Sticking out tongues

How Nothing-But-A-Black-Man (NBABM) Women Really Ruin it for Us

I feel confident in saying that my hunny is a pretty handsome fella. Many other women seem to think so as well. When we go out he often gets offered … [Read more...]


The Sweetest Déjà Vu: My One-Year Journey Through Unemployment

Walking into the office I felt a sense of déjà vu. It wasn't exactly déjà vu though because I'd never been there before. The place was just … [Read more...]


The Sweetest Déjà Vu Pt. 2: 11 Tips for Landing the Job and Keeping The Faith

I can hardly believe that pretty much one-month short of a year, I not only finally have a full time job again but also it's one in my field. The … [Read more...]


An Open Letter To My Hunny on Our First Anniversary

Dear Jay, How one whole year has come and gone is absolutely beyond me. Time speeds by around us so quickly it seems like twelve months have zoomed … [Read more...]


VintageNarcissa: An Example of the Future of Our Family Trees?

One of my favorite guilty pleasure shows is Pretty Little Liars. On the show, my favorite character is Spencer Hastings, played by actress Troian … [Read more...]


VintageNarcissa: Not All Progressive Black Women are Beyond Black and White (and That’s Okay)

One thing I really enjoy about Beyond Black and White is that it’s a safe space for black women who do not fit the norm. As we've witnessed in recent … [Read more...]