Striking Out Online Dating? Candy Tolentino Gives ...

Striking out online dating? Make sure you're armed with these tips to help separate the wheat from the chaff.... READ MORE

Second Memo: BWE/IRR-blog sites are STILL NOT your...

Toni's telling it like it t-i-is!... READ MORE

A Response to “Do You Want to Date a White G...

What is it with this hair stuff?!... READ MORE

Is Anyone Else Tired Of All The IR Lectures Direct...

Black woman, you are free to "be" just like everyone else!... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “I’m in College ...

Some big sister advice is needed for this youngin'...... READ MORE

Jamila: Black People Do Have a Different Cultural ...

"Yeah, it takes a "village" unfortunately there won't be a village in about three generations, why? because three generations of Black children won't ... READ MORE

The Ricki Lake Show is Looking for Folks to Tell O...

The producers are looking for swirlers!... READ MORE

Young Black Girls and the Future of Swirling

What's the future look like for young black girls who crush on rainbeaus?... READ MORE

She’s Moving On: Race Woman No More

"As long as Black women continue to accept their subordinate status in the Black community, Black people will continue their descent into the gutter. ... READ MORE

The “Black” box or the “Woman...

You see, there are persons who consciously or unconsciously look at me and decide I have to choose a box to jump into: BLACK or WOMAN. Surprisingly, i... READ MORE

BB&W Up Close: When a White Dad Feels He Fail...

"I did not guard the cave and protect my tribe, not even when given a stage and a microphone. I put my need to avoid embarrassment and to gain the ap... READ MORE

You Just Can’t Ignore It: Cultural Outlooks ...

Oh. My. Gosh. Take a look at the percentage of black out-of-wedlock births. Your mind will explode.... READ MORE

ASwirlGirl: An Ode to Cutesy and Corny

How do Cutesy and Corny display themselves in the "everyday clothes" of your relationship? What Cutesy and Corny things have you dared to do - or hope... READ MORE

IRR Book Excerpt: “Dirty Secrets”

What's better than a little interracial romance on a Sunday afternoon?... READ MORE