Ever Been Too Embarrassed to Go Out with Your Rainbeau?


Robin Thicke is straight ratchet. He says in an interview with Howard Stern that he smokes weed all day long. With a kid. Not to be all judge-y … [Read more...]

Zo-Mi-Gorsh! Oprah’s Mega-Fro on the Cover of “O” Magazine!

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Only in my wildest dreams could I envisage having an afro this big. I mean, is that stuff REAL?! Real or not, Oprah has the best hair on the planet … [Read more...]

Video: Fat & Curly Twist Tutorial

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I've gotten a bunch of requests from folks about how I acheived this look. So without further ado... … [Read more...]

QOTW: “I Can’t Stand My Black Girlfriend’s ‘Hood’ Name!”


  My black girlfriend, who I both like and love, has one of those crazy made-up "hood" names (her descriptive phrase, not mine) that defies … [Read more...]

“Blindian” Love! Best Wedding Video Ever!!

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I ran across this video via our Facebook fan page after Stephanie and Vijay sent me a wedding photo from their recent nuptials on June 21. Someone … [Read more...]

A “Must Download” for the Online Dater…

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This is me, only...slightly glow-y. My eyes are brighter, my teeth whiter, my face smoother. This is a common technique professional photographers … [Read more...]

Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to continue to have children with men who don’t honor us.”


AND THE CHURCH SAID....AMEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNTTTTT! It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what … [Read more...]

Texting Tricks Every Girl Should Know…


I ran across this video by "Mehow," a self-proclaimed pick-up artist. At first, I was struck at how nerdy and corny this guy looks, but once you get … [Read more...]

Stuff I Like: Urban Decay Has Nail Polish!!


Urban Decay has a nail polish in my favorite shade of purple. Are you all aware of how much I LOVE purple? If not...take a look around. Anywhoo, I'm … [Read more...]

“Extreme Weight Loss” Episode Highlights Black Women’s Deep Denial About Obesity


If you got a chance to catch ABC's "Extreme Weight Loss" on Tuesday, then you got to meet the intelligent, beautiful, bubbly, ambitious and morbidly … [Read more...]

Time for Another Off-Topic Thread!

Better Be Prompt!

  Wait until the new site is up and our forum gets popping. You guys won't know what to do with yourselves.   XOXO Your Hostess … [Read more...]