Have You Seen This Hunk? Nick Bateman Blows Up Facebook.


Take a look at this specimen of perfection... So who is he? He's Nick Bateman. A model, actor, and wanna-be Ninja Turtle that has everyone on … [Read more...]

Ratchet Roundup: News We Didn’t Cover this Week and Are Darned Proud of It!

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So...yes I saw the unfortunate video clip of Solange Knowles taking out 400 years of slavery on Jay Z's already unfortunate-looking face. Beyonce said … [Read more...]

Okay, So Our Newest BB&W Can Sing His Ass Off and While Making You Laugh Off Yours


If you haven't yet met the funny, cute and thoughtful "Zac Onbothsides," perhaps it's a good thing, because he's ready to show his musical and comedic … [Read more...]

Black Chicks All Look Alike…I Guess…


This is kind of inane news, but at the time I thought it was funny. Watch this FOX sports correspondent mistake a random NASCAR fan as Donna Summer. … [Read more...]

Time to Reactivate the Friday Funny: “Who Would You Boink, Livefyre Edition!


It's been a loooong time since we've done, "Who Would You Boink," and we haven't done it since Livefyre allowed for commenters to post pictures and … [Read more...]

What’s In A Name?

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From time to time we discuss names black Americans give their children.  I have seen some pretty outlandish names encroached upon innocent children … [Read more...]

Monday-Punday #24


Monday-Punday #24 SirLoin thought you'd all enjoy this bit of wisdom ... The Pink Gorilla A middle-aged man is on a business trip through … [Read more...]

LMAO Haters are Hilarious!

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Sometimes, when I read mean and crazy stuff by people who have an insane, mouth-frothing, over-the-top hatred for me, I get sad. And then I realize, I … [Read more...]

Monday Punday # 19


Monday-Punday # 19   These two strings walk up to a bar... The first string walks in and orders and the bartender throws him out and … [Read more...]

Video Rewind…You Tube, the Early Days

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I was taking a look at some of my older videos done back when the blog was new, and I realized that all the newbies haven't had the chance to fully … [Read more...]