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By: KinkyCurly7

KinkyCurly7 — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 06:53:02 +0000

@CAPT SMOOTH Well thanks Capt! I’ve been told that very thing not too long ago about looking like Gina Torres…I guess I never saw that LoL.

I’m in Georgia, the NE Ga mountains to be slightly more exact. And I’m from Virginia Beach, so this is still very hard to get used to!

I’m sure we all enjoy the air of mystery, so maybe not posting a picture is a plus! And…Yes, you. I’m talkin to you. LoL!

By: KinkyCurly7

KinkyCurly7 — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 06:46:05 +0000

@CAPT SMOOTH @DavidNOLA LoL! Come on guys! You’re not that old! My mother is 51 and the word ‘old’ is never used in her presence LoL. Yes, I’m a “baby” compared to you guys age wise, but given the exceptional amount of BS I’ve been through to only be 32, I’m usually much more mature than my peers. Good thing is I’m still standing – quite tall and stronger than ever before at that. I am actually a member on AfroRomance right now and have been for over a year. I have been on countless dates and made some actual friends, but no cigar. I have actually thought on a number of different occasions that wearing an “I <3 White Guys” tee might actually help LoL! At any rate, I will never stop keeping my eyes peeled for that special someone – I know he’s out there.

David, Capt is right…you should definitely go into writing if you aren’t already. I could see every part of your memory in MY head! Good job! And mostly congrats of finding your love!

By: CAPT SMOOTH

CAPT SMOOTH — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 13:08:59 +0000

@KinkyCurly7
You resemble a younger Gina Torres to me. That’s a good thing, Lawrence Fishburn is a lucky devil!

What state in the south? I’m in upstate Florida and there’s still a lot of hillbilly accents and mentality up here!

I’m going to try to get a picture up this week. I just think the air of mystery keeps you ladies interested! Right now, your imaginations can picture me looking like anything between George Clooney and Danny Devito! I’ve been told (ten years ago) that I looked like Robert Deniro. I don’t see it, but hey, I took it as a compliment. Of course, You know how I had to reply, right? “Me? You talking to me?” LOL!

By: Christelyn

Christelyn — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 12:23:16 +0000

@DavidNOLA I loved how you told that story! Congratulations to you!

By: CAPT SMOOTH

CAPT SMOOTH — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 12:14:20 +0000

@DavidNOLA It sounds like you have a wonderful life and probably a good chance at a career writing Lifetime Original movies. LOL! Congratulations! But, fact check! KinkyCurly7 is only 32 so let’s not make her older than she is. Still a youngster compared to old guys like you and me.

By: DavidNOLA

DavidNOLA — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 11:27:33 +0000

My darling Jamaican bride and I met on AfroRomance in January, 2012. After a couple “views”, then flirts, and a few e-mails, we moved off-site and proceeded to burn up the phone lines between Jamaica and New Orleans. By October, without having met face-to-face, we knew we had found the love we both were seeking! I’m 56, in good health, and definitely not going to let a thousand miles of ocean keep us from being together!! We married on my first trip to see her last December…tried to get the 12/12/12, but only about a BILLION other people had the same idea! My first sight of her was from a balcony at the hotel as she was walking with her suitcase from the main building. I knew even from a distance that it was her because I felt her presence. I called out to her, and the sound of her voice carried only by the wind, unencumbered by phone lines or static, absolutely took my breath away!! No words can describe the feelings coursing through me when our eyes finally met and I could see her gentle spirit shining within her. All her strength, her character, and her love washed over me as we stood motionless in the twilight. Hmmmmm….getting lost in the memory here..!
What I want to say to the other ladies here, particularly foreverhopeful and KinkyCurly7, is that you are at an age (as I am) where you’ve accumulated some life experience and already dealt with plenty of B.S.; and you are STILL STANDING!! God has blessed you, and will never abandon you. I firmly believe that it is NOT too late for anyone to find that special someone! In fact, on the Interracial Dating Central site, they recently posted one of their Success Stories of a pair in their 70′s!! As for the niche dating sites like AfroRomance and IDC, I can’t say enough about how well they promote a safe, healthy environment for people who have openly declared themselves to have a more global view of humanity! I certainly would NEVER have met my loving wife on my own without them! And my singular efforts at dating interracially were quite disappointing, in that I would approach a woman, establish some communication, and most often, when I expressed an interest beyond something casual, they “aren’t into mixing”. I got a good laugh when I looked at Christelyn’s video with Matthew and she joked about having a sign on her forehead that advertised “I DATE WHITE GUYS!” Yep! That sure woulda been helpful at times! SO, my best advice for a productive search of QUALITY men who openly declare themselves as interested in “swirling” is to join one of those niche websites that I mentioned (and NO, I ain’t getting a commission!) for your best chance of success. God be with you always!

By: KinkyCurly7

KinkyCurly7 — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 04:13:42 +0000

@CAPT SMOOTH Thanks for the warm welcome, Capt! Yes, that icon is my real picture, maybe 6 months old. I’m glad someone is showing interest! It’d be nice if I could see you… You’d be surprised at how much of I problem I do have finding white guys that are interested – they are far and few between. In the area I live in they are too afraid to talk to me ( I can see it in their eyes) or are a little too extra hillbilly…go figure LoL

By: CAPT SMOOTH

CAPT SMOOTH — Tue, 05 Feb 2013 14:17:32 +0000

@KinkyCurly7
Welcome sweetpea, If you’re using your own picture as your icon, your extremely cute! This white guy is glad you’re giving us a shot and may I say you shouldn’t have any problem finding white guys that are interested! I am!

By: KinkyCurly7

KinkyCurly7 — Tue, 05 Feb 2013 02:28:51 +0000

I’m very excited about this website! Kudos to you, Christelyn! I love it! I knew I had a preference when I was in fourth grade – Joe Green was his name LoL – he even had braces and surfer boy hair. Anyway, life led me through and dated anyone I chose to, but it seemed that more often than not those I desired weren’t ready for the potential stares and whispers as you appear in public here in the South. On to college, where I did marry and have children, with a black man, not out of need to be “loyal to my race”, but truly out of the love I held for this person. Now, I’m 32, a divorced & dating, single mother and my goodness it has been interesting! But the experiences I have had dating outside my race have left me with fond memories, much more so than within, so I continue I shall. I’ve found, while there is still resistance, there are more men opening up to dating black women and that…well, that is something to truly smile about!

By: foreverhopeful

foreverhopeful — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 17:27:46 +0000

@reporterandgirl I just went to your blog. You are so talented! There isn’t a better way to express yourself than through the written word.