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The Hidden Threat to Your Divestment Journey

Written by Nicole There continues to be many topics and posts about the tenets of divestment in these social media streets. What is it, who can do it,...
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Five More Behaviors That Keep BW Losing

Written by Nicole Earlier this month I wrote a post about five behaviors and beliefs that keep black women losing. Today I have an update on that list...
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Phrases You’ll Hear on your Divestment Journ...

Written by Nicole The Divestment Movement has been picking up steam on social media in recent months/years. I myself do not identify as “divested”...
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The Many Benefactors of BW’s Low Self-Esteem

Written by Nicole If you think about it, despite the mantra of Black Girl Magic, and (harmful, pervasive) declarations of being a Strong Black Woman, ...
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Dating Trend: FICO Before F^&Kbois Challenge

Written by Nicole We all know dating is hard, the dating pool is kind of…contaminated, and character over color is the name of the game. As the ...
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5 Behaviors/Beliefs That Keep BW LOSING

Written by Nicole Everybody wants to be a winner. To the victor goes the spoils. History is told by the winners. The person that said winning isn’t ...
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Black Love: Lessons in Marrying Down

Written by Nicole 2020 continues to be one hell of a year. There has been tragedy and triumph, natural disasters at every corner, and of course, Miss ...
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4 Words That Will Change BW’s Lives FOREVER

Written by Nicole Throughout social media there are scores of black women looking for “The Answer”. The Question in need of answering varies depen...
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Six Things for Black Women to Cancel for 2020+

Written by Nicole 2020 has been the year of cancellation. The year itself has been cancelled, and it took everything, from a political darling’s car...
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Would You Give Up $135,000 For the Culture?

Written by Nicole An interracial couple made the news this week after having their house under-appraised to the tune of $135,000. The first appraisal ...
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Four Things That Should be Every BW’s BFF

Written by Nicole Not because people are over the pandemic means that the pandemic is over. The repercussions of COVID-19 are already here, and I imag...
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The Many Gaslights of Black Women’s Issues

Written by Nicole Social media has awakened many movements for black women. Comment sections, secret groups, and private events have been set up as a ...
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Let’s Talk About The P-Word

Written by Nicole Preference. Society at large has gotten away with believing that black women should accept any morsel of attention thrown her way. I...
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Lessons to Learn from Nicki Minaj’s Latest R...

WRITTEN BY NICOLE When Nicki Minaj first hit the scene, I was a fan. I liked her lyrics and I have always found her punchlines funny (and I still do)....
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