Jennette McCurdy Messed with the Wrong Dude; Hit Show Gets Cancelled After Andre Drummond (Allegedly) Leaks Racy Photos


There's a lesson in here somewhere, I'm sure of it. Jennette McCurdy, co-star of the hit Nick show, Sam and Cat, got a rude awakening after she messed … [Read more...]

Gabriel Aubry Enjoys Spring Break with Nahla; Comments on How Much Emma Looks Like Her.

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One thing you can always be certain of is, you hang around the haunts of LA types and you'll eventually see some celebrities. That's what happened … [Read more...]

Photo of the Day: I Smile, Through Chaffed Thighs.


I write this piece, dirty and dusty, after 1.5 hours on a cantankerous horse that I think was trying to kill me today on a trail in the Santa Barbara … [Read more...]

Who Gets Away With Raping Innocent Kids? Blackinstani Folks and Really Rich White People.


This headline stuck in my craw this evening: "Du Pont Heir Gets Probation for RAPING Three-Year-Old Daughter." The suuummmbitch... And why, … [Read more...]

My Take on the Jamilah Lemieux Liberal vs. Conservative Kerfuffle

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When I first heard about the recent news that Jamilah Lemieux, editor of, got called out for her dismissive attitude toward conservatives … [Read more...]

Did You Know? Black Women Are Bashed On You Tube for Page Views.

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I dapple a little on You Tube as you know, and the more time I spend there, the more I realize that there's some sort of culture being formed by the … [Read more...]

Five Reasons Sociopaths Are So Good In Bed

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He takes you to a five-star hotel and whispers to the concierge before you go into the room. You have drinks and he won't take his eyes--almost … [Read more...]

Is It Kosher? Yes; It Is. New Book Teaches You How to Eat Healthy the Jewish Way (Recipe Included)

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Chicken and Okra Serves 8 Ingredients 1 whole organic chicken, cut into 8 pieces 1 teaspoon paprika 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon … [Read more...]

A Letter from a Teenager Who Found BB&W

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When I get notes like this, I swear, everything makes sense. So glad more girls and women are coming out of the shadows and telling their truth. And … [Read more...]

I Love Yoga, But I’ll Keep My Clothes On, Thankyouverymuch!

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You guys know I'm a huge advocate of yoga. Yoga has literally transformed my body and my health and I've been a faithful follower of yoga for nearly a … [Read more...]

The Proof is In the Photos (and Research). Paleo Works.

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Two initially conflicting reports about high protein diets have recently appeared in the news. One study suggests that middle aged adults with a high … [Read more...]