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The Exotic Okey Doke: How Black Women Got Tricked Out Of Sexy


This post was published on July 26, 2013 by Toni. Things quickly got out of hand in the comment section, derailing into talking about women-friendly … [Read more...]

Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “The Enemy”? Part II

I wrote the first part in response to the negative attitudes I'd seen from single black women regarding marriage. Specifically people who have never … [Read more...]

A “Twisted” Commentary On Black Women As TV Love Interests


I confess, as someone who doesn't watch ABC Family (the programming is a bit "young" for me much of the time), the show "Twisted" was not on my radar. … [Read more...]

Kerry Washington Marries a Black Man, And Yet She STILL Remains the Embodiment of What BB&W Is About

Are these two people together??

The cat has gotten out of the bag. Super-secretive-about-her-love-life actress Kerry Washington married football player Nnamdi Asomugha sometime … [Read more...]

Black Women: How BOLD Are You? Steps to Show You How.

Posing Young Woman

Something I've been working on is my level of mental and emotional boldness. I don't mean being brash or careless, but bold. To be bold and be a black … [Read more...]

From Lifestyle Blogging to Being a Foodie: Black Women Bloggers You Oughta Know

Franchesca Ramsey

The experiences of black women are diverse. There are black women on the web dishing on their globetrotting, lifestyles, ideals, businesses, … [Read more...]

Black Women Are Spending Too Much Time and Effort Going to School, They Should Be Spending That Time Trying to Get Married


Numerous black women-centric websites have reported on a report issued by the United Negro College Fund which declares that black women are enrolling … [Read more...]

Jenn M. Jackson Says, “Cheerios Commercial Philosophers, Have Several Seats”

cheerios ad little girl

Originally posted on Water Cooler Convos. Several folks have reached out to me wondering my opinion about the Cheerios ad heard 'round the world in … [Read more...]

Have A Seat, Bigots: No Self-Respecting Swirl-Minded Person Is Checking For You!


I was initially going to write a post in response to this hilarious hot mess of an article. But given the recent influx of misplaced members of the … [Read more...]

Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is NOT Just a Swirling Club.

Christelyn loves us. How do I know this? Because she does not just tell us what we want to hear. That is what people who sincerely care about us … [Read more...]