A Very Special Christmas to My BB&W Family!

Merry Christmas!... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “do you think it’...

Her family is putting on the pressure, and it's not helping that she's not getting attention with the men she desires.... READ MORE

FINALLY! Salon Results at Home! Here’s How I...

The shine is unbelievable, and my hair doesn't feel the least bit brittle or dry.... READ MORE

Shoreline Food: Mussels with Tomatoes and Herbs


Yum, yum, delicious.... READ MORE

Why Are These Bitter Chicks Hating On Michael Ealy...

News about "Think Like a Man" star Michael Ealy secretly married a non-black woman was posted today on the Essence Facebook fan page. My girl Rasheda ... READ MORE

The Lame Aunt’s Guide to Last-Minute Christm...

Lame aunts, you know who you are. It's five days till Christmas and you still having gotten a gift for your adorable little niece or nephew because yo... READ MORE

Go Ultra Feminine for the Holidays

So them how strong being soft can be.... READ MORE

Beware the “I haven’t found the right ...

Don't be like the hamster who runs on the wheel, huffing and puffing and going nowhere.... READ MORE

(Almost) Tangle-Free Twist Out Technique!

A common problem with fine-haired naturals is knotting at the ends which leads to breakage. I'd given up twist outs altogether because of this problem... READ MORE

Poll: Which are You, “Black Woman” Fir...

How you see yourself affects just about every aspect of your life, so it's worth thinking about.... READ MORE

White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black...

I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes...... READ MORE

Have We Completely Lost Our Humanity? Connecticut ...

Did I just hear Bill Handel say "elementary school," like, with young kids, like...babies? Killed?... READ MORE

Who Says “Black” is “Black?̶...

My friend Kola Boof never pulls any punches. Sometimes I just hangout out on her Facebook page with my popcorn and watch the show. One of her posts la... READ MORE

UPDATED VIDEO DEMO: Real Talk: How Much Would You ...

When I first started to give doing my hair a go, I thought I'd save a ton of money not going to the salon and being held hostage all day to an overboo... READ MORE