Come Hither: Dirty Old Man or Experienced Lover? Let’s Talk About it!!

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Let me tell you something about me....... I'm, shall we say, energetic...... I've been burning the candle at both ends since my infant days. I … [Read more...]

Identifying Black Counterproductive Behavior: “Having Babies” Versus “Becoming Mothers”

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I'm a true believe in the power of words to shape how one interacts and communicates their experience with the world. Because I've always done more … [Read more...]

Give the Gift of Words……A Book of Cursed Poem and Verse

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I've had my head stuck in the sand for a few weeks while recovering from the hurricane and an abrupt adjustment in my work career. I guess I should be … [Read more...]

Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women as Beasts of Burden


The mule possesses the even temper, patience, endurance and sure-footedness of the donkey, and the vigor, strength and courage of the horse. Operators … [Read more...]

TRJ Shrinks Yo’ Mind: Why Some Black Women Can’t Take a Compliment

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After the simple post that turned into a not so simple chaotic room full of people fussing at each other, our resident W/men folk posed a question … [Read more...]

“Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior


Women walk down certain streets in certain neighborhoods and get verbally assaulted daily. These women change their style dress thinking too much calf … [Read more...]