Beyond Black & White » Videos http://www.beyondblackwhite.com Chronicles, Musings and Debates about Interracial & Intercultural Relationships Thu, 18 Sep 2014 04:11:26 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.0 Video Discussion: How to Tell if He/She is Into You http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/video-discussion-tell-heshe/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/video-discussion-tell-heshe/#comments Tue, 16 Sep 2014 14:35:22 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=33355 Last Friday I had my buddy, Niki McElry, author of The Black Girls’s Guide to Dating White Men and relationships coach with a podcast called, “Date Top Ten Men,” James Swanwick to give my You Tube subscribers and members of our private Google+ group tips on how to recognize when a guy or girl is […]

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Last Friday I had my buddy, Niki McElry, author of The Black Girls’s Guide to Dating White Men and relationships coach with a podcast called, “Date Top Ten Men,” James Swanwick to give my You Tube subscribers and members of our private Google+ group tips on how to recognize when a guy or girl is interested in you. Both my guests gave great advice, and the hour-long show had some seriously hilarious parts, like, find out why James suggests you go up to a group of women and say, “I invented tacos.” Niki has a really hilarious recommendation on how you can give a guy your number without appearing to be too forward. You guys have GOT to listen.

Members of our private BB&W group have exclusive access to our Google+ hangout chats. Membership has exploded to over 500 in less than two weeks, but we’re temporarily closed to accepting women until we boost our male numbers up, so if you’re a guy and you’re reading this, you’ll definitely want to apply–there are some really gorgeous women in this group. To apply, click here. All applicants subject to approval screening.

This Friday we’re having another Google/You Tube chat with the theme: How to make your interracial marriage last for the long haul. It starts as 7PM/PST-10PM EST. Subscribe to my You Tube channel here.

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In Case You Missed It: BB&W Live Discussion on the High’s and Low’s of Online Dating http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/case-missed-bbw-live-discussion-highs-lows-online-dating/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/case-missed-bbw-live-discussion-highs-lows-online-dating/#comments Sat, 06 Sep 2014 05:42:29 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=32997 I’m still getting the feel for the live Google+ hangouts, but I’m humbled that so many people tried to log in that the room exceeded capacity! I loved interacting with BB&W folks in a safe and private environment. The goal is to build community and with over 250 members in less than a week, we’re […]

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I’m still getting the feel for the live Google+ hangouts, but I’m humbled that so many people tried to log in that the room exceeded capacity! I loved interacting with BB&W folks in a safe and private environment. The goal is to build community and with over 250 members in less than a week, we’re definitely on our way! The highlight of the discussion hands down was Kelli and Jim, an interracial couple who have been married for 21 years. They met through a personal ad!

If you didn’t get a chance to join the convo, here’s the full conversation.

Helpful links we discussed on the topic of interracial dating…

Matthew Hussey “Get the Guy” program, click here.

BB&W Approved online dating site, InterracialDatingCentral.com

To join the private BB&W Google page, click here.

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LMAO! New Video, “If Black Women Said What White Men Say” http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/lmao-new-video-black-women-said-white-men-say/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/lmao-new-video-black-women-said-white-men-say/#comments Wed, 03 Sep 2014 05:53:33 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=32923 Oh my! Like…white dudes, PLEASE take heed!

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Oh my! Like…white dudes, PLEASE take heed!

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Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/video-sht-black-people-say-black-women-keep-stuck-matrix/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/video-sht-black-people-say-black-women-keep-stuck-matrix/#comments Sat, 16 Aug 2014 23:34:09 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=32497 With a business to run, a house to keep clean, kids with homework and a garden to tend, you might not think I have a lot of time to act a fool. You would be wrong. I have lots and lots of time for that. Since we’ve been having intermittent “issues” with the site going […]

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With a business to run, a house to keep clean, kids with homework and a garden to tend, you might not think I have a lot of time to act a fool. You would be wrong. I have lots and lots of time for that. Since we’ve been having intermittent “issues” with the site going down (we’re working on it; we finally know the problem) I wasn’t really about to do any writing, so I thought…VIDEO! And then I thought…CHARACTER SKIT! What about? Well it’s a collage of all the people who make this blog’s existence 1000% necessary.

Would you believe I have names for all these people who live in my head?

This post is sponsored by BB&W approved advertiser, InterracialDating.com. A place to go when you’re ready to step out of the dating matrix.

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Gotta Say Something Because This is Inexcusable: Eric Gardner Didn’t Have to Die for 50 Cents. http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/gotta-say-something-inexcusable-eric-gardener-didnt-die-50-cents/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/gotta-say-something-inexcusable-eric-gardener-didnt-die-50-cents/#comments Tue, 22 Jul 2014 19:51:31 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=31872 Many of you know that I draw a hard line on black men in the community who abandon their children en masse and never even think of marrying the voluminous baby mamas they have peppered all over their blighted neighborhoods. So when I first read about, then saw the awful video of gentle-giant Eric Gardner […]

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Many of you know that I draw a hard line on black men in the community who abandon their children en masse and never even think of marrying the voluminous baby mamas they have peppered all over their blighted neighborhoods. So when I first read about, then saw the awful video of gentle-giant Eric Gardner take his last breath because some sociopathic Staten Island cops wanted to arrest him for selling untaxed cigarettes for .50 cents, I thought it was awful, but even more awful was learning that this man was a married father of six kids.

Now I don’t know what kind of a father and husband he was, but the very notion that he VALUED marriage and family gives him major cool points in my book. What is worse, the idiot cops now left a six children FATHERLESS over a rap sheet full of petty crimes. I’m sorry. Selling “loosies” for .50 is hardly  worth a husband, father, and innocent man dying for.

And if you look at the video from start to end, there is absolutely no question the force was excessive and unnecessary. I weep for this man’s children who can see in real time, their father’s last moments of life.

In this video, you can hear the person ask, “Why ain’t nobody doing CPR?” The cop answers, “Because he’s breathing.” It’s pretty obvious that this man was probably already dead.

 

As a person who is unapologetically in support of the importance of fathers sticking around to raise their kids, I simply can not sit quietly on this. And while I believe the majority of criminals apprehended aren’t just walking down the street with their bibles on their way to church, I cannot dismiss the possibility that some cops are sociopaths who got lucky enough to get hired by a police department. Had they not, they would have sought to satiate their blood lust through criminal enterprises.

To think that police brutality is something that only affects black men is to be naive. One look on You Tube and will see that none  are immune to men who are power hungry and lack empathy. The universal color for a bad cop isn’t white, black, brown or yellow. It’s BLUE. Don’t think because you’re not like them, that a cop won’t use his power to abuse you. You’re be surprised how many people have a story, myself included.

And if you have a strong constitution, take a look at some of the comments on a message board for cops.

I guess it’s the best thing for his tribe.  He probably never worked a legit job. They city will pay off the family and they will be in Nigggaaa heaven for the rest of their lives!!

And another…

Fat fck perp who was anointed a Saint by all who knew him. Married, noticed how they put that in there, because 9 times out of 10 it’s not the case. This video will gain a lot of traction and heads will roll. Pretty much every cop there will be modified.

And another…

Again if Mr walking heart attack had simply put his hamburger shovels behind his back, he wouldn’t have had a heartbattackmfor over exerting himself. The NYPD did absolutely nothing wron. Tomthe guys slamming these NYPD officekrs, I and many here wouldn’t want any of you guys around us on a critical,incident. Hopefully you guys are desk jockeys.

 

So with that, I’ll be watching how the case will be handled by the City of New York, and my prayers go out to the wife who lost her husband and the children who lost their father.

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Buzzfeed Does Creative Video On Who’s Most Interested in Interracial Dating. What’s Your Take? http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/buzzfeed-creative-video-whos-interested-interracial-dating-whats-take/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/buzzfeed-creative-video-whos-interested-interracial-dating-whats-take/#comments Thu, 10 Apr 2014 15:34:20 +0000 http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/?p=29708 So what does this video reveal? Racial biases and stereotypes still persist. But who gives a shit? It all a numbers game, so play to win.

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So what does this video reveal? Racial biases and stereotypes still persist. But who gives a shit? It all a numbers game, so play to win.

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