Five More Behaviors That Keep BW Losing

Written by Nicole Earlier this month I wrote a post about five behaviors and beliefs that keep black women losing. Today I have an update on that list... READ MORE

Phrases You’ll Hear on your Divestment Journ...

Written by Nicole The Divestment Movement has been picking up steam on social media in recent months/years. I myself do not identify as “divested”... READ MORE

The Many Benefactors of BW’s Low Self-Esteem

Written by Nicole If you think about it, despite the mantra of Black Girl Magic, and (harmful, pervasive) declarations of being a Strong Black Woman, ... READ MORE

Dating Trend: FICO Before F^&Kbois Challenge

Written by Nicole We all know dating is hard, the dating pool is kind of…contaminated, and character over color is the name of the game. As the ... READ MORE

5 Behaviors/Beliefs That Keep BW LOSING

Written by Nicole Everybody wants to be a winner. To the victor goes the spoils. History is told by the winners. The person that said winning isn’t ... READ MORE

Black Women: Pawn, Cannon Fodder, Sacrifice

Written by Nicole A thirty second clip from a march in Louisville, Kentucky, protesting the lack of justice for Breonna Taylor, has started making the... READ MORE

A Look at Sexual Abuse in the Black Community

Written by Nicole ***Trigger warning: mentions of sexual abuse*** I cannot tell you how many news articles I have seen that boldly states “Man/Woman... READ MORE

Black Love: Lessons in Marrying Down

Written by Nicole 2020 continues to be one hell of a year. There has been tragedy and triumph, natural disasters at every corner, and of course, Miss ... READ MORE

The “I Only Protect Females In My Family” Lie

Written by Nicole (Trigger warning: mentions of rape, murder) In the last few weeks of summer, we have seen an uptick in discussions around “protect... READ MORE

Beware the Struggle Hypothetical

Written by Nicole Ladies, would you date an unemployed high school drop-out whose current address is the couch of whichever friend is letting him cras... READ MORE

4 Words That Will Change BW’s Lives FOREVER

Written by Nicole Throughout social media there are scores of black women looking for “The Answer”. The Question in need of answering varies depen... READ MORE

Candace Owens is Pregnant! My thoughts

Written by Nicole I know I’m in the minority when I say I like Candace Owens. She goes against the grain, and while I do not agree with much of her ... READ MORE

Six Things for Black Women to Cancel for 2020+

Written by Nicole 2020 has been the year of cancellation. The year itself has been cancelled, and it took everything, from a political darling’s car... READ MORE

Would You Give Up $135,000 For the Culture?

Written by Nicole An interracial couple made the news this week after having their house under-appraised to the tune of $135,000. The first appraisal ... READ MORE