Relationships

Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dat...

A 24-year-old rainbeau asks my advice on dating older black women...let the discussions begin!!...
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Doctors in Love! Swirling Success Story!

Got this note and I was tickled pink! Amazeballs and awesome sauce!...
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Love Class! Dating Out of the Box: Interracial, In...

BB&W special guest, Abrams discusses Interracial Relationships, Interfaith Love and Online Dating with Author Damona Hoffman, a columnist for JDate a...
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Swirling Women History Makers Vice Admiral Michell...

In honor of Women's History Month, I wanted to profile a special swirling black woman. I could not think of a more fitting role model, outstanding le...
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Swirling After Forty: One Woman’s Success St...

"To the single women over 40 who are reading this: Don't give up. If you just believe that you will find someone in your life, you will. I truly be...
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A White Guy’s Honest Opinion About Black Wom...

Here's a warning: Ladies who are doggedly defensive about anyone ever saying anything critical about their physique might want to scroll on to the nex...
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Hypergamy and Black Women Marrying Up

I think my blog, The New Elegant Black Woman, is all about hypergamy and becoming a high quality woman, because it feels great to be one and because i...
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Whoa, Mama! Halle Berry Pregnant…Again!!

I've got to say I did not see this coming. TMZ reported less than an hour ago that Halle Berry is pregnant...again. This time with The Squinter's off...
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On Vetting: Could You Be Deceived?

I know that I installed the word "VET" into my vocabulary as I found myself coaching more and more women on finding suitable mates. What if someone d...
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Question of the Week: “How Do I Get Over My ...

"I was in a 4 years relationship with a MARRIED man...I traded my self esteem for some shoes and good food? I can’t believe it and I will never for...
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Love Has EVERYTHING to Do With It: Tina Turner Fin...

Speaking of black women who never seem to age, I'm thinking Miss Turner (soon to be Missus Turner) is not only a cougar, but a vampire....
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The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 1

I have observed behaviors in black women, self included, that made me think of the Kübler-Ross model or "Five Stages of Grief". Many black women have...
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Leona’s Love Quest Part XXI- Not Letting the Pe...

Wasn’t it Voltaire who said “Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good?” Lately I have been wondering if I need to take Voltaire’s advi...
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He put a ring on it, Now what? Part 2: The Guys sp...

After the overwhelming response from the previous post , I decided to pick the brains of some men and collected their thoughts and feelings about thei...
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