Oneika the Traveler: How I Afford to Travel

Woman and Paris

In Guatemala last summer   I travel. A lot. The last few years I make anywhere from 7 to 10 international trips a year. I get a … [Read more...]

Slideshow: Grey Villet’s Photos of the Lovings

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Feast your eyes on the shots Grey Villet, LIFE magazine photographer captured of our heroes, The Lovings. Be sure to tune in on Valentine's … [Read more...]

JQAbroad: Working and Living it Up in Korea, and Why You Should Put Some Serious Thought Into It, Too.

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  Living abroad has been one of the greatest accomplishments I have done for my life. It was something I had always set out to do ever since I … [Read more...]

Gay Men: The Black Community’s Favorite Whipping Boys.

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The Black community is filled with hypocrisy. Recently, I had a raging debate about gay marriage with a friend of mine who is a Christian and holier … [Read more...]

Brenda Thompson: Rainbeau Dating Over 40

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By: Brenda Thompson People believe a lot of silly things about women over 40. It’s as if once we cross that threshold, we are no longer hot and … [Read more...]

Oneika: To Berlin with Her Boo!

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2012 is the year of the black traveller. I spent the holidays in Germany with my significant other and rang in 2012 in the streets of … [Read more...]

Janice on, "Where in the World?" The Best (and worst) Places to Have an Interracial Relationship

The Best and Worst Places to Get Your Swirl On

_________________________________________ Blast from the Past! Brought back for our current audience to read & comment on. Originally … [Read more...]

Social Graces 101: Manners and Social Graces in Courtship and Romance

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Social Graces 101: Manners and Social graces in courtship and romance "If a gentleman approaches you with words of flattery, and profuse attentions, … [Read more...]

Video: “Get the Guy” Expert, Matthew Hussey Explains Why [some] Men Lose Interest as Soon as You Show Yours

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Even seen this guy before? Let me first just say this and get it out of the way: I'll bet a lot of chicks want relationship advice on how to get … [Read more...]

Does Sexy Have an Expiration Date?

TRJ, Sexy, Birthday, Expiration Date, Love, Relationships, Self Esteem,

Today is my birthday. Try as I may, I'm sitting here focused on the wrong perspective and "the real" meaning behind my turning 39 years old. I'm … [Read more...]

Kathy Henry: “I Wonder What It’d Be Like to Be a White Woman, Just for a Day.”

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Kathy Henry, The Black Feminista First of all, I would like to state that I love being a black woman. I love the beautiful brownness of my skin, … [Read more...]