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Brenda55: “Why talk about Black men at all?&...

Why do we ALWAYS have to give the disclaimer that we're not just a bunch of black-man haters??...
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White Man At Odds With Black Wife’s Family O...

I came across this post shared by a member of a private group I belong to on Facebook. She was seeking our thoughts on the issue and I had to chime i...
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Do you plan to change your last name when you get ...

Last year a controversial tweet about women changing their last name went zooming around the internet:"Mr. Wrong will compromise your purity and then ...
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Yet ANOTHER Off Topic Thread!!

You asked, I delivered. OT away!...
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Episode VI: Return of the Memo for the Ongoing Bat...

Emperor Kneegrowplease has attempted to execute Order What-The-Cuss, a mental override code intended to stop the flow of persons joining the Rebellio...
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Damaged vs. Damaged Beyond Repair vs. Work-in-Prog...

Question: What are some other ways to differentiate between someone who is "damaged beyond repair" and a "work in progress"?...
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New Study Suggests Pretty Women Have Less Casual S...

Welp, here's some new study that seems to inherently make a whole lot of sense. Just like the study that says people who eat real vegetables are healt...
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Would You Ever Protect a Racist From Physical Harm...

This woman threw herself to protect a man who hated her simply for the color of her skin. Could you have done it?...
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Weight Loss Surgery? Sometimes You Just Need Help

Hear some real, compassionate talk from a former gastric bypass patient....
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Up for a BB&W Meet Up In New York City Today ...

Why not take all this togetherness online, offline?...
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#Scandal Returns…Is It All You’d Ever ...

It's that time again......
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#NWNW ‘Truce’ with Prominent Social Me...

Me and prominent writer and prominent social media feminist, Tami Winfrey Harris had a Twitter exchange regarding her article about Shawty Lo in "Clut...
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Question of the Week: English White Guy Asks Me Ho...

I received this note from "J," a young man living in England who is interested in black women, but it unsure how to approach them. After you read this...
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Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women as ...

Celebrating the myth of the Strong Black Woman has mistakenly become an aspiration and an inspiration to those in certain demographics of the Black Co...
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