Swirl Love in the Netherlands: Meet This Newly-Engaged Couple!

Swirl Love in the Netherlands: Meet This Newly-Engaged Couple!

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Author : Christelyn Karazin

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What a way to ring in the new year–a proposal from your fancy-schmancy publisher boyfriend.

Meet Claudia, 40,  newly affianced to Pieter (is that the Euro way to spell it?), age 46. Both of them live in the Netherlands and met on an online dating site in 2009. Six weeks after they met they went on a cruise to the Dominican Republic and then it was on like Donkey Kong. Previously divorced, Claudia comes as a package–she has a 15 year-old-son and a 12-year-old daughter, and Pieter has been ah-maz-ing at the whole step-father thing. “Although I have a good relationship with my ex husband, Pieter is a great father to my kids as well. He helps out with homework, brings them to sport and even took care of them by himself last year because I had to go visit my mum in Suriname who had breast cancer,” said Claudia. “His motto is, ‘My family first,’ and I love him for that.”

The two plan on getting hitched in the summer, and I can’t says I blame them. You can’t even see the ground in Holland until spring.

Her advice to single online daters of the female persuasion? “Finding a good man on internet is hard, because there are a lot of crazy people on these sites too :) But knowing what you want and not setteling for less will make it easier.”

 

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DidiO 294 pts

Congrats to you two, such a lovely couple. I wish you long wedded bliss!

ClaudiaK 22 pts

Thank you all so much for the kind and lovely words. We are truly blessed !Let me share something with you ladies :)I signed in on the dating site, and just waited to see what would come my way. And there were a lot of crazy men out there. Some just there for a booty call. No, hell no.....

I knew what i wanted: a man without kids, no drunk, not smoking, not living with his momma, born,raised and living in the Netherlands. I know it was a long list right? Even for a divorced mum with 2 kids :) But after 6 weeks there he was, my Pieter sending me lots of hearts and i thought this man must be crazy.He wanted to meet me asap, so we met after a week in a lobby of a hotel for a drink( public place in case of..). He kept staring at me, and asked me to pinch him cause he was dreaming lol. We'll since i was amazed by his appearance we went for dinner in a wonderful romantic restaurant, and we kept staring at each other and talking,laughing like we knew one another for years. Butttt still very careful when it comes to my kids, he met them after 3 months. I wanted to be sure of this man, before introducing him to my babies :) So i googled to find info on him and i let my friends know, when and where i would meet him in case i never return home LOLTo make a long story short, we've been together since day one and i love him so so much. The first thing i hear when he wakes up is : i love you and i am happy to be with you....So ladies, don't give up hope but don't make it to easy for the men too on these dating sites.

We are getting married in august this year, so i will share some pictures with you all.......

Christelyn Thank you for the wonderful words and time to read and post our story.

Xxx from Claudia

Monique8 412 pts

How wonderful!! Wishing them much blissful happiness... she give me hopes :)

Marcie 257 pts

Truthfully there are loads of rainbeaus in Europe that are willing to meet black women. Time and time again I have encountered that. The good part is meeting men that have things in common and who just want to take care of you. I went on a trip to Rome and the men there were alright, not pushy but three out of a thousand were impolite. Older grumpy men in 50's and 60's I must add. But what stood out for me was a really lovely Italian newspaper seller. He gave us tips on how to get around,A lovely Swedish man in his late 20's-early 30's was there loads of times and was chatting to me on the bus....then when we got off ensured that we were going. I didnt exchange contacts though. I didnt ask. But that was really refreshing after a previous bad experience. An low and behold an English blond haired blue eyed man, who was a sightseeing guide/tout. He picked up on my TnT accent then really wanted to know more. When I told him I was living in England he was really entralled. Sadly he was a pass as well. But Ladies if you really want to meet lovely men travel and mix?mingle. It will really boost your self confidence.

Marcie 257 pts

Its nice the couple met online and want to stay together. I am no longer into internet dating as I've tried but was not successful. Its a real bed sore for me as a lot of men can hide who they truly are.....a lot of the times. Thats my experience but not saying other women shouldnt. Its up to them and the choices they make. Good luck people!!!:)

Marcie 257 pts

I also met a really nice German guy from Berlin in the hotel. He was tentative at first then I noticed him looking at me and said hi to him. He was only there for a few days with friends. He was disbled being in a whhelchair, army vet. He had a different schedule but we chatted a few times.

Joojubee 69 pts

wow, i was just looking into going to Europe this fall! was thinking Budapest, but maybe i'll go to the netherlands and get my swirl on! LOL!

Brenda55 4388 pts moderator

OK lets see.

Over forty.

Has kids.

Met online.

Getting married.

Wade da minute that can't be happening???????? LOL!

Congratulations to the newly betrothed couple. Many, many years of happiness to you both.

Law Wanxi 3328 pts

Oh, no, no no no. No cruise ships; they're too poorly constructed. If it isn't haze grey and underway, I'm not on it. [that's for you, Karla, LOL]

LovingMyself 193 pts

Gosh, stories like these just warm my heart. I'm becoming such a sap, lol.

Jules1 152 pts

It always amazes be how when two ppl are connected everything moves faster. There is no long drawn out dating and engagement period. They were already on a cruise together after six weeks. Plus Peiter has accepted her children and is so kind to them. Wonderful! I wish all the best for the future.

LovingMyself 193 pts

Jules1 I know right? It really does leave me amazed when things like that happen to people.

Mocha Z 1795 pts

Congratulations to your family! She is stunning and looks very happy! AND previously divorced?

Ladies....I must be a chicken! Bwak Bwak....... I swear y'all going to have to drag me back on the horse, lol. I guess I act like I'm in mourning or something.....I better get with the program. Girlfriend, you didn't just date, you got a new hubby! Go girl!

S85 37 pts

Beautiful! Congratulations Claudia and Pieter!

mspbody 78 pts

What a lovely couple!! Wishing them all the best!!

Seenyc 164 pts

Cogradulations to this beautiful couple! This is all I need to see and read about to negate all the stupid surveys, reports and/or articles about the dismal plight of black women dating and mating. Keep 'em comin'!

c_aleia 6 pts

twitter I am so happy for you both!!! Many Queen's not too many King's!

Rosie S 796 pts

Congrats! Good Luck!

I like how two of the women who are marrying Euro men met them on vacation or a cruise ship. Hmmmm *takes notes*

ForestElfQueen 2112 pts

Congratulations and Best Wishes!!<3 <3

dani-BBW 377 pts

Congrats!! I lived in Amsterdam briefly during college and loved my time there. My only regret is that I did not connect with more people.

BlackWomenDeserveBetter 665 pts

Congratulations to the happy couple! <B>LOVE, LOVE, LOVE</B> seeing these features Christelyn ...The frequency of which dispels the lies which keep Black women single!

My latest conversation: Red-Tail-Gate

Christelyn 3210 pts moderator

BlackWomenDeserveBetter There WILL be more!

BlackWomenDeserveBetter 665 pts

UhhhhHuuuhhhh....You can say that again!

My latest conversation: Red-Tail-Gate

Rainey 42 pts

Congratulations to them both!

DoraSummers 22 pts

Could someone please explain the points next to each person's name when they post comments

DoraSummers 22 pts

That's what I'm talking about. Congrats to the happy couple I wish them a happy and healthy marriage

ASwirlGirl 646 pts

Congrats!!!! All the best to this beautiful couple.

Toni_M 4842 pts

Great advice. :D Congrats to them!

....Black don't crack. (Somebody had to say it)

Luna Noire 396 pts

Toni_M LOL, no it doesn't. Another one of the wonderful gifts the Creator gave black women, and one that gives the older women among us an incredible advantage against other women the same age.

Mocha Z 1795 pts

Toni_M Black really don't crack! Good thing I scrolled down cuz that was going to be part of my post response, lol.

The Working Home Keeper 1495 pts

Awww...beautiful couple! Best wishes!