Comments on: Hot Abercrombie Guy Tells of “Awkward” Interracial Dating Experience

By: Hallyu Love

Hallyu Love — Sat, 05 Jan 2013 05:39:05 +0000

@greengirl7
Cool I already knew that this song was written from his personal experience. I had read it somewhere some time ago but I had not seen these comments from him.
Thanks!

By: greengirl7

greengirl7 — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 20:41:17 +0000

@Hallyu Love
Ok, now I’m in love.
I just read some of Stefan Ludik’s comments on youtube, and I fully take back the very unkind things I said about his song, and beg forgiveness.

Stefan Ludik (LudikTV)
“I actually wrote this song out of a personal experience/relationship. The dad didn’t like me dating his daughter. So the video just tells my story.”

“…Unfortunately there are still some people who are ignorant to believe you are better or worse than someone, because of the colour of your skin.. That is one of the reasons I wrote this song and deliberately accentuated the “black and white” to “get in the faces” of the haters who have a problem with it! It’s all one love ”

“Not actually. If you know me and know where I come from you would see it differently.. For me there is no “skin colour”, we are all one people. I was lucky to grow up in a culturally diverse country, Namibia where we are different, but one nation. I went to school and grew up with a lot of friends from different cultures and backgrounds so for me that is normal…”
http://www.youtube.com/all_comments?v=7O0mX0LT93c

By: Hallyu Love

Hallyu Love — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 15:08:19 +0000

@greengirl7 @Hallyu Love
“He’s bold and he can work a guitar.”

Girl can’t he though; he knows how to work those strings. LOL.

By: greengirl7

greengirl7 — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 10:01:07 +0000

@Hallyu Love “However I do like the song”

You’re right, it is a good song overall.

“and his boldness to make such a song.”

He’s bold and he can work a guitar.

By: Hallyu Love

Hallyu Love — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 04:34:29 +0000

@greengirl7 @JQAbroad
I agree the chorus line is kinda not the best. However I do like the song and his boldness to make such a song.

By: greengirl7

greengirl7 — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 02:03:29 +0000

@JQAbroad ” Stefan got a lot of heat for the video. Looks like there’s issues about IRR in Nambia as well. The leading lady in his video is also a widely known model in Nambia and peps were pretty upset about that”

How awful, Nambian women can’t date who they want either!

“Anyway I commend any man who will proudly proclaim his love for BW especially through media. It shouldn’t be committed as crime or that something is “wrong with him”. Just another way to guilt WM out of being interested in us.”

Yes, and I hope there are plenty more sexy WM/BW music videos and movies coming.

By: greengirl7

greengirl7 — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 00:15:48 +0000

@JQAbroad
There is another BW/WM music video? Thanks for telling us.

The video is really good, even better than Elle Varner’s video, but the chorus line is a little cheesy: “Black girl, white boy, can I get some?”

Here’s the live performance.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdHz4rwENHM

By: Toni_M

Toni_M — Wed, 02 Jan 2013 19:40:07 +0000

@VanessaChristine I think it’s like anything: Their money, their choice. Me personally, I’m not a fan of A + F. But I’m not going to lay down in front of their store and stop other black people from spending their money there, because it’s hardly at the top of my list of priorities.

The history of the store in terms of controversy can’t be denied, but this could have happened in any story really. The RELEVANT content relates to the guy, not the company he works for.

By: MySmile

MySmile — Wed, 02 Jan 2013 18:52:57 +0000

@VanessaChristine I was so focused on what the guy was saying, I almost forgot about the store he works for…then I suddenly remembered all the controversy surrounding them…..to each their own….I know not everyone working there is racist or trashy, but whoever ok’ed some of those t-shirts and clothes were out of line (they hit an all time low with the thongs for preteen girls)…..in addition to their history of discrimination against various groups (African americans, Muslims, disabled,etc…..employees and customers)

By: RuinsBarry

RuinsBarry — Wed, 02 Jan 2013 05:05:35 +0000

@VanessaChristine I worked at Abercrombie and had no problems. Not everyone in the company thinks the same way.