Dating Trend: FICO Before F^&Kbois Challenge

Written by Nicole We all know dating is hard, the dating pool is kind of…contaminated, and character over color is the name of the game. As the ...

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5 Behaviors/Beliefs That Keep BW LOSING

Written by Nicole Everybody wants to be a winner. To the victor goes the spoils. History is told by the winners. The person that said winning isn’t ...

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Black Women: Pawn, Cannon Fodder, Sacrifice

Written by Nicole A thirty second clip from a march in Louisville, Kentucky, protesting the lack of justice for Breonna Taylor, has started making the...

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A Look at Sexual Abuse in the Black Community

Written by Nicole ***Trigger warning: mentions of sexual abuse*** I cannot tell you how many news articles I have seen that boldly states “Man/Woman...

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Shaynah and Dennis, Precious in His Sight, Part 2

Shaynah was one of the ladies who responded to a request I made for couples to share their stories. I really loved this interview. I hope you enjoy he...

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Black Love: Lessons in Marrying Down

Written by Nicole 2020 continues to be one hell of a year. There has been tragedy and triumph, natural disasters at every corner, and of course, Miss ...

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Pink Pill for College Girls: Alone is not an insult!

Written by Nicole J. Maybe you’ve seen it before. Someone is talking to you about a rough patch they are going through with their partner. It may be...

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The “I Only Protect Females In My Family” Lie

Written by Nicole (Trigger warning: mentions of rape, murder) In the last few weeks of summer, we have seen an uptick in discussions around “protect...

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Beware the Struggle Hypothetical

Written by Nicole Ladies, would you date an unemployed high school drop-out whose current address is the couch of whichever friend is letting him cras...

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4 Words That Will Change BW’s Lives FOREVER

Written by Nicole Throughout social media there are scores of black women looking for “The Answer”. The Question in need of answering varies depen...

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Candace Owens is Pregnant! My thoughts

Written by Nicole I know I’m in the minority when I say I like Candace Owens. She goes against the grain, and while I do not agree with much of her ...

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Six Things for Black Women to Cancel for 2020+

Written by Nicole 2020 has been the year of cancellation. The year itself has been cancelled, and it took everything, from a political darling’s car...

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