Plan Our D.C. SWIRLING Party and WIN a Free T-Shirt and Dough!


Me and the good folks at Interracial Dating and Social Connections (IDSocialConnect) Meetup Group are planning to a HUU-UUGE event in Washington D.C. … [Read more...]

Attention Atlanta Peeps! Join Me For No-Holds-Barred Discussion About Black Women and Relationships!


If you don't live in Atlanta, I'm so sorry you'll be missing this. Because on September 28, we're holding a NEKKID discussion about what relationship … [Read more...]

Liars and Gaslighters: How the New Anti-Swirling Meme Falls Flat

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It seems like every week there's a new anti-swirling article on so-called black women's interest blogs, and I have to wonder why. I mean, we're so … [Read more...]

Ladies, Don’t Sleep on “Swirling” AND Online Dating: One European Man’s Take

'Mr. Netherlands'

I'm often befuddled by the fact that BB&W has almost 1,000 You Tube subscribers, and I wonder who the heck are all these people watching. Imagine … [Read more...]

GASP!! Paul Ryan Dated a Black Girl…What Does That MEAN?!

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I've been hit up several times to read the tea leaves regarding news of Paul Ryan's black ex-girlfriend and black sister-in-law, and what that might … [Read more...]

A Lesson in Vetting and Giving Folks Enough Rope

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As much as my fingers often itch in longing, I hardly ever comment on the I-hate-Chris collective that often appears in the peanut gallery comments … [Read more...]

Video: Three OUTRAGEOUS Myths About “Swirling”

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This video is a light-hearted response to some cold-blooded assumptions that are being made about "Swirling" by people--some who are self-proclaimed … [Read more...]

Part II of Europa Village Recap: Online Dating Advice You Can Actually Use!

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Video: Black Women’s Barriers to Entry in Interracial Dating

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For those of you who are curious about what the heck we talk about during our events...check it out. Think we're just exaggerating, and this is … [Read more...]

Taking This Show On The Road–#Swirling Going National!


These events, ya'll--I don't mean to make you jelly or anything, but they continue to be amazing. Even in 98-degree heat (well, at least it's a dry … [Read more...]

Got “Swirling” and Ready to Date? Online Dating Service Gives You Three Free Months.

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You've read "Swirling" and me and Janice have got you revved up and you're ready to get out there and start dating. Complaints or not, online dating … [Read more...]