Next week I’ll be 46. And you know what? I’m sooo good with it. I’ve learned so much, and I still have so much more to learn. Here’s 10 Things I’ve learned in my life that have made a huge difference: *Be brave
*Stop talking yourself out of success. And stop letting others talk you out of it too.
*Make peace with knowing not everyone in the world is going to like you.
*Take calculated risks—except with your body and soul.
*Figure out what drives you—good or bad. Do more good, figure out how to stop the bad.
*Don’t treat your body cheaply. She’ll reward you or punish you as you deserve.
*Don’t let social media fool you. It is impossible to have thousands of close friends. Get off the internet and make some real ones. *Admitting you are wrong doesn’t mean you weak, and it doesn’t mean you’re not worth a damn. Dust off and do better next time.
*I know World Star is juicy, but limit yourself to negativity. You are what you eat—physically AND spiritually.
*Happy people don’t deliberately hurt others. If this is you, seek some help.
One of my biggest accomplishments that I am so proud of is The Pink Pill, an online course course designed specifically for black women. The positive reviews are off the chain, and I would love for you to see it for yourself. If you are a black woman, and any of this resonates, go to http://www.GetPinkPill.com. For my birthday month, I’m offering 50% off the regular price—the lowest the program has an ever will be. I’d love for you to join me on this journey my Pink Pill sisters and I are on. Just use coupon code, JULY50 at checkout.
See you on the other side of 46! xo
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A bit of karmic common sense: don’t trash someone online because you think it could get you a come up. For 10 years I have been YouTube’s “whipping girl.” Black people love the drama of controversy, and it LITERALLY used to pay to do multiple trash-talk videos saying straight up lies about me, because it was a cheap and easy way to gain subscribers and followers. I discovered ONE AGAIN, that a person who went on a months-long campaign of calling me a liar, a cheat and a detriment to black women blithely admit that she received BAD INFORMATION from people who had an AGENDA. So…I guess it’s just no, harm, no foul? Never mind I was so stressed my hair fell out in clumps? That I cried in secret because of the injustice of it all? That I saw women who had supposedly been fans of man completely betray me? You guys, what happens on the internet and how to behave DOES impact others. You can either do good, or do evil. What will YOU use this tool for?