Humor: She’s Baaaa-aack! Sh*t White Girls Say Part II

Nonya I like how Fran handled the situation too. That WW seemed like she was going to burst into tears. Fran told her stright up and told her how it felt to have WW say stuff like this to BW.

Pearl the problem i'm having is when the comments get to a certain number, i can't click(from the email) and land directly at the post I'm replying to anymore. :s

i have to resort to scrolling and apple-Fing 'n' cr@p. :<

Pearl

Ok...the teacher? Too much! WTC is that about? Why are people so doggone nosy about what bw/bg do with their hair/

Reminds me of ABG scene with the boss lady and she dreams of how she would curse her out, lol. Too many liberties are taken with bw/bg. Plain disrespectful!

I had a friend whose hair reached midback and yet she always wore wigs. She learned to protect her hair that way from her mother. That is nobody's business but hers

Mocha ZPearl Exactly it almost feels like they are analyzing an animal. Its disturbing because they're "mentally dissecting" parts of bg/bw bodies. SMH

I find if you reverse the comment on them and make them consider the stupidity of their statements they have nothing to say and scatter away like crabs.

Pearl "I'm like c'mon this is 10th grade you guys aren't gonna last anyway lol.."

bahaha!

Pearl Wow, the teacher really asked you that? I agree with Mocha .. that is too much. I would never, never ask a student that. Of course, I would never ask any woman that unless our relationship was WELL along...

Pearl

Wow! Your teacher??

Pearl ""NO!, This is my woman! This is my wife, don't you disrespect me!! Who raised you!!" said Asian GF..."

ROFLMAO....this is so phunny!!! So Cal Asians roll like that and I love it! No worries, hon, they all talk like that and then some. Most claim each other as wives on FB, lol.

I am glad you guys got each other's back like that! My dd is toughening up. I told her she need to grab some of your energy. She's kind of a softy.

Mocha Z So sorry to hear what is happening to your DD- if I was a parent...honey hush- talk about protective. While I don't talk about lice to the WW who grab my hair- lol! I do question their conditioner and bleaching methods when get start grabbing my hair, as one did last night.You're also right, they do it to humiliate us, I never let them get to me, sweet smiles all the way.

DeeDeeRussell Ha ha...I will tell her about the bleaching etc. Most of those girls are young. But I have another one up my sleeve to combat some of that mess.

Most coaches see me smile sweetly and drop her off. If they get crazy and start throwing their narcissism(they mostly all have it) around and attempt to control or degrade dd....it's over. The lioness uses the claws. Takes no prisoners. I don't play. The tennis world is very hostile to bw/bg.

DeeDeeRussell Had a tennis coach bm/ww married whose wife made a comment to insinuate that she had better genes that her bm husband. Lol, this guy thought he was a kang with the bleach blond lobster who was afraid the pasty twins they had would get darker and develop fros. I had to shut down her genetics drama so she would leave me alone with all of her silly talk about her husband being so proud their twins look so white and it was her good genes....wtc?

This was in response to her concern over her husband being in the sun one day.

I told her my grandmother was the same coloring as her with blue eyes/blonde hair. My grandfather looked 20 years younger than my grandfather as they aged because his skin was pretty protected from the sun and wrinkles by his darker complexion. No worries.... I assured her that he should be fine in the sun considering my grandfather was wrinkle free and didn't bother with sunblock and grandma didn't do so well. She had that one coming. It was actually my first time ever doing that but it did stop her for talking to me at all and that worked for me!

DeeDeeRussell correction*20 years younger than my grandmother*

Mocha ZDeeDeeRussell This is disgusting...especially how they treat others with common courtesy and decide "oh its a bg/bw I can do whatever I want. They can't get offended!" SMH.

And its not like these girls don't know how to be polite. I have never seen ww like this grab the heads of Asian women, Indian women, Hispanic women, other ww, or any other group. They know that they're being rude. Then when you say no they run off with a 'huff' and 'attitude'. Entitlement makes me sick.

Rosie SDeeDeeRussell The entitlement almost had me fighting mad, lol. She handled and diffused. She knows I will start my roar. Those are some fully trained to be obnoxious kids. They sniff around to see who is the weak and go for the blood. They have a new victim weekly. The didn't get the memo about this negress lioness....yet!

Mocha ZDeeDeeRussell Bw have claws too. I think your daughter handled it well. She diffused the situation without aggressiveness. Hilariously, this entitled rude ww also couldn't use the angry bw stereotype because not only your daughter stopped what she was doing, she showed the foolishness & stupidity of this ww's actions.

I think bg should learn how to diffuse situations without being aggressive/emotional bc not only does it fuel stereotypes but it doesn't solve the problem. Giving a taste of their own medicine in a 'polite but sneaky & non-confrontational manner' exactly like these ww tend to do causes them to stop and makes them think twice before messing with a bw.

Plus it is so much more classy and to avoid stooping to the level of a person who would say something like that.

Mocha ZDeeDeeRussell "I assured her that he should be fine in the sun considering my grandfather was wrinkle free and didn't bother with sunblock and grandma didn't do so well."

lol! excellent!

Rosie SMocha Z @Rosie, exactly BW need to diffuse the situation without drama I'm happy to share what works and mirroring is a mighty lesson when done with a smile and zero attitude just casual like, I always touch the hair of WP who touch my hair without asking permission, sort of a thing, causal calm normal. Mighty message.

Rosie SMocha Z People treat you the way you allow them to, for the most part. I am usually tickled to touch their hair back and watch the reality check flash across their faces like "...that Black chick just touch my hair...as if she knew me, what nerve!...oh wait, she's doing that cause I touched her first. Ooops." Mucho teachable moments.

Mocha ZRosie SDeeDeeRussell Yes. I've always believed that people sniff out, fear and weakness in others and then pounce on them.... there is a saying I usde to hear my Aunt say to some of her friends "Duppy know who to frighten"....meaning some people sniff out and go after the frail and weak...*smh*

DeeDeeRussellRosie SMocha Z @ DeeDeeRussell. "people treat you the way you allow them to"....so true. I think someone said in past post that "you teach people how to treat you"...

Mocha Z Wow! Yes the tennis world is hostile to BW/BG, as the champion Williams sisters could attest. Sad story about tennis instructor; more and more I have no patience with folks who show no empathy for BW, have to rein myself in. And what sort of BM lets any women police his his sunbathing and furthermore if she hates dark skin so much why breed with a BM?

DeeDeeRussell And what sort of BM lets any women police his his sunbathing and furthermore if she hates dark skin so much why breed with a BM?

Right! DD said that the wife hinted that he was hard to deal with. My bw hairdresser friend said that ww tennis coaches wife would cry in her chair about him while she was waiting for the bleach to work, lol. Other gossip reached her chair by a mutual acquaintance that let you know that all wasn't right in the land of lala.

Her fear of their turning to black was irritating and pathetic. That self hate some bm have leads them to marry ww with even less value for them. My blond haired/blue eyed grandmother loved all her brown grandchildren all the way to the chocolate drop.

eugeniamitchell Yes she does adorable and savvy in equal measures its fun watching the her influence grow & the show is great on youtube it's better than network tv! she's wise to retain creative control!

TJD Yeah, I think the wig had a lot to do with it. She was mocking them, and then the wig just added to it. I look at it like it's a lot better than when some white people, thinking they are funny or cute, do black-face and wear gaudy jewelry for Halloween, because in their eyes, that's all of the black experience. I saw a picture of some teenagers dressed like that on another blog, and I was like "Really?" So, this stuff is still going on. They looked so ridiculous.

introvertedwandererTJD I agree the wig added more flames to the fire. Too bad. As you said, H'wood give them license to parody BP.

AJ2011 Flawless...for the world to see! A star is born on Anderson Cooper dang I Love to see BW succeed!

Jamila What do you mean? Most of these videos are in the mode of "Hey You(Viewer)! This is what xxx says to me?" That makes three 'people' in the discourse. Or have I understood your point?

oekmama I think you and I may have a different perspective on these videos. All of the other videos that I have seen are of the "sh*t so-and-so says" variety, while Chesca's video is "sh*t so-and-so says to someone else". The first variety of the video is like an impersonal, third-person, view of a persons behavior while Chesca's video's takes a second-person, personal view of the behavior.

Jamila Her video is way better than any of the other "what say" videos I have seen.

EarthJeff I like sh*t blacks guys say too.