Better To Be Alone than Date a Bum!

Written by Nicole Now more than ever it is important to do what needs to be done to secure the very best life for yourself. The pandemic rages on, and... READ MORE

Dating Trend: FICO Before F^&Kbois Challenge

Written by Nicole We all know dating is hard, the dating pool is kind of…contaminated, and character over color is the name of the game. As the ... READ MORE

Black Love: Lessons in Marrying Down

Written by Nicole 2020 continues to be one hell of a year. There has been tragedy and triumph, natural disasters at every corner, and of course, Miss ... READ MORE

Beware the Struggle Hypothetical

Written by Nicole Ladies, would you date an unemployed high school drop-out whose current address is the couch of whichever friend is letting him cras... READ MORE

QUIZ: Do you deserve black male protection?

WRITTEN BY NICOLE Do You Deserve Black Male Protection? Take this quiz to find out! There has been a lot of talk online about the concept of protectio... READ MORE

Let’s Talk About The P-Word

Written by Nicole Preference. Society at large has gotten away with believing that black women should accept any morsel of attention thrown her way. I... READ MORE

Lessons to Learn from Nicki Minaj’s Latest R...

WRITTEN BY NICOLE When Nicki Minaj first hit the scene, I was a fan. I liked her lyrics and I have always found her punchlines funny (and I still do).... READ MORE

Critically Examining What BLM Believes –> Di...

Edited by Eubie Drew -- We [Black Lives Matter]... (a)  disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement (b)  by supporting... READ MORE

Shaynah and Dennis, Precious in His Sight, Part 2

Shaynah was one of the ladies who responded to a request I made for couples to share their stories. I really loved this interview. I hope you enjoy he... READ MORE

Shaynah and Dennis: Eleven Years and Counting, Par...

Shaynah was one of the ladies who responded to a request I made for couples to share their stories. I really loved this interview. I hope you enjoy he... READ MORE

Counterpoint to “White Privilege, My Family&...

by Married Black Expat -- I appreciate these examples of White privilege. But unfortunately many crimes committed in the Black community do not result... READ MORE

To Heat or not to Heat: That is the Question, Part...

Note: Tweets in this post were used without permission, in order to offer contextual. We are back at it again with this Twitter thread. In case you ne... READ MORE

To Heat or Not To Heat: That is the Question, Part...

When Ayanna decides to turn up the heat to 72 degrees, Brianna turns up the heat in her own way.... READ MORE

Diagnosis: Swirl Apologist Syndrome

Written by Nicole For all the talk we have about black women dating interracially, black women who date and marry out represent a small fraction of th... READ MORE