When Hood Boogers Attack, Black Kids Wish They Were White.

When Hood Boogers Attack, Black Kids Wish They Were White.

Some of you might balk at my language, but if it walks like a beast and talks like a beast, it’s a beast. God help the kids who have to live in this Hell.

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Atlanta is known for being a hub of some of the most successful black people in America. It’s chock full of some of the best HBCU’s; plus Emory, the CDC, CNN, and Coke make it a prime area to thrive–if not romantically (I’ve heard the horror stories)–intellectually and financially. But there’s an underbelly of Atlanta infected by some of the most beastly hood rats you could ever see. Some of the poorer black neighborhoods in Atlanta have a 90-100% out-of-wedlock rate, and children are the feral offspring of teenagers. So when you look at this video, keep in mind that this particular neighborhood is a wart on that underbelly. This is a recording of a security guard trying to keep the peace when two alley-cat mothers and their doomed children verbally assault the guard.

Did you hear the children scream, “THAT’S WHY YOU’RE GAY!”? OMG, is this America or some third world ghetto? Nope. I checked. It’s Atlanta.

A friend of mine who brought this video to my attention said that she spend her internship not far from this neighborhood, and she reports that it’s horrific. “I left with the quickness. The people that you see in that video, are the people who are common in the area. The women have no fear, and they will fight a dude in a minute (and yes, most of the men will fight back). I had to do student teaching in an area close to it, and I hated it. I parked my car within a view of a window so that I would make sure I could see if a student broke in. As a matter of fact, on my first day at that school, I walked in on a gang fight. Talk about being happy when my student teaching assignment was up!!” she told me.

She also said something that was quite poignant. “The sad thing is that the children have zero guidance. While doing my student teaching, I was asked to teach the girls how to care for their personal hygiene. I didn’t want to do it at first, but then I realized these girls are so lost they don’t have someone to take the time to teach them how to care for their bodies. Most of the children in that area are being raised by teenage mothers and/or grandmothers beacause the parents are in jail. Fathers are not present, and most of their food comes from school lunch. Additionally, I did an assignment with the students in which I asked them what did they want to be when they got older. About 80% of the children included, “I want to be white.”

Stop there. These kids, being raised with no guidance and in utter chaos wish they were white. I thought about that for a second. I don’t think the kids wished they were white because they thought whites were inherently better, but because when they see white people outside of their neighborhoods and on the television, those parents and children are not burdened by the disease festering in the black community. Children crave structure, both parents responsible and involved, a reliable food source, and mothers and fathers who don’t behave like creatures. It’s not the color they crave, it’s the lifestyle. Who could blame them?

Some of you might balk at my language, but if it walks like a beast and talks like a beast, it’s a beast. God help the kids who have to live in this Hell. Like Khadija once wrote, the peace walls are coming, especially if the black, underclass, out-of-wedlock rate continues unfettered.

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Stassi 15 pts

This is EXACTLY why I moved my kids out of the hood. We just didn't belong there. The living conditions are horrible. How could you ever be comfortable breathing in urine every morning on the way to school and work?? Its crazy how all you have to do is walk about 5 blocks outside the hood and its like ur in a different country smh.

 

Growing up where i did all anyone knew how to do well was fight, gang bang, and make babies. There were TONS of programs that came to our area to give us a different perspective on life and about a hand full of us who grew up together actually aspired to leave and did. The problem is the culture. The attributes in a person that they deem admirable are appalling. 

 

1.Going to school every day.

2.Getting good grades.

3.Not selling drugs.

4.Not going to prison.

5. Being respectful.

6.Not being promiscuous.

7.Not fighting.

8.Not joining a gang.

 

These are all things you could be teased, bullied or beat up for, and these are just a few. Also these are things i experienced in Elementary and Junior High School.

 

The first year i moved out of there was the best year of my life. My daughter was 9 and my son was 1. I have never felt as safe as i do here. I hate how when people leave the hood and never come back are called sellouts smh. I visit my friends but i will NEEEVER EEEEEEEEVER (Jericho vc) move back there again. Once your around better people you REALLY see what's wrong there smh. I had never felt comfortable with my daughter going to the store by herself till i moved. I'm never on edge like i always was there . Watching everything like a hawk soo if anything pops off i can grab my kids and go home smh.

 

Its sad but whether we want to admit it or not the hood is a terrible place and its better to move if you have the resources to do so. I feel sorry for the people who live there but most of them don't want help and like where they live and cause the terrible unsanitary conditions. Just thinking of all the fights ive had makes me cringe smh. I am so happy to say my daughter is now 15 and has NEVER been in a fight, loves school (particularly computer science), and is helpful and respectful. This can be attributed to our parenting and the healthy environment we put her in. 

 

I feel so sorry for those children. They are so young and already being corrupted by their environment. and their ratchett ass mothers. smh

 

 

 

 

thecrazyartist 2220 pts

I am late on this post, when i first saw the video on DailyMail I was horrified, not by the hoodrat mother but that the kids were imitating her behavior(they were barely bigger than toddlers).  I also agree that when little black kids say they want to be white, it's not the color they want it's the stability and parenting they desire.  Really, I think it's saying something when kids know that something is seriously wrong in blackistan. 

thecrazyartist 2220 pts

 NicoleJB

 Yeah I saw that.  I honestly don't blame the security guard for tasing her,  the only people I feel sorry for are the kids and I must say that man has one of the worst jobs in the world having to drive hoodrats out of a mall on a daily basis.

mlee 61 pts

Oh. My. God.  I just watched the video clip and I had to stop it because it was just so disgusting and disgraceful.  Seriously, the only hope for ... what am I saying, there is no hope for these people.  Just separate those people (and I use that term loosely) from regular society and let them kill each other.  The only people I feel for is the kids.  They don't even have a chance to grow up to be decent human beings. 

 

There used to be a time where if you grew up in the "hood", black people still had some self-respect and pride.  How can kids survive when they have parents like those as examples?  It's like watching feral animals.  It's pretty sad.

Sunshine789 711 pts

The film the Interrupters is extremely relevant to this conversation. Former gang members who have turned their lives around go into neighborhoods and teach current gang members conflict resolution skills in real-time.

 

http://interrupters.kartemquin.com/

 

If you haven't seen it, please do. It is breathtaking.

A Friend 104 pts

I can't even imagine living in an area like that.   Are things like this common?   Why are people in the BC so angry.   Is it because of unemployment, or a concentration of poverty?  Who wouldn't want to leave that area.  Certainly we should do something about these conditions.  I'd start by improving education.  That's the key to moving up.  But as I said in another comment, people have to WANT to learn.  If they're just putting in time in school it won't mean anything.  There must be ambition.  Middle class kids are programmed to be ambitious and successful.  They want to learn because their parents tell that that education  means a good job, a good life and happiness.  Why wouldn't everyone want that?   Videos like this are discouraging,but they should make us want to do something about it.  There must be the will in the BC to change this?

Brenda55 19418 pts moderator

 A Friend 

Got a book suggestion for you Jay.

http://www.amazon.com/Deer-Hunting-Jesus-Dispatches-Americas/dp/0307339378

 

I can't imagine living in an area like that but then we find ourselves in all kinds of places. What can I say things are as they are. 

MySmile 4172 pts

 A Friend Yes. It is very common in the black community. There is no one reason why people are so angry or that they aren't motivated to do better..there are a multitude of things to factor in.... All I know is it's sad...and complicated...

jakethewrestler 402 pts

HAC   Help A Child.   There are kids in every community that needs help for one reason or another.  they can be poor , middle class or rich.   dont think the govt is going to make sure kids dont go to bed hungry  are not homelss.  these days almost all social money and in ohio (property tax breaks) goes to the political powerful the elderly keep them living to 100. (and defense) 

Stassi 15 pts

 A Friend  Unfortunately there are people that live there bc they have to due to their circumstances and then there's the majority there who actually like it, cause the problems, and never leave. They are generations in the making so even improving education isnt SOLELY the solution. Getting them to WANT better for themselves is the problem. They can be on every gov't program as a way to survive and they see this as doing well. The way of thinking has to change in order to fix the problem. Otherwise it will continue in the same way with a only handful of people from each generation striving to do better.

MySmile 4172 pts

 IntegratedMemoirs What the hell?!! 

I've read many comments about giving money and starting programs and saying that these people are doomed. It's true everyone cannot be saved, but throwing money at a situation is not going to solve the issue. These issues require a dedication of time and yes, service. "To whom much is given, much is required." I consider the fact that I am blessed to wake up in the morning a huge gift and so I want to give back. No one succeeds on their own. And can we please stop looking for celebrities to do it all. When you get up in the morning take a look in the mirror and ask, "How can I be of service or help?" Not Beyonce, Oprah, Kanye, but you. As for the churches, many of the church leaders are just as uninformed and complacent as some of those in the community they should be serving. There are lots of programs out there where, you can volunteer. Start with your neighborhood school or the PTA/PTO of that school. Many would be surprised to know that you don't have to be a parent to volunteer or join. If you have a particular type of program in mind, you can start your own non-profit organization. We have stop waiting for others to solve the problems in our communities and work, steadfastly to do it ourselves. 

keimiasmoon 1034 pts

Some of us have already tried. 

Brenda55 19418 pts moderator

Ms Goodman I will say the same to you the same as I said to the young woman down thread.  Follow your path.  Put in all the time you feel is necessary. No one is ever going to discourage you from getting in there and attempting to  making a difference if that is how you choose to spend your time. Good luck to you.  You will surely need it. 

 

As for the rest of us who have been there and done that.  We know all about all of those nice programs you mentioned.  Some here have even started some of them. Your appeal falls on deaf ears as we have moved on from Blackistan and its issues and do not feel the least bit guilty about it.

 

But don't let us stop you.  You go for it. 

A Friend 104 pts

 Brenda55 Brenda, there must be someway to get through to these people.  There is huge potential there: doctors, lawyers, teachers.  We can't let that go to waste.  I'm old enough to remember when The United Negro College Fund's motto was, "A mind is a terrible thing to waste."  We can't afford to let it be wasted.  What happened to all that good feeling during the Civil Rights movement.   I didn't march in those protest to let it come to this.  Where are those people who came to my college telling us that white and black kids should work together to lift everyone up.  We all believed it then, and I still believe it now.   I can't give up on that dream so easily. 

Brenda55 19418 pts moderator

 A Friend Jay. I have a question for you.

Does every member of the white community achieve their full potential?

Are all members of the white community free of poverty, dysfunction, violence and low achievement?

You know the answer to that so you also know that society, especially today does not need every person functioning at their max in order to function.

 

The U.S.  and the world for that matter functions just fine with out the contributions of the Blackistans of the world.  They contribute very little except to keep the prison industrial complex, social service no-profits, poverty pimps and various ministries in business. Remember you can now easily  buy brains and brawn anywhere on the planet. 

 

Yes what I just posted is cynical. It is also in my opinion, brutally honest. So no I do not feel that there will be a great ground swell of effort to save and salvage the people residing in the hell holes that some communities have turned in to. Why? Because their services are no longer needed. 

Sunshine789 711 pts

 Brenda55  A Friend "Why? Because their services are no longer needed."

 

There is a certain amount of truth to this statement. Although we should try, and some will be saved, the majority will not.

 

A friend of mine who was a teacher used to scare kids by telling them "The world needs people to pump gas, so if you do not try in my class, that is ok with me."

Kels 1297 pts

 Brenda55  A Friend Damn, that was harsh. But it was the unvarnished truth. Hood Boogerville can burn and the rest of the world keeps turning. Always has.

A Friend 104 pts

 Brenda55 As usual, Brenda, you're right.  People tell me I'm the only man my age who has kept his ideals.  My wife calls me her, "dear, deluded, dewy-eyed idealist," after the song.  I guess I am, but even though I know I can't save everyone who has potential, I can at least try to save the ambitious ones. 

 

When I was in grade school  we were told, and we all believed that "nothing was impossible."  Maybe my generation was the last to think that way.  We were brought up to be idealists and we had the feeling that we could do anything.  Some of us succeeded, but most of us didn't.  I was one of the lucky one and have always felt I should "pay it forward."  I guess if I haven't lost that feeling by now I never will.

SirLoinDeBeef 2497 pts

 Sunshine789  Brenda55  A Friend Except, for the last 30years or so, most people have been happily pumping their own gas - which leaves the kids ... where?

ForeverSerenity 339 pts

 A Friend  The world needs people like you, and I'm glad you are still an idealist!  

futureshock 245 pts

I was surprised by how many children it looked like there were between the two women.  I don't understand why some women who live in poverty want to have so many children.

MySmile 4172 pts

 futureshock seems like they have the most children...

ForeverSerenity 339 pts

 MySmile  futureshock they have that many children because it is what they know.  It is all they know how to survive.  Simple. And as long as there is no one reaching out to them, despite their ignorance and their attitudes of anger, they will always be there.  But it just doesn't happen in the black community. It is there in the white too, but not the "good" white, and I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything, and it's their in the Latino community, in short, it's all over.  Disillusionment is a disease, a sad one.

lalalee0305 205 pts

Having watched this video I am appalled but not surprised at the women's behavior. It was sad to watch this happening to a woman but by her actions she brought it on herself. We live in a different world than in the past, it is more violent and easily provoked. Knowing this a person should exercise good sense to try and keep themselves safe;she not only jeopardized her safety but also the well-being of her children. What was the security guard supposed to do? Take the beating? One male commentator regarding this scenario had a very good idea for situations like this; hit this woman in the pocketbook. Other communities do this, why not the BC?  I can’t imagine how foolish she must feel now that the WORLD has seen her humiliation.  What bothers me even more though is that, as usual, many people are going to consider that all American Black women behave this way not realizing that this woman was ‘flying solo’! 

SirLoinDeBeef 2497 pts

Back at the end of the 1700's in Britain, the Powers-That-Be had finally had enough, and they systematically rounded up the worst-of-the-worst from London's alleys and brothels, and deported them to a place half a world away, called Botany Bay (in what would eventually be called Australia) - both men and women - something like 3 of 5 actually made the voyage alive (in wind-driven sailing ships of the Royal Navy).

 

These were the booger hood rats of their day - once there, it was like 'peace walls' with no escape - most died, mainly by their own hand(s) -some survived, to educate themselves and create a new society, with rules for the protection of women, children and restraints on the impulse-driven, drunken populace they came from.

 

Fast forward another 200 years, and these were the Aussies who threw back the Imperiual Japanese Military in the Pacific Theatre of WW II.

 

To what 'Botany Bay' might we send our DBR booger hood rats?

 

Cantral & Northern Nevada?  The moon?   Mars?

MixedUpInVegas 1651 pts

 SirLoinDeBeef

 Please don't send them to Nevada!

Brenda55 19418 pts moderator

 MixedUpInVegas  SirLoinDeBeef What??????? You got a problem with hoodrats?

 

So fussy.

HotToastAndButter 146 pts

 SirLoinDeBeef Those Brirish criminals sent to Australia may have had a new playground to dwell, but they brought torture, genocide, infant kidnap and HELL on earth to the Aborigine population that had been living there in relative peace for thousands of years. So those Hood rats of their day may have been the lowest in British society, but elevated higher by forcing themselves to be 'superior' above their dark skinned fellow man in their new society. So, ultimately, they were the victors. 

 

So, whatever new  'Botany Bay' we may send our DBR hoodrats, lets make sure that place isn't inhabited by any living person...or animal. The Moon you said? Go for it!!!!!

LorMarie 1345 pts

I can't open the video but if it's the same one saw, the security guard was defending himself. I can't stand women that attempt to fight men. It makes "us all" look bad.

SirLoinDeBeef 2497 pts

 LorMarie Please note that the security guard was 'armed' with a single-shot Taser - I personally know of areas where private security guards are issued 9 mm handguns.

mdiva2002 250 pts

Yes, unfortunately Khadija is right this is a reality in modern day black ghetto's so much it's becoming rampant.  Blackistan is not staying in their neck of the woods anymore but moving to places you would have never thought of.  Last summer I visted my family and took my little sister to downtown Michigan Ave in Chicago to show her the sights I use to travel as a kid if we would have stayed hour or two longer we would have witnessed this.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wJDdGl3JT4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5H1hzmut1_E

 

It's just not Atlanta or Chicago I visited a lot of city's in America and this seems to be a growing problem.  Hip Hop culture, Single mother's too tired or just too young or uncouth to take care of their children and dead beat or barely there father's is causing many of the black children & some "adults" today to act in this unruly manner.  I don't blame the security guard one bit for what he did, sadly the ones most effected were the children. 

Sunshine789 711 pts

 mdiva2002 I used to live in Chicago..... oh God, the lacefronts.....

These young men and women know that they have no chance whatsoever in life. And so they stop caring. It pisses me off to see them behave this way, but then I reflect on the pain that they are in. That is what was wrong with that girl. She was in pain because her life had so few options to grow, then she went and had a few kids, and now her future is laid plain out in front of her, and it ain't pretty. I would be crazed and angry too if I were in her shoes. It is really sad.... I wish they could get past the anger and try to grow.

mdiva2002 250 pts

 Sunshine789 I grew up in Chicago a mass majority of my life and have seen girls/women like this.  It's about having choices there are ways out but some don't want to go that route because they think it is hard or it's more difficult then just acting a fool and having someone clean up your mess once it becomes too much to handle.  You can either get angry and let it consume you or get angry but use that energy to rise above it.  

 

The sad thing is the two girls in the video could have just said their piece and then walked off but they choose to stay and let a bad situation turn into something worse.  They didn't care that they looked unruly and uncouth, they didn't care that their children had to witness mommy acting selfish to their children's needs, the one that was tasered still stuck around while her friend & baby daddy spewed obsenties even while both of their children screamed in fear. All the anger in the world should have been put aside to getting the young tasered girl and children out of that situation. 

 

I want to have sympathy for these girls but I lived around these girls, grew up side to side with these girls and saw how many choose to live their life in tyranny and fear with their children because it was easier to collect a welfare check then get an education or trade to help not only their children but themselves.  Most people say it's hard and they had a hard life but it's only as hard as you allow it to be.  I have plenty of friends that also grew up in Blackistan but didn't allow it to define who they are as a person.  They knew the only way out was not through welfare for having the most kids by the neighborhood thug but through education and hard work some had OOW children and some didn't but they all got out because they didn't let Blackistan and the anger/pain it can bring with it tear them down.  They  can grow they just have to be prepared to do it and know when and where to fight their battles. The same can go double for men, My father is a prime example he grew up in the hood, was a teenage father but still managed to get his master degree in law there is a way if your willing to fight for it.  

ShyVi 311 pts

@Sunshine789 @mdiva2002 You have a point. I don't know what kind of madness they have been through growing up. When you grow up surrounded by negativity,destruction, and abuse, self-esteem can be practically non-existent. Some break out of the cycle and go on to lead productive lives, but not enough.

mdiva2002 250 pts

 ShyVi  Sunshine789  mdiva2002 Khadija made a point about this on Halima's blog.  She stated that some people that get pushed in a hole dig can have two choices either dig yourself and get away from the hole and the person that pushed you in there in the first place or they can stay in the hole and complain about the person that pushed them in there while accomplishing nothing.  A lot of black people in blackistan allow others such as racisits, dbr brothers and sisters, trifling parents and even blackistan itself keep them in the hole complaining while accomplishing nothing.  I wish more would not only dig themselves out of the hole but stay away from the people that pushed them in there the first place.

 

Knowledge is power with blogs like BB&W, other BWE and common sense blogs a lot more will be leaving Blackistan behind mentally and once that is accomplished it's time to leave it physically if they have not already done so.  Many of my family members and friends have or are in the process of leaving Blackistan behind physically and mentally we have left it years ago, Thank God.  

Sunshine789 711 pts

 mdiva2002  ShyVi "Many of my family members and friends have or are in the process of leaving Blackistan behind physically and mentally we have left it years ago, Thank God"

 

Many of my family members and friends are going through the same process. I am praying for them. A few I fear will not make it:(

mdiva2002 250 pts

 Sunshine789  ShyVi 

Unfortunately, a few never do physically or mentally. Mentally it can be even harsher because Blackistan is no longer just a place but a state of mind.  My advice for the few that can't leave physically is it's best to stay as safe as you can. Once the sun goes down they should too, stay in a protected home with locks, bars or high walls if need be and try to keep the mental state intact. Read books, watch positive tv shows or movies, spend time with love one's, stay informed reading positive common sense blogs and words on the internet in other words create a world devoid of Blackistan and all it's ills for your own mental well being.

Sunshine789 711 pts

 mdiva2002  ShyVi "Once the sun goes down they should too, stay in a protected home with locks, bars or high walls if need be and try to keep the mental state intact. Read books, watch positive tv shows or movies, spend time with love one's, stay informed reading positive common sense blogs and words on the internet in other words create a world devoid of Blackistan and all it's ills for your own mental well being."

 

Unfortunately, every year in Chicago there is a story about someone who got shot through the wall of a house. Or an honor student who got shot 3 days before graduation. It is not enough just to keep to oneself. To truly get out, one must physically leave.

DeepWater 2458 pts

 mdiva2002  ShyVi  Sunshine789  Yes, ma'am, mdiva2002.   Look, I was naught, big and bad, "breakin' bad" in my youth.  However, I realized that does not get one far (myself).    I thought, as I mentioned in some other post, that I was "big and bad".   That does not work in society in largesse.   

 

I understand the desperation, hurt, and seemingly, nowhere to turn, in life's very hard world.   One must choose, and the key word is CHOICE, to move one's' life forward. 

 

There was a post recently about nerdism, about being a nerd, working in the STEM professions (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathmatics) and that just because one is a reader that it, in itself, does NOT make one a nerd (geek, dweeb, social outcast, whathaveyou).   

 

It was reading a multiplicity of books that I'd learned how to identify what I'm doing wrong that was challenging my life.   As far as I'm concerned that is, technically, though not working in the "nerd" sciences, that makes me, somewhat, of a nerd.    

 

Because of lifes' dealt hand I've learned, unfortunately, to play the hand dealt.  I had to make the CHOICE, a decision, to change the life I wanted to live.   THIS IS DIFFICULT.   But the yelling, the screaming, the "force of will in breaking bad" is cute, for a brief moment in high school, but does not work in, not only White, but in, society in largesse, does not work.   

 

You know, folk wonder if we, Black women, are like this (the above video) on the regular.   And, frankly, it disgusts me that this is the perception of Black women, folk, and families, as a whole.    

 

As far as I am concerned, and I will make this clearer, my stuff is raggedy, there's alot that I need to change for my life to become better of which I now work on daily.   I now see that the road paved must be with a clearer insight.   To "hate" on folk only blows back on you.     One must approach life with love, a difficult task when it's not received to one's self.

 

I understand, for the most part, the desperation of these young folk.   Parents at a young age, men whom don't care or not available to assuage, to smooth out, the parenting process, to not see that their are avenues to a brighter future.    

 

However, we are blessed with will, the capability of decision, of choice.   

 

I choose life and would do everything, not anything, to make that happen. 

 

Of course, that is me.  Everyone's circumstances are quite different.

 

The choice to change my life came with great pain; muddah and I thrown away, her never (that I know of) finding her purpose.   A male (faddah), whom, may have not have found his purpose, and didn't, in speculation, know how to give that to those outside himself (his wife, my muddah, his child, me).     I will grant that, mdiva2002.   However, to continue to live in desperation would identify to me that a change is needed to made, such as what I've done, to move to self-sustainability.  

 

I'm done with the above video behavior.   WE, individuals, have a CHOICE.

 

Live in personal and proverbial poverty or change your destiny, not anywhere near an easy task, but a choice to be had.   I believe and live that in my heart of hearts.   You. have. to. want. to. change. (for the better).

 

 

 

 

SirLoinDeBeef 2497 pts

 Sunshine789  mdiva2002 Lacefronts?

MySmile 4172 pts

 SirLoinDeBeef  Sunshine789  mdiva2002 

 

lol lace fronts are wigs...There is lace in the front which is supposed to resemble the scalp...It allows you to do a "realistic part" most of the times they look fake and unrealistic on women because the hairline looks too perfect...or because they have the wigged pushed to far up or back..hope that makes sense..

 

Lots of black female celebrities wear them (Beyonce, Tyra Banks, etc) but I still don't care for lace fronts...at least theirs look better than some of the crazy stuff I see on every day black women....I found some images of tacky/ bad lace fronts on google and got a good little laugh...

 

 

 

 

 

Sunshine789 711 pts

 MySmile  SirLoinDeBeef  mdiva2002 Girl, I can not abide a bad lacefront!!!!! These girls are walking around with such obviously horrible weaves, glue visible on their forehead with makeup caked on it, like somehow no one knows that they have $100 dollars worth of fake-a** red horsehair on their head!!! I mean, do a good weave if you can afford it, but if all you can afford is a terrible lacefront, why wouldn't you just go natural and rock a twa? I don't know why these girls are so afraid of their natural hair!!! <end rant> Ok, I just derailed like a mofo. Sorry....

mdiva2002 250 pts

 Sunshine789  MySmile  SirLoinDeBeef Lace wigs can be done right if you purchase it from a great seller and it can be used as a protective style. African Export on you tube wears, lace fronts, full lace and just plain ol' wigs and has natural hair nearly down to her waist.  Some women for personal reasons don't want to go natural, or if they are won't wear there hair out all the time. Some weaves can pull out their hair faster then the cheap lace front will go flying off their heads in a strong wind(Unless it's glued and that can be just as damaging as a weave). I try not to step on too many women toes when it comes to their hair because it's their hair and I wouldn't want any woman telling me what to do with my hair just like I wouldn't want them to tell me whom to choose to love.  When it come to black women I'm more concerned with personal choices in regards to living then how they wear their hair.  

 

As far as bad hairstyles I have seen white women/asian women with bad hair colors or highlights, extensions and latinos with questionable makeup choices but it doesn't get in the way of their lifestyle choices to a certain point.  More black woman are concerned with how we rock are hair then how we're living. I believe if we focus less(Not all I know that we are ladies and have to look and dress like beautiful the women we are but if you're attitude is unfeminine well you get my drift) on hairstyle and more on lifestyles then we can avoid the pitfalls that are right in front of us.  Black women as a whole spend thousands of dollars on hair care products just think if we slash half of that money on hair care products, such as weaves, wigs,perms and yes even natural hair products and more on saving to get out of Blackistan for the welfare of not only are well being but are families lives. To tell you the truth I wish we could all go natural because natural hair is beautiful but until that day arrives I won't push what a woman can do with her hair but at least try to save the funds and if a bad cheap lace front can do it then by all means do it just to save the cash you would've spent on Mongolian Malaysia Brazilian Chinese Remy 1000 dollar hair weave that will last for three months tops and save that to get the heck out of Blackistan because leaving and saving your own & family's well being will last a lifetime. 

 

Now I will step off my soap box but before I do I will state this announcement.  Please note: If you have left Blackistan this does not apply to you. Most that have left or never ventured in the first place rock their hair like the diva's they are.  Wether natural, weave, braids, or lace front it looks beautiful because happy confident women hair is an added touch, the beauty lies in the happy smily faces and confident personalities of black women.  If you are in the process of leaving worry about hair care to the bare minimal just keep your hair looking nice and not too fly.  The money can be saved for the exodus and then you can use your cash to look as beautiful or fly as you please because you will attract quality men, instead of Blackistan dredges. :Stepping off soap box & going to bed because it's night time over in these parts.: 

SirLoinDeBeef 2497 pts

 mdiva2002  Sunshine789  MySmile Thank all of you (sincerely) ... I am educated now, on this topic.

MySmile 4172 pts

 SirLoinDeBeef  Sunshine789  mdiva2002  I just realized I put "wigged" instead of wig...and that I put "to" instead of too...lol I must have been tired....yall know what I meant...

MySmile 4172 pts

 Sunshine789   I know!!! Most lace front wigs look fake..or the women make them look that way because they don't put them on right..Not that I've never made any hair mistakes but none that bad!! I'm natural but in the winter I wear $20 half wigs (my hair is out in the front) and they look way better than that...people think it's my real hair sometimes...or at least tell me it looks natural...maybe that's because the styles I get are usually curly or at least not bone straight and silky...and I also don't get blond or anything "out there"...

 

I also forgot to explain to SirLoinDeBeef  that many times, lace fronts involve glue...Yes, women actually glue the wigs to their hairline...yes, it's hair glue...but it's still glue!! 

MixedUpInVegas 1651 pts

 mdiva2002

 Well, there's another two reasons not to consider Chicago as a vacation destination!