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21 Feb 15

Want To Know What Black Men REALLY Think Of Black ...

So many people were following the recent post about Amber Rose and the Kardashians that we were gifted some great (and not so great) feedback. Many me...

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25 Apr 14

Black Women Who Seek To Eliminate Themselves ̶...

I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from po...

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30 Mar 14

White Feminist Pretending To Be “Concerned&#...

UPDATE!!!!!!! It is all a hoax ladies and gentleman the source article is a Hoax. “Anne Gus” is really a guy who was outed after posting a...

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19 Feb 14

Spring forward and get a jump start on your spring...

Those of us who are major fashion heads are always keeping our eyes trained forward to the next season although we may be firmly entrenched in one at ...

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18 Feb 14

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working”...

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK mot...

17 Feb 14

You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind R...

In my previous article on the whole “gold digger” meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the wo...

10 Feb 14

BBW’s First Valentine’s Day Gift Guide...

Women if you are like me, you are absolutely stumped about what to buy your beau for VDay. I personally think men are harder to shop for than women. S...

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02 Feb 14

That Awkward Privilege: The Mixed Power Status of ...

Ever wanted to demonstrate the paradox of Black Male [Mixed] Privilege by systematically illustrating how male privilege is fully analogous to White ...

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20 Jan 14

Toni: “Don’t Judge” = “Hel...

Any Twilight Zone fans out there? “Neither sympathy nor compassion can be handed out wholesale like cheap bubblegum.” This is a quote from...

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17 Jan 14

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. 🙂 I see ...

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13 Jan 14

Three Beauty Looks That Are So Right Now

It’s winter. We’re feeling it. We are mostly wearing dark clothes like black, grey, and burgundy. Most days, if we are honest, we really d...

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13 Jan 14

QOTW: White Man Asks, “What Is Black Culture...

I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Okay, I might answer this question myself pretty well, but most non-Black people, and apparently the “...

04 Jan 14

Kicking 2014 in the Proverbial A**: Obsessions

Happy New Year Darlings!I’ve been on a mini hiatus from blogging because well, frankly, I needed a break from communicating.. Now I am back with...

23 Dec 13

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Commen...

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it’s own post. Friends...