Proposing While Pregnant? I Think TF Not!...

Written by Nicole   Let’s start this blog post with a little exercise. From the browser of your choice, open a Private/Incognito window and Google “woman proposing to man”. Ignoring the ones that are either illustrations or stock photos, is there a trend you notice? Share what you see in the comments below.   With…

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Abolish Using BW in Scapegoat Imagery!!!...

Written by Nicole   The latest hit against black women’s image has been circling the usual outlets in the last few days. Football player Colin ...

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At-Home Exercises to Tackle Pandemic Pounds...

What a year it has been! In one breath, it’s already May, and in another…it’s only May. But one thing has remained pretty common the world over ...

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Long Live The Regular Black Women...

Long live the regular black woman.   In a world where a black woman has to be downright superhuman in every way to be considered worthy, let’s ...

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3 Things More Pressing Than Justin Bieber’s Hair...

 Written by Nicole Canadian crooner Justin Bieber made the news this week after posting an Instagram photo of himself wearing some dreadlocks. As exp...

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I Choose Rest: 2021 Refresh...

Written by Nicole It’s been just over two months since I wrote my last blog post, as I took some time off from mid-February to now. It wasn’t for ...

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How to Pink Pill your Clubhouse Experience...

Note: This article was not written or endorsed by Christelyn Karazin, Nicole or any other writers on the blog.  We have been on a journey about negat...

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It’s Time To Move to Brazil and the Philippines...

Note: This article was not written or endorsed by Christelyn Karazin, Nicole or any other writers on the blog. Why should we move to these specific co...

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Why I Will Be Avoiding The Black Algorithm on Clubhouse, Par...

Note: This article was not written or endorsed by Christelyn Karazin, Nicole or any other writers on the blog.  In my last article on the blog, I set...

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Why I Will Be Avoiding The Black Algorithm on Clubhouse, Par...

Note: This article was not written or endorsed by Christelyn Karazin, Nicole or any other writers on the blog.  Clubhouse is the audio-only app that ...

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Meghan Markle versus the World: Where Do We Go From Here?...

I have been taking some time to share my thoughts on the Meghan Markle situation. I hope to explore more thoughts on the interview, Meghan and Harry...

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Meghan Markle Versus the World: What Else Went Wrong?...

I remember that last year this time, I wrote a draft article that I never posted for the blog. (I’m going to try and weave some of those past though...

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Meghan Markle versus the World: What Went Wrong?...

It has been quite an eventful week for Meghan and Harry, following their explosive tell-all interview with THE Oprah Winfrey. We’ve been discussing ...

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Stop Arguing with Trolls in Comment Sections...

Written by Nicole New year, new you! January is now behind us and February is well on its way. But, since constant improvement is the name of the game...

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Is it lame to love your wife?: Russell and Ciara...

Written by Nicole   Social media has been quite busy the last few weeks! It seems that once 2021 kicked off, there was much to be shared. There w...

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Self-Care is more than Masks and Manicures...

Written by Nicole   Pandemic notwithstanding, 2020 seemed to be the year of “self-care”. As the world adjusted to lockdowns, shutdowns, and e...

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Socially Distant Valentine’s Day Date Ideas!...

Written by Nicole With Valentine’s Day only two days away, the season of love is upon us. And unless you live in New Zealand, where they are COVID-f...

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Tell me you’re divested without TELLING me you’re divest...

Written by Nicole   Ah, social media. Home to a rapid-spreading Bernie Sanders inauguration meme, Tik Tok dances that my 30-something year old jo...

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Let’s Talk About the N-Word...

Written by Nicole Historically, black women have heard a lot of the N-word. Everyone spouts the word at the drop of a hat, unconcerned about how it mi...

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Fake Concern: BW and Domestic Violence...

Written by Nicole Social media has lit up after (white) football player Chad Wheeler assaulted his (black) girlfriend within an inch of her life, then...

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interracial couple with the black woman getting a piggyback ride

Twitter After Dark 2: Which Line Is It Anyway?...

  Note: Twitter screenshots within posts are provided for entertainment value only. This is not a license to harass anyone depicted.  I came bac...

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Your Concern For Candace Owens’ Baby is FAKE...

Written by Nicole   Earlier this month, conservative commentator Candace Owens and her husband George Farmer welcomed their first-born son into t...

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Jason and Colette: Player One and Player Two...

Colette took me up on my offer to e-mail me about her love story. She and Jason met in the most amazing way. I hope you love hearing about their seven...

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Enjoying the Great Outdoors: Hiking and Camping with Myriam...

I met Myriam through Facebook, and I have really enjoyed the content that she put on the timeline. When I saw some of the images of her on a mountaint...

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2021: The Year BW Should Stay Home...

Written by Nicole If last week’s events are anything to go by, it is past time for black women to AGGRESSIVELY stay home. This is especially true if...

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PSA: Actually, Bonnets Don’t Belong On Zoom...

Written by Nic 2020 has been the year of remote working. The pandemic has shown that, not only could that meeting have been an email, but that email c...

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It’s Time to Build the Wall (of Silence) ...

It has been so long since I have written a post for the blog. Work had been cracking the whip, but I loved the articles from Nicole and Christelyn. It...

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Mantras for Black Women in 2021...

Written by Nicole We are now six days into 2021, and things are already popping off. Unrest is happening in the Capitol as I type this, celebrity divo...

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Things We Are Giving Up in 2021!...

Written by Nicole Happy New Year! Congratulations on surviving what was probably the weirdest year of your life! Maybe you crushed your goals, maybe y...

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Acts of Rebellion That Actually Benefit BW...

Written by Nicole   Maybe because of our warrior ancestors, or the difficulties we endure in modern life being both black and female, many of us ...

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