*uncategorized*

Two Non-Bandwagon Products I’m Using to Keep...

Summer in Southern California means dry heat that can shrivel everything…from the plants in my garden, to my skin and hair. Where my hair is con...
READ MORE

In Season in the “Beauty Garden”…...

Hot summer months means eggplants…and lots of them. You’re probably noticing that these are on sale at your local market, so nows your cha...
READ MORE

Grow It in a Bag: Patio-To-Plate Encourages Contai...

As I turn off a dusty road in Temecula wine country, I can’t help but be impressed with Catrina’s green house, where she’s growing j...
READ MORE

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Rel...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?...
READ MORE

Valid Excuse? Why You’re Not Seeing a New Po...

Well…most of you know I’m the mom of four children. An AMBITIOUS mom for four children. I decided that on the 11th birthday of my middle-t...
READ MORE

The Evolution of a Swirler: One Guy Tells His Stor...

We often ponder over the idea of preference, but it’s rare that we get a personal story from a man’s perspective. What is more interesting...
READ MORE

The New and Improved. BB&W Open thread

Today is Father’s Day tell us something nice about your old man.  ...
READ MORE
death, literary, icon, entertainment, poet, black women icon, activist, Harlem, educator, influence, self esteem, perception,

RIP Maya Angelou: A Phenomenal Woman Has Left the ...

Famed poet, activist, and author Maya Angelou has died at the age of 86. We send her family, friends and the literary community our heartfelt condolen...
READ MORE
advice, Youtube, black men, culture, destructive behaviors, children, abandonment, warning, video, dating, single motherhood, pregnancy, fatherless children, casual sex, regrets, young women,

Femininity Series Part II: Why Black Women Aren...

Not long ago a study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom, both professors of economics at Hamilton College, revealed that black women aren’...
READ MORE
penis, men, sexual satisfaction, dating non black men, black women, good in bed, small penis, satisfied in bed, between the sheets, interracial marriage, ethnic men, black women and white men, no black men, mandingo, blended couples, dating, relationships, virgins, experience, expectations, females, gender, african american, black american women, sexuality, desire, pop culture, feminism,

Happy Humpday: A Tiny Ember or a Raging Inferno (D...

Congratulations! You’ve made it to midweek. Only a few more days to go. So since you’ve got some time on your hands and may find yourself ...
READ MORE

Chef Bob: Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera

Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera Serves 24. Having a party, or just want to impress your friends?  This is the ultimate party food. A fresh veggie ...
READ MORE

Snow Be Damned!! Container Gardening 101

CONTAINER GARDENING 101 I just thought I would write a quick article to answer this reader’s question and for any one else out there who is inte...
READ MORE

Star Talk: Summer Babies’ Astrological Fashi...

“Summer lovin, had me a blast. Summer lovin’ happen so fast. Met a boy as cute as can be….oh oh those summer nights..” Most of...
READ MORE

The Great Debate: Should WM and BW Get Together Be...

Anyone that hangs around IR blogs for a significant length of time,  has already noticed that *some* black women express the following: “Black ...
READ MORE