Buzzfeed Does Creative Video On Who’s Most Interested in Interracial Dating. What’s Your Take?

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So what does this video reveal? Racial biases and stereotypes still persist. But who gives a shit? It all a numbers game, so play to win. … [Read more...]

Episode Two of “Swirlr” is Here!

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Sorry for the delay, folks. The editors are, well...very persnickety. In this episode, we follow the men and women we picked as good potential … [Read more...]

Video: Singer Dencia Says on Camera, “White Means Pure.”

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Ugh. Every time I hear this woman talk I like her less. Not only is she snappy and catty, that ridiculous blond wig and balloon boobs speaks for … [Read more...]

Big, Bold and Beautiful: I’m Loving NeNe Leakes on Season 18 of DWTS

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I don't know how you feel about NeNe Leakes, or if you even follow the reality show fodder enough to know who she is. But there is one thing that … [Read more...]

It’s Here! The First Episode of “Swirlr”

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Sorry for the delay, but worry not, lovelies...here's the first episode. I had a lot of fun with Kurt and Quintana. Both are young, and both … [Read more...]

Dear Black People, Can We Support More Songs Like This?!

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Okay I'm loving Pharrel right now. He killed it at the Oscars last night, and I loved how Lupita jumped in to get her grove on! Yes; Pharrel looks … [Read more...]

What’s In A Name?

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From time to time we discuss names black Americans give their children.  I have seen some pretty outlandish names encroached upon innocent children … [Read more...]

Video: “Black Women Get a Special Kind of Shade,” Says Me, Talking to Tom Joyner TV

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Check out my interview with Nikki Woods, producer for Tom Joyner TV and Black America Web, and I get pretty real about the challenges that black women … [Read more...]

Praise Jesus! Black Women Leaving the Church for Some REAL Soul Feeding

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I ran across news of the book, "The Ebony Exodus Project: Why Some Black Women Are Walking out on Religion—and Others Should Too" in one of my … [Read more...]

Video: Black Girl Gets the Princess Treatment, Marries Adorable Rainbeau in a Castle!

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I just got an email from the bride in this video, and one look completely took my breath away. She was treated how I hope every black woman in the … [Read more...]

Christelyn Karazin Addresses Critics of Her Interracial Dating Advocacy!

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My, my, my. It seems to be that there's some folks really feeling some kinda way about my promotion of interracial relationships with black women. … [Read more...]