Can We Please Stop with the Black Woman Fetish Hysteria?

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I've watched with delight over the passed week since covering the Oscars and relishing in Lupita's victory and observed all the speculation about what … [Read more...]

Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out

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Attention haters, I have a confession. I only engage you in conversation in order to do the following: To demonstrate how much of an idiot you are, to … [Read more...]

Legion of Doom Mothers on Steroids — What the Cuss?

Andrea Walker, Paula Johnson, society, crime, motherhood, domestic violence, murder, children, culture, abuse, violence, news,

This one is breaking my heart. I am very sympathetic to victims of domestic violence to a point. I have seen a lot of crimes and issued lots of arrest … [Read more...]

Roseanne Barr is Running for President, and She Thinks Siding With Known Black-Woman Haters Will Get Her the Black Vote.

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Some say that the more natural of political alliances are between the black man and the white woman. The theory is because both of them have the same … [Read more...]

…And This Man Calls Himself a “Prophet,” While Condemning Interracial Families.

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In the new media age, where ratchetry can be disseminated globally in a matter of seconds, I'm starting to wonder just how many preachers and … [Read more...]

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

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I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK … [Read more...]

You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind “Feminism”


In my previous article on the whole "gold digger" meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the word gold … [Read more...]

End Racial Descriptions in Crime Alerts – What the Cuss?

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(credit: CBS)   There has been a recent uproar at the University of Minnesota because a black student was misidentified as a burglary suspect.  … [Read more...]

A Sister Reacts to Accusation of Race Betrayal

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I was given permission by L. B. Kelle to share a recent experience she had.  Now I know the loyal readers of BBW would have some choice words to say … [Read more...]

Does This Woman Offend You?

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I'm making my rounds this morning to read all the news, rags and gossip and was struck by this woman.   Before I read the story, I took … [Read more...]

Is There Any Group That Blames the Victims Worse?!

Omar Sheree Stevenson, Mademoiselle, black media, black blogs, urban, reading, news, victims, blaming, black women, black men, Blackistan, attack, street harassment, sexual abuse

So I'm reading about this miscreant who threw a bowling ball at a woman's HEAD for not accepting his offer to buy her a drink, and the author over at … [Read more...]