“Getting A Black Man Is The Best A Black Wom...

Take a look at how some middle-aged black woman made an attempt to brainwash Jamila's daughter!... READ MORE

Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to conti...

It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what she's saying, and it echos so much of what we teach, p... READ MORE

How Can Black Women Thrive in a Racist Society?

I read some articles over the weekend that left me shocked, angry, and speechless. The first was about a high school principal accused of racist verba... READ MORE

Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “T...

I wrote the first part in response to the negative attitudes I'd seen from single black women regarding marriage. Specifically people who have never b... READ MORE

Transform Your Inner Critic Into An Inner Coach

"As black women, we can sometimes feel as if we have critics on every street corner and down every avenue. But, as bad as those critics are, the worse... READ MORE

Don’t Be a Rachel Jeantel

Now that things have died down a bit, I had to say something.... READ MORE

Apologize For Wanting To Be (Or Being) Happy? Pfff...

Turns out whites AND blacks expect you to live a miserable life.... READ MORE

Relationship Red Flags: The Longer You Accept the ...

If your tolerance for foolishness is high, you might not recognize the signs of dysfunction. Read and learn.... READ MORE

Like Attracts Like: Do You Really Know What It Mea...

NOTE: This post is ONLY for women who WANT to get married and have families. If this isn't you, you might just want to check out Tanisha's post on bla... READ MORE

Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “T...

Ever wonder why these women get so mad? It's because the topic of black women in loving relationships where they are married and thriving is like a do... READ MORE

My Advice to You…..Consider the Source

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ... READ MORE

Paying It Forward: What Does BB&W Owe BWE?

BB&W is officially not a BWE blog, yet in practice and intent, BB&W is very much a BWE blog. ... my purpose is to direct the attention of the ... READ MORE

Vetting Aabaakawad (aka Eubie Drew)

One prominent blogger has concluded that, because I made two short comments recently, on a couple of blogs, that were in poor taste, and because she k... READ MORE

Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: ...

I think in order to better understand why black men as a topic come up in BW-centric and BWE spaces, you must understand why they do not come up. ... READ MORE