“Expires By…” Do You Know When to Dump Your Toothbrush?

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  It’s best not to ruminate about how much bacteria are on your toothbrush.  Chances are its chock full of them from the first time you use … [Read more...]

The Doctor is In: Five Reasons Why Powerful Men Cheat


5 Reasons Why Powerful Men Cheat By Terri Orbuch PhD What motivates men like Gen. David Petraeus, who seemingly "has it all," to throw away his … [Read more...]

Takers, Makers and Shakers

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I sit at my computer trying to come up with a solution to the current state of affairs I find myself in. As the sole breadwinner in my two person … [Read more...]

My Birthday: Act Three

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*****Part one and two can be found here if you need to catch up or are wondering WTF....is going on***** The phone rings once and he picks up. I … [Read more...]

My Birthday: Part Too

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Part "Too" or Part "Won" The phone barely rang before she answered "Tracy?!" "Um, yeah. Its Tracy. Sorry I hung up. I'm at work and needed to take … [Read more...]

A Black Conservative Woman’s Take on Mitt Romney and Black Mormons


I am a proud conservative republican and Mitt Romney supporter.  With the level of vitriol hurled at black conservatives, I was not going to chime in … [Read more...]

Mammy, the Mule and Equally Yoked: Observations of Black Female Gender Identity


To continue the conversation regarding the issues we see displayed by certain females of the Black Community I decided to dissect a few contributing … [Read more...]

“Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior


Women walk down certain streets in certain neighborhoods and get verbally assaulted daily. These women change their style dress thinking too much calf … [Read more...]

Shy Interracial Daters: Are You Wasting Your Time Being a “Pillar of Salt” Woman?

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Almost all of us know the story of Lot and Sodom and Gomorrah from the Bible. We know what happened to Lot’s wife when she decided to remain in a … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XVI- “I’m Having a Hard Time Getting Over the Relationship We Were Never In”

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  If you haven’t yet discovered someecards.com, a website that never fails to come up with exactly the right snarky, sardonic musings for any … [Read more...]

Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

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As the resident sex-pert and relationship voyeur I'm often asked questions about the birds, the bees and....sex among and between humans. I'm not … [Read more...]