No Wedding, No Womb!

So…Because I Married Interracially, I’m Not Black Anymore?

In all seriousness, people; really?

It has come to my attention that SOME folks who love the NWNW message are coming to THIS site and are flabbergasted and flummoxed that a black woman who married interracially has the NERVE to speak out against out-of-wedlock children in the Black Community.

UPDATE: NEWS OF NWNW REPORTED ON AMERICAN URBAN NETWORK NEWS: 65535 NO WEDDING NO WOMB-1, 65535 NO WEDDING NO WOMB-2

Never mind that my oldest child’s father is by a man about a black as you can get. And then, forget about the white guy who loves her like his own (as in, just like the other three we made together). This is a travesty! The organizer of a movement to call black people to the carpet to put children first when procreating DOES NOT FIT THE PRE-APPROVED BLACK PERSON CHECKLIST!! Somebody call Al Sharpton, ASAP!

So let me get this straight, Oh Defenders of All Things Dark & Lovely, what exactly is it that you are offended about?

  • That my 12-year-old daughter’s father didn’t think it was necessary to marry the mother of his only child?
  • That my husband, who is as white as the driven snow, fell in love with me and my daughter and married the package?
  • The fact that my husband is a church-going, loyal and faithful provider for his family, works his backside to the bone so that I can stay home with our kids and pursue my dreams of world domination?

What is it? Is it because he has a melanin deficiency? We’re going to HAVE to get that looked into. Or maybe I should just divorce him so that I can please you.

But in the meantime, for those who support the NWNW message but shun the VERY IDEA that a black woman DARE seek happiness with anyone other than a black man, don’t bother with your support. I don’t need it. Because take a gander at all the folks who signed on to our historic event, despite that fact that some of you think I’m some kind of ‘race traitor.’

No Wedding, No Womb! Contributors (list updates daily)

Lamar Tyler, blogger, BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com (oh sweet irony!)

Gina McCauley, blogger and activist, WhatAboutOurDaughters.com
Lenny McAllister, New host of WVON “The Talk of Chicago 1690” Morning Radio Show
Karyn Folan, author, Don’t Bring Home a White Boy and blogger DiaryofaBlackAndWhiteFamily.blogspot.com
Danielle Belton, blogger, TheBlackSnob.com
Paul Carrick Brunson, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach and Founder, OneDegreeFrom.Me
Cherryl Aldave, writer, poet, blogger, HeavyMentalist.com
Cynthia Griffin, Editor, OurWeekly.com
Aja Jackson, freelance writer, AjaDorseyJackson.com
Jeneba Jalloh Ghatt, attorney, Blog Talk Radio Host, Right of Black, blogger, JenebaSpeaks.com
Tim Alexandar, writer/producer/director Diary of a Mad Black Man and blogger of tiredblackman.com
Sophia Angeli Nelson, blogger, and political/social commentary opinion writer, IAskInc.org
Shanon D. Murray, radio host and blogger, RightofBlack.com, columnist for TheLoop21.com
Roslyn Hardy Holcomb, co-author, Stolen and blogger, RoslynHardyHolcomb.com
Lisa G. Riley, co-author, Stolen and blogger, LisaGRiley.com
John T. Wills, author, Just A Season and blogger, JohnTWillsChronicles.com
Cherilyn Smith, blogger, BlackWomenDeserveBetter.com
Betty Chambers, blogger, BettyChambers.com
Deborrah Cooper, dating advice columnist, author, BlogTalkRadio host and blogger SurvivingDating.Com
Regina Townsend, TheBrokenBrownEgg.org
Citizen Ojo, TheDesultoryLifeandTimes.blogspot.com
Cicely Johnson, founder, CJR Publishing and host of Blog Out Loud
Jenee Darden, journalist, CocoaFly.com.
Kellina Craig-Henderson, psychologist and author, Black Women in Interracial Relationships: In Search of Love and Solace and blogger, KellinaCraigHenderson.com
Jo Bai, blogger, LifeBehindTheWall.com
Kimberly Woods, blogger, SoulFullOfThoughts.com
Renee Tecco, blogger, Sardonic Sistah Says at RenTec.wordpress.com
Onica Cupido, blogger, EuphoriaLuv.wordpress.com
Onica Cupido, blogger, MommyFactor.blogspot.com
Lyn Twyman, founder of Courage Network, CourageNetwork.com
Zabeth, blogger, InterracialDatingCoach.blogspot.com
Javonne Stewart, blogger, SocialiteDreams.wordpress.com
Faith Dow, blogger, ActsOfFaithBlog.com
LeslieBeth Wish, Ed. D. MSS, social worker and blogger, LoveVictory.com
Arielle Loren, advocate and blogger, ArielleLoren.com
Torrey Spears, Truth from a Non-Hyphenated American, TorreySpears.blogspot.com
Eric Payne, Makes Me Wanna Holler, Man, Dad Husband MakesMeWannaHoller.com
Frederick J. Goodall, blogger, MochaDad.com
Veronica Miller, blogger, VeroniiBlog.blogspot.com
Afua Boahene, blogger, Conversations With My Sisters at SMelodyDiva.wordpress.com
Keshia Robertson, blogger, ACrushADay.blogspot.com
Jenni Lewis, special to NoWeddingNoWomb.com
Velouroyale Luvv, blogger, InterracialIntersection.com
Lorriane Nowlin, blogger, LorMarie.com
Tiya Cunningham-Sumter, certified life and relationship coach and blogger, LifeEditing.com
Nisa I. Muhammad, WeddedBlissInc.com
Vanessa Jean-Louis, blogger, AfroConservative.com
Martin Lindsey, blogger, MartyBlogs.com
Tara Pringle-Jefferson, blogger, TheYoungmommylife.com
Danny Rodriguez, blogger, Selfra.blogspot.com
Walter Myers III, blogger, ScientiaMedia.com
N. Maurice Williams, Blog.Ayce.tv
Thembi Ford, blogger, WhatWouldThembiDo.com
Kweli Wright, blogger TheJuiceBoxx.com
Jennifer Kay, Uncommon Sense, ForRealSon.wordpress.com
Pioneer Valley Woman, Episcopalienne.blogspot.com
Jamie Flemming, ForColoredGurls.com
Tracie Frank, Treyka.wordpress.com
Kimberly Jessy, magazine publisher, nasahm.com/pinkcarpet/
Brittany Bacon, blogger, MrsBreeAkaSailorWifey.blogspot.com
Angela Nichelle Bradley, blogger, AngelaNichelle.blogspot.com
Brooke Brimm, blogger, LovesGumbo.com, JewelryRockstar.com
Natashia Burch, blogger, LoveandNappiness.wordpress.com
Angela Nealy, blogger, AutographExpressions.blogspot.com
Willie Whitehead, guest blogger for NoWeddingNoWomb.com
Jennifer Vaughn, delesmuses.blogspot.com
Black American Brides, BlackAmericanBrides.com
Tracy L. Scott, YouKnowBetterGirl.blogspot.com
Adwoa K. Boahene, kdossier.wordpress.com
Robin Martin, Blog Talk Radio host and blogger, ConservativeBlkWoman.blogspot.com
Deserie Johnson, poetess, DeepRootzInspirtainment.com
Vonmiwi Culvera, blogger, AfrolistasAndTheCity.blogspot.com
Christelyn D. Karazin, NWNW founder, co-author of Swirling: How to Date Mate & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture & Creed, host for Beyond Black & White
Deborah White, blogger, MyBrownEyedView.com
Tatum Forbes, blogger, HalfPastDope.com
Arlene Fenton, political activist
Joyll Cambridge, blogger, TheHumanistExec.blogspot.com
Doctor Joyce Morley, Psychotherapist; Relationship Expert; Executive/Relationship/Life Coach, DoctorJoyce.com
Amani Channel, blogger, MyUrbanReport.com
LegalMatch.com, LegalMatchLife.typepad.com (to provide information on child support and father’s rights)

And just to piss you off, take a LOOOOOOOONNNNGGGGG look:

OH MY GAWD! THIS IS DISGUSTING! /SARCASM

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