“Getting A Black Man Is The Best A Black Wom...

Take a look at how some middle-aged black woman made an attempt to brainwash Jamila's daughter!... READ MORE

Living a Better Life – Gratitude for BB&...

I believe I found BB&W shortly after it launched. At that time, I was in a really, really bad place. Poor dating decisions had taken a serious tol... READ MORE

My Favorite Swirling Cities

I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like ... READ MORE

Do We Have To Get Rid Of The Strong Black Woman?

Why do so many of us feel that the strong black woman archetype has harmed us? What's so bad about assertiveness or resilience?... READ MORE

About Singledom: “But What If GAWD Sends You...

Oh boy...or girl...... READ MORE

Watch Zoe Saldana and Christian Bale in the First ...

Zoe Saldana has GOT to be the luckiest Afro-Latina actress in Hollywood right now...... READ MORE

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 –...

Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)…. I want to share my ru... READ MORE

Time for Another Off-Topic Thread!

Wait until the new site is up and our forum gets popping. You guys won't know what to do with yourselves.... READ MORE

How Can Black Women Thrive in a Racist Society?

I read some articles over the weekend that left me shocked, angry, and speechless. The first was about a high school principal accused of racist verba... READ MORE

A Black Car and a Black Woman, the Two Loves of Mi...

Are you watching?... READ MORE

Newtons: The Fruit Cookie My Kids Eat Nuts and Ber...

What can I say? They like what they like...... READ MORE

Accepting Black Women Just As They Are

July 19, 2013   Dearest Black Community,   Darlings, I have been thinking about the way that I view Black women and Black people in general ... READ MORE

Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Fam...

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and ... READ MORE

Skepticism about Mentoring

I just read a comment on a blog that basically said, if these middle-class educated people have such a problem with underclass Black people people, th... READ MORE