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DISGUSTING! Father Beats 13 Year-Old Girl, Mother ...

What I find most disgusting about this video is how the mother is so gleeful in her blood lust, egging this man (is he her father?) to beat her, calli...
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Thank God Your Statuses Are Worth a Dang! New Stud...

Better think real hard about what you write on your next Facebook status update. Your selfie could be the butterfly wing that starts the tsunami. Evid...
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Move Over, Halle–Lupita Up for the Role of X...

I spend a large amount of time on social media.  I would dare to say at times its an unhealthy amount, since I can easily spend hours and hours enjoy...
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London Calling…”Swirlr” Covered ...

Okay now I’m feeling legit. Daily Mail is bomb.com. Guess those folks in the UK watch CNN too, because it’s pretty much a transcript of wh...
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Have You Seen the Adorable “Annie” Tra...

“Annie” was one of my most-loved movies of all time. I introduced my children to it and it’s a pleasure we share together. I must ad...
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Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College...

Have you been following the story of 18-year-old college student, Rachel Canning, who is suing her parents, demanding that they pay for her high schoo...
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Latest from Robin Thicke: “I’m Just Tr...

Well it looks like Robin might be seriously regretting how much he’s been acting a fool. Like I mentioned in an earlier post, Robin has always t...
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Tyrese Gibson Speaks on DBR Men “They Love L...

What will it take for some women to realize that some dudes just aren’t worth having? The comment section will routinely blow up during conversa...
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Oh Sh!t…Robin Thicke and Paula Patton Divorc...

Well I guess some rumors you can believe, especially when they come on like a torrent. On the heels of Robin Thicke’s success with his latest al...
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Swirling In History: Vintage News Clippings of Cou...

We don’t need Black History Month to know about swirling black women throughout history.  But since it is February, and I like history I though...
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Legion of Doom Mothers on Steroids — What th...

This one is breaking my heart. I am very sympathetic to victims of domestic violence to a point. I have seen a lot of crimes and issued lots of arrest...
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Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working”...

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK mot...
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You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind R...

In my previous article on the whole “gold digger” meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the wo...
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