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Watch this Short, Award-Winning Film on Interracial Relationships in Germany: Schwarz Weiss Deutsch
Schwarz Weiss Deutsch (English title: Germany in Black and White) stars a couple, played by Fabian Püschel and Eve Wangui,who discuss their interracial relationship and racial politics in Germany.
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Tom Stemberg, Staples Inc., And Why Marriage Does NOT A Quality Man Make….
Staples Inc., founder Tom Stemberg has come into the spotlight very recently thanks to buddy Mitt Romney’s possible perjury on his behalf during his divorce. Even though I mention Romney’s “October Surprise”, this post is not about him or politics as usual.
What this post is about is…
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Have the Publicists for the Recent Slavery-themed Films Begun To Respond to the Complaints?
Is Hollywood finally listening to the concerns of black women and how their image is portrayed in the media? “Django Unchained” releases a second video that give Kerry Washington more character depth.
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Younger, Less-Educated, People of Color Are The Most Likely to Identify as LGBT
Are African Americans really homophobic? A surprising study has found that blacks are actually the most likely racial group to openly identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender (LGBT)
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Black Femininity: Who Decides What?
I maintain that black femininity is under attack. The question is asked, “Well, what is black femininity?” The answer as far as I’m concerned is femininity in a woman who is black. But of course that’s far too simplistic an answer for such a complex issue….or is it?
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A Black Conservative Woman’s Take on Mitt Romney and Black Mormons
I am a proud conservative republican and Mitt Romney supporter. With the level of vitriol hurled at black conservatives, I was not going to chime in as I think “why bother” sometimes this is not my fight. But I have a right to my say and views as much as anyone else. I don’t insult anyone who feels differently, nor do I resort to name calling because I disagree politically with anyone.
Having said that, I am by no means a defender of the Mormon faith but knowing what I know, I could not stand by and let some of the assumptions I have seen go unchallenged.
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Notes About the Bus Driver with the Killer Uppercut: “Men Are People Too”
For the passed few days, everyone has been speculating about the woman receiving the, “FINISH HIM!!” uppercut. But what about the man who was, hit and spit on?
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“Macho” Little Black Girls: The Anti-Femininity War on Black Women
Note: For the purpose of this article, I’m dealing with a specifically observed issue that has nothing to do with “butch” lesbianism in black women or non-black women. What I’m talking about is not an outgrowth of self-identified sexuality, sexual expression, or a conscious decision by the individual to move away from gender norms and form their own identity. This post is on something ENTIRELY different.
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Brenda’s Rebuttal to Bloggers Who Take Jabs at Black Women Who Prefer Interracial Dating
“We on sites like this one want better than misery. We are not dumb, we have eyes and we know what we have been through and what so many of our fellow black women are going through. We question the reasons why and attempt to set a course of action to live full and happy lives on our own terms. We want no parts of the grand delusion that others attempt to sell to us. We know better.”
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Bloggers Continue to Take Jabs at Black Women Who Prefer Interracial Dating
Black women catch so much flack for seeking interracial relationships. Now black bloggers are targeting K. Michelle and her unapologetic preference for white men.
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Meet the First Lady of Justice: Fatou Bensouda
Ms. Fatou B. Bensouda, from the Republic of The Gambia, assumed the position of Chief Prosecutor of the International Criminal Court in June 2012. Described as “a composed, stately woman with serene features” who projects “confidence and gravitas” and never forgets a name, Ms. Bensouda also has the experience to back up her demeanor.
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“It’s Cool If You Date White Men, But….”: Why is the GAT-DL Trying to Regulate Black Woman Who Date Interracially?
Pro-interracial websites has become the GAT-DL’s new favorite whipping toy. Various bloggers across the web cluck their tongues on how and which manner is acceptable for black women to swirl. Toni takes a serious look at what this new gaslighting tactic is all about.
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When Racial Unity Becomes Dangerous: Pillars of Salt Extreme Edition
As discussed in the previous blog post, Pillars of Salt – What a Waste of Time! We saw the example of Lot’s wife in the Bible. Turning to look back, she became a pillar of salt. She simply could not resist the deadly draw of her community and could not let go of the ties that bound her to it – not even to save her own life. Today, I want to address Pillars of Salt Extreme Edition (POS-EE). These are women who for their own lives will not leave dangerous neighborhoods and environments. This extreme and dire situation prompted an open appeal to them.
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Why Can’t Some Black Women Put Their Interests Above Black Men?
The truth is “good” is subjective. “Good” is a word used so loosely, any black man with a pulse and a functioning penis may find himself on the right side of the word in the eyes of a black woman who doesn’t know any better.
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