Hypergamy and Leveling Up in Everyday Life

What does hypergamy mean to you? Side Effects May Vary I notice that people have a rather varying views of hypergamy and leveling up. That is absolute... READ MORE

Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! 

Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not... READ MORE

Don’t Worry, Meghan’s Bag is Still Sec...

Written by Penelope Farthing Warning: Please be advised that there are 2 mentions of the N-word used in this article. It is relevant to the context of... READ MORE

Rottweilers, Bulldogs, and Black Women

Written by Penelope Farthing Before today, I didn’t know who Ari Lennox was. My first introduction to this beautiful black woman was some idiot on T... READ MORE

Jodie and Joshua are married!

Written by Penelope Farthing Christelyn did a video on The Pink Pill YouTube channel, and now it’s my turn! It looks like the cat is out of the ... READ MORE

13-Year Male Birth Control and Black Women

Written by Penelope Farthing News broke recently that a male birth control option that would last thirteen years might be available soon. It would be ... READ MORE

Does Kate Middleton have any black friends?

Written by Penelope Farthing By now we all know who Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge, AKA Kate Middleton, is. She’s Queen Consort and has birthed... READ MORE

Loni Found her Love: Swirling on The Real, Part 2

The Struggle is Real In my last article, I did a breakdown on the first part of The Real’s interracial dating conversation last week. I thought that... READ MORE

Finding Your Rainbeau: Loni Speaks, Part 1

It Gets Real I have been watching episodes of The Real for quite some time. I started watching shortly after Tamar left, and, occasionally, I will go ... READ MORE

Question of the Week: Why Do You Swirl?

I recently noticed a rather lengthy post from one of our male followers. I thought that I would share his post, with permission. I hope that you enjoy... READ MORE

Why is the bar so low?

Written by Penelope Farthing Stop me if you’ve seen it before.   Say you’re scrolling on Facebook and you come across a status shared by a fr... READ MORE

Trash Pick Me Relationship “Advice”

You don’t need me to tell you that relationships these days are hard work. Even if you get past the preliminary vetting stages to make sure he is no... READ MORE

Solange and Alan: Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow

We have some more black love news for everyone. Unfortunately, it is not pleasant. Solange and her husband of four years are getting divorced. Accordi... READ MORE

What do you gain from incessant manstroking?

Written by Penelope Farthing I spend a lot of time online in black women circles. The topics are vast, ranging from hair and makeup to keto recipes to... READ MORE