters, my father, and I are the only three in my entir...

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19 May 14

The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Sh...

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I’ve gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting wo...

07 May 14

QOTW: Black Father Blames Himself for DaughterR...

Here’s the question: Dear Christelyn , A very heart breaking issue has arisen in my family because of my dating preferences. A brief history: I ...

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28 Apr 14

QOTW: 16 Year Old Girl Wants to Know Why White Guy...

The question… Hi Christelyn! My name is Brianna and I’m 16 years old and I’m also natural!. I am currently enrolled in a predominate...

16 Apr 14

Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis ...

Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance Tunis...