You Can’t Blame the Police and Racism for Th...

I have always, ALWAYS been for the kids, ya’ll. And I just discovered a video of a child…A BABY IN DIAPERS being called a “bitch ass... READ MORE

The Best Interracial Dating Resources for Black Wo...

It’s a new year and with it, perhaps new incentive to finally pursue what you want! While many people still believe interracial relationships are so... READ MORE

I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are beaut... READ MORE

What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Bl...

Someone posted a quote from this citation on my You Tube channel and could hardly believe it was written by a Nigerian man. I’m reposting it, kn... READ MORE

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a... READ MORE

“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will...

I don’t know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring... READ MORE

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women ...

I was thinking since we were talking about the word “desperate” being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain ... READ MORE

A Vocation that Gives You the Ticket to Travel Is&...

We talk a lot about how travel can change your outlook and how you see yourself and how others see you. But most jobs won’t allow you to jump up... READ MORE

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate...

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The”Swirling” book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to...

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