“Why You’re Not Married…Yet,” a Review by ‘ASwirlGirl’

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  ASwirlGirl Why You’re Not Married . . . Yet – The Straight Talk You Need to Get the Relationship You Deserve by Tracy McMillan is based … [Read more...]

Black Women Need to Start “Swirling Into Reality” Says Kola Boof

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“Swirl Into Reality” By Kola Boof “Swirling”—a social term that refers to the recent interracial dating boom in America is now a crucially important … [Read more...]

January Book of the Month: “Wicked Success Is Inside Every Woman”

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Yes; I know we're nine days into January, but sorry--I've been kinda busy. In 2012 I'm committed to making sure me and you ladies learn some stuff so … [Read more...]

Book Discussion: “Is Marriage for White People?”

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The discussion is now open! Here's my first question just to get the conversation started. Get out your wine and cheese, cuz this is gonna be … [Read more...]

BB&W Book Discussion: Kola Boof and “The Sexy Part of the Bible”

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It's a holiday, so you have NO EXCUSE for not listening to me and Kola's hour-long interview about her new novel, The Sexy Part of the Bible. You … [Read more...]

June Book Discussion!! “Substitute Me”


We talk a lot here about the 'mammy' stereotype, the sexless black woman who cares for the household and is absolutely NO competition to the … [Read more...]