(Bonus) Man Candy Monday: World Cup Hotties!!


Is it just me, but is there some special gene that footballers have in common that makes them smoking hot? I mean, I'm a soccer mom in name only--I … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: The Asian Mystery Man


This photo has been making it's way up and down my timeline and I can't help it. I need to know who this guy is, he's gorgeous and so is the younger … [Read more...]

R.I.P. Ruby Dee: Ossie Is Waiting for His Lady on The Other Side


The world is mourning the departure of yet another of our brightest stars. Actress, activist, and author Ruby Dee has died of natural causes at the … [Read more...]

Are You Going to the NYC Loving Day Celebration or Nah?

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I'll be attending the 11th annual Loving Day celebration in New York City this coming Saturday. I hope to see some our regular readers there since … [Read more...]

New BB&W Writer Talks College Dating and Kissing Frogs


By fellow BB&W poster, "SomethingDifferent22" When I was a child I used to listen to stories of princess with some chagrin. Even as a child I … [Read more...]

Is Your Bad Credit Affecting Your Romantic Relationships?

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If you have less than stellar credit, you may believe that living a cash-only existence, is a way around your bad credit rating. You may also believe … [Read more...]

When Exploring The Global Village Becomes A Nightmare

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A dedicated teacher with a Phd in her field is a dream for any public high school, right? Unfortunately for Dr. Cicely Cobb, it was a nightmare.  She … [Read more...]

Halle Ordered to Pay $16K a Month in Child Support. Is it Fair?

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Trending right now is the unusual court decision handed down that Halle Berry pay her daughter's father, Gabriel Aubrey, $16,000 per month in child … [Read more...]

Does This Picture Offend You? Now, Ask Yourself, WHY.

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Social media is up in arms because a recent graduate is proudly displaying both her cap and gown and a partial breast to feed her infant. Predictably … [Read more...]

Let Um Know…. I’m Not Here for THAT!!

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Time for a public service announcement from the good people that occupy the head space of Tracy Renee Jones. Read for clarity and content if you never … [Read more...]