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TBT: KISS the Devil, Shame Your Parents

I'm nearly still scared to admit how much the sheer sight of these men turned me on. I'd never seen anything like it, and haven't yet seen similar … [Read more...]

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New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose Racism And Be Attracted To White Men?”

I've been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip black … [Read more...]

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Looking back on it

She Walks in Beauty She walks in beauty, like the night Of cloudless climes and starry skies; And all that's best of dark and bright Meet in … [Read more...]

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Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man Sees the Site for What It Is

I love it when people finally "get" it. The letter... I pop in on your site from time to time and my feelings about what you are trying to do have … [Read more...]

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Gotta Say Something Because This is Inexcusable: Eric Gardner Didn’t Have to Die for 50 Cents.

Many of you know that I draw a hard line on black men in the community who abandon their children en masse and never even think of marrying the … [Read more...]

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Have You Seen This Hunk? Nick Bateman Blows Up Facebook.

Take a look at this specimen of perfection... So who is he? He's Nick Bateman. A model, actor, and wanna-be Ninja Turtle that has everyone on … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Wrestling with the Remarkable that is Roman Reigns

Oh, you kids are so, so spoiled. I feed you Man Candy each and every Monday, yet you scream for more various and different kinds. It's like your … [Read more...]

SavageTango tells all: Getting his attention

SavageTango Let me say right off I've been down this road on numerous occasions. I'm no stranger to the issues you've raised and understand … [Read more...]

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Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

Since I can only take one post per day of people attacking me on my opinions on whether the sky is blue or not, I'm going to simply report the news on … [Read more...]

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TBT: The Beautifulness of Duran Duran Then and Now

Children!! I've got a confession to make. When I was but a wee babe, there was no such thing as (c)rap music!! There wasn't much R&B (as you know … [Read more...]

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Unspeakable! New Jersey Reporter Fired for Telling the DAMN TRUTH!

We live in such a crazy time in America, when saying the obvious will literally get you fired and physically and socially ruin you. I know back in … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Farewell True Blood Edition

Did you shed a tear when you found out this is the final season of the True Blood franchise? I know I am not the only one exceptionally in love with … [Read more...]

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New Interracial Relationship Fiction: “The Wrong Man”

Review of The Wrong Man by Karla Fears   What is a woman to do when temperatures soar into the triple digits? The best solution is to … [Read more...]