Common Anti-Swirling Scare Tactics and Potential Responses

Now more than ever, the relationship choices made by black women are pretty much a political statement. But there is no relationship more criticized and analyzed than that of a black woman with a nonblack man. This is especially so if a black woman finds her happiness with a white man. There have even been…

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The Yaaaas! Life: Making Sacrifices To Get What You Really W...

Years ago, I had a personal trainer who said something in a casual conversation that has stuck with me for well over a decade now. “Excuses are like...

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Ancestry.com Ad and the Curious Case of Faux Outrage

The controversial Ancestry.com ad featuring a black woman and white man in love in the time of slavery days has been removed and an apology issued, an...

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Ancestry.com commercial: I Have Mixed Feelings and Here̵...

Written by Saran Lawson I love love guys. I make it no secret on my Instagram page or my blog. I love it when people can come together despite socioec...

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Ancestry.com Risks it All with Slave-Era IR Romance Commerci...

So…a birdie showed me this… While I’m not sure who this couple is (I Googled her; nada). But the idea of investigating whether these...

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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do you write a...

I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic f...

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“Italian Stallion” Frank Tufano Joins Me on YouT...

As a content creator with my own share of drama, I’m always fascinated by what other people sip tea and pop the popcorn on. Boy, was I surprised...

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What Are We Really Hungry For?

For years, I was able to maintain my weight with minimal exercise and a balanced diet. Then my late 30s set in and it became a lot harder. Not only th...

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Video: About the Guardian Article on Colorism…

The Guardian is doing a series on colorism, and I can say is…IT’S ABOUT TIME! In this video, I address this article in particular....

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Secret Rule to Meet Men

Written by Saran Lawson It’s crowded in the Mexican Restaurant the day we decided to patronize. This place is standing room only. Of course, the...

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Black women still support R. Kelly, and water is wet.

News recently broke that the disgraced R. Kelly performed a 28 second long set for $100. I don’t know or care if it was $100 per person in attendanc...

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Popular YouTuber Launches Magazine Catering to Dark-Skinned ...

If you have ever been the little black girl who looked in vain in magazines for your reflection or ever been told by word and deed that “dark gi...

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What About Your Friends: Don’t Cut Them Off Yet!

Written By Saran Lawson If we don’t have our backs who will. In the name of looking out for each other let’s talk about cutting off friend...

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