Let me tell you something about me....... I'm, shall we say, energetic...... I've been burning the candle at both ends since my infant days. I … [Read more...]
*Special*, Dating & Marrying Ethnic Men, Gender Conflict, Guests of the Inner Sanctum, Living, Relationships, Swirling Singles, Thriving
Come Hither: Dirty Old Man or Experienced Lover? Let’s Talk About it!!
*Special*, Guests of the Inner Sanctum, Living, No Wedding, No Womb!, Relationships, Religion & Spirituality
Identifying Black Counterproductive Behavior: “Having Babies” Versus “Becoming Mothers”
I'm a true believe in the power of words to shape how one interacts and communicates their experience with the world. Because I've always done more … [Read more...]
Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women As Tools of the Trade
I used the term 'equally yoked' for no other reason then the fact that I can't fucking stand the damn phrase. When I hear anyone say it, and I recall … [Read more...]
Give the Gift of Words……A Book of Cursed Poem and Verse
I've had my head stuck in the sand for a few weeks while recovering from the hurricane and an abrupt adjustment in my work career. I guess I should be … [Read more...]
Dating & Marrying Ethnic Men, Gender Conflict, Guests of the Inner Sanctum, Living, Relationships, Swirling Singles
I Love Men….But The Question Is……Do You?!
Now it can never be said that TRJ is a man hater. Chile, bye, in all actuality, I'll chase a man down like a hound dog sprinting behind an innocent … [Read more...]
*uncategorized*, Black Women's Empowerment, Guests of the Inner Sanctum, History, Politics, Religion & Spirituality
Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women as Beasts of Burden
The mule possesses the even temper, patience, endurance and sure-footedness of the donkey, and the vigor, strength and courage of the horse. Operators … [Read more...]
“Expires By…” Do You Know When to Dump Your Toothbrush?
It’s best not to ruminate about how much bacteria are on your toothbrush. Chances are its chock full of them from the first time you use … [Read more...]
The Doctor is In: Five Reasons Why Powerful Men Cheat
5 Reasons Why Powerful Men Cheat By Terri Orbuch PhD What motivates men like Gen. David Petraeus, who seemingly "has it all," to throw away his … [Read more...]
Takers, Makers and Shakers
I sit at my computer trying to come up with a solution to the current state of affairs I find myself in. As the sole breadwinner in my two person … [Read more...]
My Birthday: Act Three
*****Part one and two can be found here if you need to catch up or are wondering WTF....is going on***** The phone rings once and he picks up. I … [Read more...]
TRJ Shrinks Yo’ Mind: Why Some Black Women Can’t Take a Compliment
After the simple post that turned into a not so simple chaotic room full of people fussing at each other, our resident W/men folk posed a question … [Read more...]