Style: Do You Dress Yourself Blindfolded? Fashion 101 with Free Stuff Too.

Style: Do You Dress Yourself Blindfolded? Fashion 101 with Free Stuff Too.

Exclusive interview with Brenda Kinsel, image and style expert extraordinaire

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I must admit I am a pajama girl. If able to get away with it, I would wear pajamas, bra-less and with slippers on, to drop my kids off at school, at a writer’s convention, Walmart (just like everyone else who shops there) and on a date with my husband.

Now, I realize that this is not the best look for me, but it is the most comfortable. That’s why I like stores like Soma–they sell clothes that are just cleverly disguised pajamas.

But there are times that I actually have to dress in real clothes, but since I’m not so well-learned on fashion, I often buy in a pattern, the same sort of stuff just with a different designer on the label. But make no mistake, I NEVER pay full price for ANYTHING. T.J. Maxx and Marshall’s are my crack dealers.

So when Peppermint Park approached me with a challenge to dress me in some hot designer look–from top to toes–for $100 and under. I didn’t tell them what I wanted, I just told them my size and let them pick something out for me. Now before I unveil, I need to share this disclaimer: I WOULD HAVE NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER picked these outfits for myself. Which turns out to not be such a bad thing.

You will not BELIEVE the prices for this items with membership to Peppermint Park. I double checked, and yep, those same items you see in the slide show are much, much lower.

Kay Celine Longsleeve Keyhole V-Neck:
Regular price: $138.00
Peppermint Park price: $23.00

Joe’s Jeans with Ribbed Front Pocket
Regular Price: $158.00
Peppermint Park price: $24.00

Chinese Laundry Python Heels
Regular price: $80.00
Peppermint Park price: $26.00

AQUA Scoopneck Tank
Regular price: $48.00
Peppermint Park price: $9.00

Urban Behavior Cascade Crop Blazer
Regular price: $85.00
Peppermint Park price: $43.00

So okay, yeah I’m impressed. Here’s the caveat, however–you have to shop Peppermint Park much like you would shop a T.J. Maxx or Marshalls. You have to look for availability of your size and that can be a bit funky. But! The prices are unbelievable. It’s like buying from the back of a trunk in a dark alley. You feel like you practically stole something, but it’s all legit.  But if it makes you feel better to feel like you’re stealing, who am I to judge?

Does Your Fashion “Fit” You??

But back to the clothes. Like I mentioned, I would have NEVER picked this stuff up off the rack, but I tried it on and well…it WORKED! Which leads me to my first bit of advice–if you can afford it, make a consultation with an image and wardrobe expert. Stars aren’t the only ones that do it–it’s actually becoming pretty commonplace in the professional world, and as single black women looking to attract a rainbeau, it might be time to get your image and wardrobe assessed by an expert.

I brought in Brenda Kinsel, image and style expert and best-selling author of Brenda Kinsel’s Fashion Makeover: 30 Days to Diva Style! , and owner of Inside Out—A Style and Wardrobe Consulting Company based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Brenda has appeared nationally on radio and television, most notably on The Oprah Winfrey Show and on NPR. She makes a weekly appearance on the ABC Radio Network, syndicated nationally, on a segment called the Weekly Wardrobe Workshop.

Here’s my exclusive interview with her, with some free advice JUST for the BB&W crew:
Fashion with Brenda: BB&W Exclusive Interview by Christelyn


More on Brenda and her book–worth a look-see http://www.bookvideos.tv/videoid/1042

Another great find is Shabby Apple (www.shabbyapple.com).  It’s especially good for women who are unsure what type of dress best fits their body shape.  Click here, and answer the three questions and the site will pull up suggestions for you.  I did it and it came up with this item, which by the way, is claaaaassssy-asssy.

****SPECIAL OFFER****: EVERYONE in the BB&W crew gets a FREE one month Peppermint Park membership.  Just go to www.peppermintpark.com and sign up and use the code: BBW.

Okay now for the race for the hot, red, Chinese Laundry shoes. Whoever is FIRST to sign up gets them.  But then, the rest is on your honor: you have to buy something–doesn’t matter how cheap–during your first free month and then report on your experience.

Ready, set…….GO!!!!

I checked Chinese Laundry. This is indeed a $100 shoe. Free for one lucky BB&W gal.


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Your link to Shabby Apple.com doesn't work FYI! :)

Hmmm...then try www.shabbyapple.com and then you should be able to get to the dress image.

uggg, why do you have to tempt a shopaholic like myself. I made an agreement with myself, my family and bff I will no longer shop until next summer. So, with shame I must admit, I signed up for the Peppermint Park, thanks for the 2 months free membership, hopefully it will be a great experience.

QS: Does Your Fashion “Fit” You??

Hodan: I guess it does, without sounding cocky or superficial, I have a great sense of style, its a family gene since my maternal side of both men and women are really good @ these things. Often people assume I work in the fashion industry and my friends have suggested I actually do so. However, I enjoy my current career and even though I love fashion and art, I have no interest in earning a living in it.

Here are some great resources for those wanting to learn more about fashion/makeup or just enjoy reading about it:

1. Style on a Shoestring: Develop Your Cents of Style and Look Like a Million without Spending a Fortune BY Andy Paige

2. The Lucky Shopping Manual: Building and Improving Your Wardrobe Piece by Piece by Andrea Linet.

ps. you look hot Christelyn in an elegant way. By the way, that 2nd picture about your style from Shabby Apple, it should be: Minimalist with a bit of safari influence. In other words, your fashion sense is more geared toward global traveler who hates to dress up in complicated ways.

Thanks Hodan! I was going for "hot/elegant!"

To supplement the Peppermint Park and Shabby Apple information, below are some additional sites others may be interested in (and happen to be free). Apologies if others have mentioned these in prior posts, and excuse my redundancy:

ruelala.com
gilt.com
ideeli.com
shopittome.com
alight.com (specializes in sizes 12 and up)

Note:
I THINK with the first three, you have to request membership. It's still free, but I received invitations to join the sites.

Gilt and Rue tend to be higher end in terms of price, FYI. But, they have the more well-known brands as well, so you if you're a label girl, you may find a good deal.

I particularly like Shop It to Me because it's very comprehensive, and I can tailor what kind of sales I want to see in the weekly email sent to me. Of course, others may have additional recommendations.

In addition to Brenda, there is another author, Nina Garcia, who has some good books. Check out her Amazon page.

Happy shopping!

Nina Garcia from Project Runway? Yea I'm a fashion hound, thanks for the information. Although I love to shop online, with my body shape I prefer to shop live that way I can try stuff on. A tip from 'What Not to Wear' it can time-consuming but I don't end up clothes that don't fit correctly or that don't look good on me. Especially pants, when it comes to pants I fit like 3 different sizes depending on cut.

Yep, that's her. I don't watch the show, but I knew she was a judge.

I understand why you want to shop live. With some things, I have to - like you mention, pants. I'm pear-shaped, so it's definitely tricky with pants. I try to shop online where return shipping is free. I know at least two of the sites I listed offer it.

Nevertheless, I can respect those who prefer to be tactile with their shopping!

Oh good Daphne, because that's one of the reasons I don't like to shop online, paying to send stuff back. Shipping I'm okay but I'm just hot when I have to pay to send it back LOL.

Thanks Daphne...share, share, share. As for the shopping online thing, I really did like Shabby Apple's shop-by-body type feature. The dress featured fit me perfectly based on the information I entered. My sister-in-law swears by shopittome.com, but I'll have to check out those other sites too. Girls, are you taking notes?!

I love the dresses Shabby Apple features for the pear-shaped ladies! Fun, flirty, and yet flattering.

By the way, if someone is unable to register for the membership sites I mentioned, you can email me at justaminutebbw[at]gmail.com. I'll send an invitation, for those who are interested. I just created this account, so I may forget to check regularly. But I'll check it, promise!

Update! Congrats to Bunny77--she got the shoes!

I hate you Bunny, but in a nice way LOL. Oh boy somebody is gonna be in for it when you get those suckers. Nothing but a red pair of shoes, hmmmm LMBO!!!!

Congratulation Bunny77!

Woo hoo!!!! Thanks everyone! You like me, you really like me! LOL

*scheming* So you say you live in Temecula eh? mmm hmmm. What's your address? Cause I am coming for that leopardy print blouse you are wearing AND those Pythin shoes AND the red ones (although I can't fit them). But I can look and admire.

So don't mind me if you happen to see me squeezing through your bedroom window trying to snatch those items up.

LOL but really I am a victoria's secret online/catalog clothes junkie. You can get pretty good deals on their stuff. I may have to check out that site though.

EGADS! Those red shoes hurt just looking at them! Besides, my dogs are 9 1/2s so....I kinda like the shoes you wore in the video...if they weren't python...I have a thing about snakes....shudder...

But I liked the outfit you wore. I'd wear it. I have always had my own kind of style. I mix and match and do what I like and what feels good and I've always gotten compliments on my style. I used to do some modeling when I was younger and I got advice from pros on how to dress my shape and I used that as the basis for what I liked. I love TJ Maxx and Marshall's as well and I use thrift shops too to look for the vintage looks I like AND for the designer stuff folks don't like anymore. I found a Ralph Lauren suit that I adore for $20 once. It had the wrong size label on it and though it is one size too big for me, it has that lovely kinda slouchy fit that is super. I have a closet full of Chico stuff that I got for next to nothing too.

Boo. I'm 9 and 1/2. Those shoes are hot. I'll console myself with the fact that I know they are not comfortable for a walker like me :)

Once again, my size 11 banana boats have no where to dock LOL Those are hot shoes though!

size 8 stand UP!!! but i want those PYTHON shoes you have on....god, they are boss!

Blasted, I'm an 8 and half, curse you shoe gods!!!

But I will say if you can't afford a fashion consultant or don't want to afford one, watch 'What Not to Wear' on TLC is you have it. Between Stacey London and Clinton Kelly, they helped me streamline my wardrobe and pick clothing that fits my body shape. I love 'em!

That's a good idea too Eugenia. I don't watch the show often, but I hear raves about it.

Well, the wonderful thing is they have so many different women on that show, that eventually you'll see your body type LOL. It's great because, it's not just about the style or even trying to trendy, it's about what looks good on your body. And how to use color (an issue I've had), pattern and print (another issue I've had, shape of clothing, and accessories to make yourself like a super fashionista. It's great. No matter what size you are.

Eugenia, I made a commitment in January to be MY BEST SELF, that is, the best I could be, from inside out and share with all of you, style and how you present yourself and your dress are VERY important to black women, especially since we have so many negative images to overcome. That's what the new category is all about. So thanks for sharing the show, and if anyone else has some suggestions, please feel free to comment.

Amen, Christelyn. Sometimes as bw we either do the overdress thing or the underdress thing, neither is good. And b/c I live in the PNW this place is very casual, in fact to me sometimes it's bordering on tacky, that goes for just about everybody up here. But I had to be me, which meant I always want to look nice, b/c I don't have to look at me other people do, they may as well have something nice to look at. Also my mom taught me about dressing appropriately for the event and for your age.

I'm really enjoy this health and beauty blog posts.

By the way I am loving those shoes and that blouse in the video. Off to Peppermint Park, LOL.

Glad you like. Next week we're covering etiquette. It'll be enlightening. One of the things I'll cover is the essentials that EVERY woman should have in her purse. You might be surprised at what that stuff will be.

Oh please Christelyn don't tell me to put more stuff in my purse. I finally got it down to a workable minimum. LOL.

Man! I wish I could fit these those are hot! Damn size 9 feet!!!

Size 8! Was just out shopping for red shoes, gloves and bags this week! *perfect way to beat the jan/feb winter blahs here in NYC...

What do we need to do to get the free membership?

I'm working with the tech guy on the artwork...I'm not making you guys wait on purpose! Well, I guess it's a little bit like dangling a carrot and MAYBE I get a little sick pleasure out of it, but...mostly not. Stay tuned. I'll let everyone know when we get it up.

Gurl! Now that's a shoe! Where are going to go in them if you win? I'd have to get some SERIOUS walk-in-heels training for those.