Some Good News: Study Shows that Black Fathers More Involved with Kids than We Give Credit For.

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Okay here's some really good news. A fairly large study was recently reported showing that black fathers who live in the home with their children are … [Read more...]

Praise Jesus! Black Women Leaving the Church for Some REAL Soul Feeding

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I ran across news of the book, "The Ebony Exodus Project: Why Some Black Women Are Walking out on Religion—and Others Should Too" in one of my … [Read more...]

You Can’t Blame the Police and Racism for This…Video Showing “How to Raise a Thug 101″

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I have always, ALWAYS been for the kids, ya'll. And I just discovered a video of a child...A BABY IN DIAPERS being called a "bitch ass n*gga" by his … [Read more...]

The Best Interracial Dating Resources for Black Women

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It’s a new year and with it, perhaps new incentive to finally pursue what you want! While many people still believe interracial relationships are some … [Read more...]

I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

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As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are … [Read more...]

What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Black Man)

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Someone posted a quote from this citation on my You Tube channel and could hardly believe it was written by a Nigerian man. I'm reposting it, knowing … [Read more...]

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter

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  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will Scare Them Away!” O_o

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I don't know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring women … [Read more...]

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

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I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

A Vocation that Gives You the Ticket to Travel Is…

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We talk a lot about how travel can change your outlook and how you see yourself and how others see you. But most jobs won't allow you to jump up and … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

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This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]