Guests of the Inner Sanctum

“Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solutio...

October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. Tracy Renee Jones explains why "just ignoring" blatant abuse is never a solution....
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Shy Interracial Daters: Are You Wasting Your Time ...

"These are pillars of salt who stay stuck right where they are, in that detrimental mindset. Most will die having never married. Oddly enough, a well-...
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Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

How important is sex...........? And when does it become the deal breaker....?...
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Photo(s) of the Day/Night: Me and My Buddy Matthew...

Yes; Mr. Get-The-Guy Hussey is gorgeous. Take it in--I know many of you are panting right now....
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Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Check...

If you read the first part of my little 'how to' on being a man magnet diva, you already learned a few new tricks meant to catch the eye of any red bl...
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TRJ on, “No Need For Permission: Because Som...

"When someone wants you to be less than what you are only so they can THINK they're better, you have a duty to your family and yourself to be all that...
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V, The Writer: “Bottom of the Barrel? Stop ...

"When I see a black male degrade a black woman, I don’t see the black: I see the beta. I see a man who refuses to compete with other men for quality...
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Brenda Brody: PRIDE

"Stop worrying about what somebody else says or wants or does. Be positive. Have you ever seen the way David Bowie looks at Iman? And have you read th...
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Baby…..Momma…..July 18, 1990

Sometimes, we need to look at the other side of things. I'm so grateful to know Tracy Renee Jones. She's a soul-full soul. She thinks deeply. She love...
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Leona’s Love Quest Part XII- SWM seeks Outdoors...

“My dog is named Beau. He is really sweet. He turns 13 on July 7th. Taking hikes with him on some of the local trails is one of my favorite things....
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Young Black Girls and the Future of Swirling

What's the future look like for young black girls who crush on rainbeaus?...
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